The Power Seat is about taking back control of your voice, boundaries, and self-worth so you lead relationships—and life—from emotional safety and self-trust. It’s where you stop reacting from fear, start responding with confidence, and create connections where you feel respected, chosen, and in charge of your own narrative.
It’s not about controlling others—it’s about sitting in the seat of your own power so no one else holds the pen to your story.
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The Power Seat is about taking back control of your voice, boundaries, and self-worth so you lead relationships—and life—from emotional safety and self-trust. It’s where you stop reacting from fear, start responding with confidence, and create connections where you feel respected, chosen, and in charge of your own narrative.
It’s not about controlling others—it’s about sitting in the seat of your own power so no one else holds the pen to your story.
The Goal Isn’t to Get Married — It’s to Never Get Divorced
The Power Seat
19 minutes 58 seconds
1 month ago
The Goal Isn’t to Get Married — It’s to Never Get Divorced
I just got engaged… to an amazing man.
The kind of love that feels safe, easy, and certain. And it didn’t happen because I got lucky.
It happened because I got regulated.
I got divorced 6 years ago and I can’t count the amount of times people would ask me if I wanted to get married again in the 5 years before I meet Alex..
I would always pause and say “that would be a beautiful thing but the goal is to not get divorced again”
I didn’t want to repeat patterns that came from survival. I wanted to become the kind of woman who felt safe in love because she was safe in herself.
That’s what nervous system regulation does.
It shifts you from anxious → anchored. Reactive → regulated. Performing → peaceful.
So the next chapter of your life doesn’t look better — it feels better.
We’re breaking down how Queen Energy helps you: ✨ Stop confusing chaos for chemistry ✨ Attract emotionally safe love ✨ Communicate without spiraling ✨ Feel calm, grounded, and magnetic in relationships
Because the real win isn’t the ring — it’s the regulation. 👑
The Power Seat
The Power Seat is about taking back control of your voice, boundaries, and self-worth so you lead relationships—and life—from emotional safety and self-trust. It’s where you stop reacting from fear, start responding with confidence, and create connections where you feel respected, chosen, and in charge of your own narrative.
It’s not about controlling others—it’s about sitting in the seat of your own power so no one else holds the pen to your story.