Most people think they can easily spot the difference between a “good Christian guy” and a godly man.“He doesn’t cheat… he’s respectful… he goes to church… so he must be godly, right?”Not necessarily.In this episode, you’re going to get the clarity you need to finally see the difference between a man who looks godly…and a man who actually lives it.You’re going to learn the 7 subtle, underrated behaviors godly men refuse to do—the small traits that reveal his character long before you’re married.Because avoiding the “big sins” doesn’t make a man godly.His consistency, integrity, and spiritual leadership do.And you’re not just getting theory—you’re getting real stories that make the truth undeniable:- Pauline’s confusing college situationship that looked “fine” on paper- Tim’s grocery store integrity moment when he forgot his wedding ring- The Panera question that proved commitment isn’t confusingIf you’ve ever wondered:- “How do I know if he’s actually godly?”- “Why do I feel anxious even though he’s a ‘nice’ guy?”- “Where are the men who actually lead spiritually?”- “Are there any godly single men left?”…you’re finally going to get language, confidence, and peace.By the end, you’ll know exactly what behavior you never need to tolerate again—and what to look for in a man who leads you toward Jesus, not away from Him.👉 This is for you if: you want a godly marriage, you want to raise your standards without guilt, and you want dating to feel peaceful—not confusing.Our Store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/wearejustdating?ccs_id=21e09774-5cb4-4e4c-a045-23ed36690b58CHAPTERS:0:00 “He doesn’t cheat…so why am I still anxious?”0:41 Meet the couple who dated wrong first (then got it right)1:52 Christian guy vs godly man (the difference no one explains)3:30 The lie: “All the godly men are married or dead”4:19 Storytime: the confusing college situationship6:05 “If he wanted to…he would” (clarity vs chaos)7:04 When his “desire” is really just selfishness8:24 Fun & Holy… but not flaky (showing up when it’s not fun)9:56 “Why doesn’t anyone know I exist?” (being hidden vs being covered)12:50 The Panera question that changed everything14:20 Consistency as a secret love language15:22 When he makes you his god instead of pointing you to God17:40 The quiet time test: is this relationship pulling you closer or farther?19:23 Are there actually any godly single men left? (the answer)20:41 You’re not asking for too much + next week’s episode teaser