The Reclaimed Woman I Christian, Identity, Purpose, Life Coaching
Christi Ratcliff - Christian Life Coach, Leadership Coach, Identity Coach
27 episodes
23 hours ago
Have you ever thought…
“I don’t even recognize myself anymore.”
“I’ve been everything for everyone… but who am I now?”
“Is it too late for me to dream again?”
“How do I reconnect with God — and myself?”
If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone — and this space is for you.
Welcome to The Reclaimed Woman podcast.
Hey friend, I’m Christi — wife, mom, and follower of Jesus. After years of holding it all together for everyone else, I hit a breaking point. I had lost my identity, my spark, and honestly, my connection with God.
One summer, I found myself on the back porch — in my PJ’s, coffee in one hand, Bible and journal in the other — crying out for answers.
And God met me there.
In that sacred space, He revealed something powerful:
He showed me I wasn’t beyond repair.
I was just buried beneath expectations, exhaustion, and fear.
And it was time to reclaim what was always mine —
my identity, my voice, and my purpose.
This podcast is for the woman who’s ready to rise again. To do the inner work - the Throne Work — to uncover her identity in Christ, break free from fear and people-pleasing, and step boldly into the purpose God always had for her.
Each week, we’ll have faith-filled conversations to help you:
Break through spiritual and emotional strongholds
Uncover your gifts and strengths
Rebuild your confidence in Christ
And boldly walk into your next chapter with faith and fire
You haven’t missed your chance.
You’re not starting from scratch.
You’re reclaiming what was always yours.
Let’s do it together.
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Have you ever thought…
“I don’t even recognize myself anymore.”
“I’ve been everything for everyone… but who am I now?”
“Is it too late for me to dream again?”
“How do I reconnect with God — and myself?”
If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone — and this space is for you.
Welcome to The Reclaimed Woman podcast.
Hey friend, I’m Christi — wife, mom, and follower of Jesus. After years of holding it all together for everyone else, I hit a breaking point. I had lost my identity, my spark, and honestly, my connection with God.
One summer, I found myself on the back porch — in my PJ’s, coffee in one hand, Bible and journal in the other — crying out for answers.
And God met me there.
In that sacred space, He revealed something powerful:
He showed me I wasn’t beyond repair.
I was just buried beneath expectations, exhaustion, and fear.
And it was time to reclaim what was always mine —
my identity, my voice, and my purpose.
This podcast is for the woman who’s ready to rise again. To do the inner work - the Throne Work — to uncover her identity in Christ, break free from fear and people-pleasing, and step boldly into the purpose God always had for her.
Each week, we’ll have faith-filled conversations to help you:
Break through spiritual and emotional strongholds
Uncover your gifts and strengths
Rebuild your confidence in Christ
And boldly walk into your next chapter with faith and fire
You haven’t missed your chance.
You’re not starting from scratch.
You’re reclaiming what was always yours.
Let’s do it together.
18 | It’s Not About You — Using Your Gift to Serve, Not Perform
The Reclaimed Woman I Christian, Identity, Purpose, Life Coaching
21 minutes
2 months ago
18 | It’s Not About You — Using Your Gift to Serve, Not Perform
Let’s be honest, sometimes using our spiritual gifts can start to feel more like pressure than purpose. Maybe you’ve felt that quiet urge to prove yourself, to be seen, or to measure your worth by how people respond. But what if it’s not about being noticed at all? What if God is more concerned with the posture of your heart than the size of your platform?
In this episode of The Reclaimed Woman, I’m talking about the difference between serving with your gift and performing with it, because how we use our gift matters just as much as discovering what it is.
We’ll look at what Scripture says about the purpose of spiritual gifts, the warning signs of performance, and how to realign our hearts toward humility, surrender, and obedience.
This is your heart check moment:👉 Your gift is not your identity. It’s your assignment.👉 Surrendered gifts bear fruit.👉 Performed gifts produce pressure.
If you’ve ever wrestled with comparison, burnout, or the need for affirmation, this episode will help you come back to the posture Jesus modeled, washing feet, not chasing platforms.
📖 Scriptures Mentioned:
1 Peter 4:11
Romans 12:6–8
1 Corinthians 12:4–10, 27–31
Ephesians 4:11–12
John 15:5
Galatians 5:13
John 13:13–14
📝 Journal Reflection Prompts:
Where have I slipped into performing rather than serving?
How can I return to offering my gift in humility and love?
Whose feet is God asking me to wash today, figuratively or literally?
💡 Related Episode:
[Episode 17: How Do I Know What My Spiritual Gift Is?]
Next Steps:
Revisit your spiritual gift with a heart of service, not performance.
Journal through today’s reflection prompts and pray for a posture of surrender.
Tune in next week for “Your Gift Was Meant to Move — Activating Your Gift in This Season.”
Connecting with Me
📩 Contact: hello@christiratcliff.com
🎧 Podcast: The Reclaimed Woman
💬 Connect: Join The Reclaimed Woman Community on Facebook📸 Instagram: @christi_ratcliff_coaching
🌿 Resources: www.christiratcliff.com
The Reclaimed Woman I Christian, Identity, Purpose, Life Coaching
Have you ever thought…
“I don’t even recognize myself anymore.”
“I’ve been everything for everyone… but who am I now?”
“Is it too late for me to dream again?”
“How do I reconnect with God — and myself?”
If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone — and this space is for you.
Welcome to The Reclaimed Woman podcast.
Hey friend, I’m Christi — wife, mom, and follower of Jesus. After years of holding it all together for everyone else, I hit a breaking point. I had lost my identity, my spark, and honestly, my connection with God.
One summer, I found myself on the back porch — in my PJ’s, coffee in one hand, Bible and journal in the other — crying out for answers.
And God met me there.
In that sacred space, He revealed something powerful:
He showed me I wasn’t beyond repair.
I was just buried beneath expectations, exhaustion, and fear.
And it was time to reclaim what was always mine —
my identity, my voice, and my purpose.
This podcast is for the woman who’s ready to rise again. To do the inner work - the Throne Work — to uncover her identity in Christ, break free from fear and people-pleasing, and step boldly into the purpose God always had for her.
Each week, we’ll have faith-filled conversations to help you:
Break through spiritual and emotional strongholds
Uncover your gifts and strengths
Rebuild your confidence in Christ
And boldly walk into your next chapter with faith and fire
You haven’t missed your chance.
You’re not starting from scratch.
You’re reclaiming what was always yours.
Let’s do it together.
