In this episode, we dive into the complexities of EMDR therapy and the often-frustrating moments when resources don’t land as expected. As trauma therapists and consultants, we explore what happens when the “standard” tools fall short—and how curiosity, creativity, and flexibility can turn these challenges into opportunities for growth.
We discuss:
Why resourcing sometimes doesn’t work as planned
The expectation vs. reality gap in Phase Two of EMDR
How resourcing can act as a litmus test for the nervous system
The value of curiosity in reframing “failed” sessions
Redefining success and failure as hypothesis-building rather than certainty
Therapy, like life, rarely follows a script. By leaning into the unexpected, we can deepen our understanding of both clients and ourselves, making room for resilience, wisdom, and innovation in the work.
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