Content Warning: Please be advised that this episode contains discussions of disability, medical trauma, mental health, spirituality, race, and queer identity that may be sensitive or triggering for some listeners. The conversation also covers topics related to BDSM, kink practices, consent, and aftercare.
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Episode Summary: This week, Mx Jade, a kink educator, trauma survivor, and community advocate, opens up to Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr about their journey in BDSM as a Black, queer, disabled, , polyamorous, gender-bending Primal GoddeXXX and vivacious middle. She emphasizes the importance of visibility, accessible education, and intentionally creating safer, affirming spaces for touch and connection. Mx Jade discusses how spirituality intersects with their kink practices, highlighting the divine energy that transcends gender and the importance of ancestral power. They also talk about their experience with disability, how it has influenced their approach to kink, and the need for accessible spaces that honor diverse bodies and needs. Throughout, she stresses the value of community, representation, and honest communication, emphasizing the importance of adaptability in fostering meaningful, healing experiences.
In addition, Mx Jade offers practical insights into their work as an aftercare surrogate, emphasizing the significance of consent, tailored aftercare, and the importance of being creative with tools and accommodations to support others. She advocates for community resources, accessibility, and the sharing of knowledge to build a stronger, more inclusive community. They encourage listeners to show up authentically, support each other, and recognize that everyone’s experience is unique. Join us to hear Mx Jade’s stories in this episode, which are filled with hope, resilience, and a deep commitment to creating spaces where all identities and needs are respected and celebrated.
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The Jade Den - https://www.the-jade-den.com/
BLIC - Black Leather in Color - https://blackleatherincolor.aflip.in/9b8192bce2.html
BFD Symposium - https://linktr.ee/bfdatlanta
Devyn Stone - devynstone.com
Pragmatically Kinking - https://fetlife.com/PragmaticKink
Ms D Dom - https://fetlife.com/MsDDom
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