Why don’t we talk explicitly about power? Sometimes the power dynamics prevent it, often we don’t have a shared language or framework for talking about it, and the way most people think about power makes it seem unchangeable - so why bother?
The Power Dynamic Podcast is a space for explicit conversations about social power dynamics - from personal power to systemic power - with a Right Use of Power lens. The Right Use of Power™ is a dynamic, inspiring, and relational approach to the ethical use of power to promote well-being, the common good and right relationship.
We begin by talking about what power is and isn’t (from the perspective of The Right Use of Power™), what the types of power are and how we can navigate it more effectively. We will also discuss (through interviews and conversations) the nuances of power, how power differentials impact us, and the systemic foundations of power - among many other topics.
This podcast is hosted by Dr. Amanda Aguilera who is the Executive Director of the Right Use of Power Institute. Dr. Amanda is a consultant, facilitator and strategist in the area of power-and-equity consciousness and conflict resolution. She is also a mother, a ninja, an avid reader and a friend of the wilderness.
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Why don’t we talk explicitly about power? Sometimes the power dynamics prevent it, often we don’t have a shared language or framework for talking about it, and the way most people think about power makes it seem unchangeable - so why bother?
The Power Dynamic Podcast is a space for explicit conversations about social power dynamics - from personal power to systemic power - with a Right Use of Power lens. The Right Use of Power™ is a dynamic, inspiring, and relational approach to the ethical use of power to promote well-being, the common good and right relationship.
We begin by talking about what power is and isn’t (from the perspective of The Right Use of Power™), what the types of power are and how we can navigate it more effectively. We will also discuss (through interviews and conversations) the nuances of power, how power differentials impact us, and the systemic foundations of power - among many other topics.
This podcast is hosted by Dr. Amanda Aguilera who is the Executive Director of the Right Use of Power Institute. Dr. Amanda is a consultant, facilitator and strategist in the area of power-and-equity consciousness and conflict resolution. She is also a mother, a ninja, an avid reader and a friend of the wilderness.
Episode 6: Understanding Power Dynamics and Healing Through Consent and Restorative Justice
The Power Dynamic Podcast
47 minutes
5 months ago
Episode 6: Understanding Power Dynamics and Healing Through Consent and Restorative Justice
"In just a few minutes, the experience of receiving what you want can break your heart open and show you that your desires matter." — Betty Martin
Episode SummaryIn this enlightening conversation, Betty Martin shares her insights into the intersection of power, consent, and empowerment. The discussion explores The Wheel of Consent®, a model that fosters mutual understanding and respect for boundaries in both personal and professional contexts. Betty reflects on her personal journey with Right Use of Power™, revealing how it integrates with her work. She discusses the significance of understanding different types of power, the nuances of giving and receiving, and the importance of taking responsibility for one’s actions and desires. This conversation illustrates how such practices extend beyond intimacy and touch, offering tools for personal growth and responsible engagement in all relationships.
Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction to the Conversation
00:15 Discovering the Right Use of Power
03:02 Exploring the Wheel of Consent
04:35 The Practice and Impact of Receiving
06:32 Unpacking Giving and Receiving Dynamics
11:43 Personal Power and Responsibility
16:59 Navigating Role Power and Personal Power
23:46 The Interplay of Power and Responsibility
25:37 Exploring Power and Responsibility Dynamics
26:06 The Emotional Labor of Power Differentials
26:57 Consent and Power: Navigating Complexities
28:32 The Impact of Power Dynamics in Relationships
31:46 Misuse of Power: Underuse as a Form of Misuse
32:52 The Bystander Phenomenon and Collective Power
34:23 Spiritual Leadership and Power Vulnerabilities
37:23 Addressing Misuse of Power and Restorative Justice
43:39 Personal Power and the Wheel of Consent
48:03 Reparenting Through Experiential Learning
48:36 Closing Thoughts on Power Dynamics and Personal Growth
About Our Guest:
Betty Martin is the originator of the Wheel of Consent and co-founder of the School of Consent, where she has trained facilitators and educators around the world in consent, boundaries, and embodied communication. With a background in chiropractic care, body-mind integration, and intimacy coaching, she brings decades of experience in group facilitation, somatic practice, and peer-led learning. Betty now focuses on mentoring practitioners and contributing to professional trainings, continuing her lifelong work of helping people feel at home in their own skin.
Resources & Links:
The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin https://www.wheelofconsent.org/free-resources
The Art of Receiving and Giving by Betty Martin and Robyn Dalzen
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Credits
Host: Dr. Amanda Aguilera
Music by: Future Makers by Styve Bolduc
The Power Dynamic Podcast
Why don’t we talk explicitly about power? Sometimes the power dynamics prevent it, often we don’t have a shared language or framework for talking about it, and the way most people think about power makes it seem unchangeable - so why bother?
The Power Dynamic Podcast is a space for explicit conversations about social power dynamics - from personal power to systemic power - with a Right Use of Power lens. The Right Use of Power™ is a dynamic, inspiring, and relational approach to the ethical use of power to promote well-being, the common good and right relationship.
We begin by talking about what power is and isn’t (from the perspective of The Right Use of Power™), what the types of power are and how we can navigate it more effectively. We will also discuss (through interviews and conversations) the nuances of power, how power differentials impact us, and the systemic foundations of power - among many other topics.
This podcast is hosted by Dr. Amanda Aguilera who is the Executive Director of the Right Use of Power Institute. Dr. Amanda is a consultant, facilitator and strategist in the area of power-and-equity consciousness and conflict resolution. She is also a mother, a ninja, an avid reader and a friend of the wilderness.
