Sleep after the NICU is complicated — not just for babies, but for parents, too. Preemies have different developmental timelines, different sensory needs, and often, different medical journeys that shape how (and when) they sleep. Add in parental trauma, nighttime anxiety, and navigating life after the NICU, and sleep can feel like one of the hardest parts of bringing your baby home.
In this episode, I’m joined by Jamie Ortiz, NICU mom, sleep consultant, and founder of Little Ones Sleep Society. Jamie brings her professional expertise and her deeply personal story as a NICU and loss mom to help families understand what healthy sleep really looks like after the NICU.
We talk about the realities of preemie sleep, how to support medically complex babies overnight, breaking out of NICU habits, and why sleep is truly a family system, not just a baby schedule. Jamie also shares the role of her work offered on I Help Moms, a platform offering accessible support from sleep experts, grief counselors, mental wellness providers, lactation experts, and more.
Whether you're a NICU parent craving rest, a doula supporting families after discharge, or a provider wanting language that’s grounded, compassionate, and realistic, this episode offers clarity, validation, and hope.
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Guest Spotlight: Jamie Ortiz
Jamie is a mom of 2 (proud NICU mom), a sleep consultant for over 4 years and has a passion for helping little ones and their parents get the rest that's needed. Owner of Little Ones Sleep Society and head coach for the parenting platform I Help Moms...Jamie is able to work with anyone from anywhere. You can find her articles via her site and all different types of parenting magazines such as Joovy Magazine.
Connect with Jamie:
www.littleonessleepsociety.com
Instagram: @littleonessleepsociety
Parents and professionals can also find me on https://ihelpmoms.com/consultants/consultant/458/jamie-ortiz
Inside This Episode:
00:00 Introduction to NICU Experiences and Sleep Challenges
04:19 Understanding Preemie Sleep Needs
07:14 The Importance of Adjusted Age in Sleep
10:18 Transitioning from NICU to Home
13:18 Sleep Shaping for Medically Complex Babies
16:25 Creating a Positive Sleep Environment
19:06 Navigating Sleep Expectations and Patterns
29:46 Creating a Soothing Environment for Babies
32:10 The Importance of Routine and Parental Regulation
35:51 Navigating NICU Experiences and Parental Anxiety
39:22 Understanding Baby's Needs and Parental Support
42:10 Encouraging Bonding and Trust in Caregiving
46:41 Resources and Support for NICU Families
48:27 Empowering Parents to Trust Their Instincts
Links, Resources & Mentions:
Check out Jamie’s Preemie Sleep Guide here!
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Disclaimer:
This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for decisions about your health or your baby’s care.
Until next time, remember:
The NICU is only the beginning, and together we can make this journey less overwhelming, and a lot more empowering.
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