40% of UK adults are single and churches often default to married-family-focused practices. Melanie chats to Jackie Elton and Beth Chan from the Single Friendly Church Network, discussing biases, and theological perspectives on singleness. This episode offers five simple steps churches can use to become more inclusive and caring communities for single members including  language changes, welcome strategies, leadership inclusion, and how to support single people — especially during Christmas. The conversation emphasizes the need for churches to provide emotional support, practical steps for inclusion, and resources for church leaders to better understand and serve single members of their congregations. Takeaways Single adults make up 40% of the UK population. Churches often default to a family-oriented perspective. The church needs to address biases against singles. Christmas can be a particularly isolating time for singles. Community support is essential for all members, not just families. Churches should create inclusive language and messaging. Practical steps can help integrate singles into church life. Emotional support is crucial during holidays for singles. Resources are available for churches to improve their inclusivity. The church can do better in supporting single individuals. Sound Bites "We try to unpick the biases." "40% of UK adults are single." "We can do better as a church." Keywords Single Friendly Church, church inclusion, support for singles, Christmas for singles, church community, theological perspectives, emotional support, church resources, church training, single adults Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Single Friendly Church 24:21 Redefining Family in Church Contexts 42:14 Welcoming Single People in Churches 42:43 Resources for Church Leaders   Show Notes www.rootsforchurches.com Welcoming single people at Christmas Single Friendly Church Network Securely Single with Eleanor Jeans Single-Minded: Being Single, Whole And Living Life To The Full by Kate Wharton Methodist Church: Reflections on Singleness Methodist Church: 2024 Singleness report Christian women spend years praying and waiting for husbands who may never come. Is the Church to blame?