Join me weekly, as I dive into the intricate connections between BDSM and psychology. Discover the latest research, community interactions, and key issues. Whether you're a seasoned participant or curious, tune in to enhance your understanding of the kink world.
Join me weekly, as I dive into the intricate connections between BDSM and psychology. Discover the latest research, community interactions, and key issues. Whether you're a seasoned participant or curious, tune in to enhance your understanding of the kink world.
On today’s show, I discuss what happens when sadism shifts from a chosen erotic expression to the only way a top feels seen, safe, or connected. We’ll explore how dominance can begin with presence and intention, but over time, turn into emotional regulation or even identity. This episode isn’t about shame, it’s about reflection. I’ll walk through the psychological dynamics that can make control feel necessary, the signs that dominance may be replacing vulnerability, and how to return to sadism as agency, not survival.
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