This Wasn’t the Plan is a podcast born from two best friends who met in their 30s while navigating breast cancer. Together, we’re creating a community for anyone trying to heal from life’s unexpected twists — from illness to heartbreak to everything in between. We share the hard stuff and the hopeful stuff in a real, raw way, because we believe the healing is in the telling. Whether you’re in the middle of it or finding your way forward, our goal is to help you feel seen, less alone, and inspired by the possibility of healing.
This Wasn’t the Plan is a podcast born from two best friends who met in their 30s while navigating breast cancer. Together, we’re creating a community for anyone trying to heal from life’s unexpected twists — from illness to heartbreak to everything in between. We share the hard stuff and the hopeful stuff in a real, raw way, because we believe the healing is in the telling. Whether you’re in the middle of it or finding your way forward, our goal is to help you feel seen, less alone, and inspired by the possibility of healing.
In this episode, Kali and Brittany discuss how to support someone with cancer, sharing their personal experiences and insights on what helps and what hurts. They emphasize the importance of direct offers of help, emotional support, and the challenges of accepting assistance. The conversation covers the various ways friends and family can provide support, including practical help, financial assistance, and emotional encouragement. They also address the feelings of guilt and worthiness that often accompany receiving help during difficult times, ultimately highlighting the immeasurable impact of community support during a cancer journey.