We all have "Selfish Phases." You get stressed, you lose your discipline, and suddenly you start looking inward. You start keeping score. You start resenting your wife and snapping at your kids.In this episode, I reveal the internal strategy I use to snap out of the "Selfish Phase" and reframe my entire family dynamic. We talk about the "Secret Tape Recorder" playing in your head—the inner voice that is constantly narrating a negative story about your wife and children.If you catch yourself thinking "Why did she say that?" or "Why is he so annoying?", you are slipping into a victim mindset that will rot your legacy from the inside out. I’m going to teach you the simple, 4-word mantra that instantly kills the ego and forces you to show up as the King your family needs.IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVER: • The Energy Balance of Leadership: Why you can't be a selfless leader if you are living a life of consumption (fat, lazy, undisciplined). • The "Tape Recorder" Audit: How to catch the negative inner monologue that is poisoning your relationships before you even speak. • "I Am Her Husband": The specific mental trigger I use to dissolve anger and become present immediately. • The Legacy of Mornings: A brutal look at the math of fatherhood—why you only have a finite number of "morning cuddles" before they are gone forever.👇 THE RISING FATHER ECOSYSTEM 👇🔥 START HERE: GET THE FREE 7-DAY IGNITION PLAN Reignite your energy, focus, and discipline in just one week. Stop the drift today. https://www.risingfather.com/start⚔️ JOIN THE BROTHERHOOD: APPLY FOR MEN OF FIRE Ready to burn the excuses? Apply for the elite father transformation program: https://menoffire.risingfather.com/mensprogram