Is his size really the point… or is it just shorthand for fantasy? In this episode, we start with a cheeky romance-reader favorite and dig into the deeper conversation underneath: why romance novels so often depict “ideal” men, how those ideals intersect with body image, and where readers (and writers) draw the line between realism and fantasy. We talk about: Why romance heroes are idealized on purpose What fantasy bodies do (and don’t) mean about real people Whether idealized men create unrealistic expectations or safe emotional escape And why romance doesn’t have to apologize for being fantasy It’s funny, honest, a little spicy, and ultimately about what romance is really offering us when we open the book. Check out Skye's books here. Check out Sarah's books here.