For The Girls is a show created to share the stories and experiences of every girl, every story in every season. Today's guest Tofunmi, popularly known as TOA shares her story of being in a 10 year relationship and getting married at 21, but finding and establishing herself outside of her relationship. Along with Tobi Naomi they explore all the inside truths about growing in and outside of your relationship, while staying committed to love. They also get into some dilemmas about self love, content creation and believing in yourself! Through their deep conversations, some laughs and solving your dilemmas; this episode will leave you feeling seen, heard and a little wiser. Let's jump into the show! 0:00 - 1:00 - Coming Up 1:00 - 3:15 - Intro 3:15 - 6:10 - Honeymoon Realities 6:15 - 8:43 - A Lesson in Self Love 8:44 - 14:30 - Growing In A 10 Year Relationship 14:40 - 18:14 - My Relationship Didn't Become My Life 18:15 - 19:50 - The Need To "Explore" Before Settling Down 20:10 - 21:50 - Our Love Story In 10 Years 21:51 - 23:59 - Figuring Out Love At A Young Age 24:00 - 25:20 - Are You Ready For Love? 25:21 - 26:00 - The Need For Vulnerability In Love 26:30 - 28:45 - Money Won't Save Your Relationship 28:50 - 32:58 - The Need for Authenticity In Influencing 33:00 - 36:49 - Start Where You're At 36:50 - 41:00 - The Balance Of Self Love In Relationships 41:01 - 45:00 - What I Wish I Knew