In this episode, the Sisters Chat sits down with Miriam Schmukler, a seasoned and deeply devoted shadchan, for an honest and eye-opening conversation about the world of shidduchim. Together, they unpack the real dynamics of matchmaking in the Jewish community — the behind-the-scenes effort, the personal stories, and the emotional weight that families often carry throughout the process.

Miriam shares her journey into shadchanus, offering practical guidance, heartfelt insight, and a refreshingly real look at what it takes to navigate relationships today. From the crucial role parents play, to knowing when to step in (and when to step back), to managing expectations, red flags, and the art of being proactive without being pushy — nothing is off-limits.

This episode blends warmth, wisdom, and lived experience, reminding us that the shidduch process requires patience, clarity, and a whole lot of understanding — and that every one of us can play a part in supporting others and getting involved in meaningful, helpful ways.

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00:00Introduction

05:01The Importance of Shidduchim

13:25 Miriam's Journey in Shidduchim

20:51 Personal Shidduch Stories and Experiences

28:04 Navigating First Impressions and Expectations

33:25 Unique Stories of Finding a Match

42:08 Identifying Red Flags in Dating

46:00 The Art of Patience in Shidduchim

50:26 Common Mistakes in the Dating Process

55:46 Navigating the Challenges of Being Single

01:03:30 The Role of Parents in the Shidduch Process

01:08:24Community Involvement in Shidduchim

01:13:21Fun and Insights from the Fast Five