How Do You Really Make Friends in Jordan?
In this episode of Tips for Learning Levantine Arabic, Jennifer sits down in Amman with Adriana to talk honestly about one of the most common—and intimidating—questions language learners ask: How do you actually build real relationships with local people in Arabic?
Adriana shares her personal journey of forming deep friendships in Jordan, even in the early stages of learning Arabic. As a self-described introvert and perfectionist, she explains how intentionality, humility, listening, and overcoming fear mattered far more than fluency or extroversion. From volunteering and language exchange to long home visits, shared meals, and spontaneous encounters in parks, Adriana offers concrete, lived experience on how relationships can be formed between expats and locals in Jordanian.
This episode explores:
Making friends before you “speak well”
Why fear—not grammar—is the biggest obstacle
Introversion, self-care, and emotional health in cross-cultural life
Cultural expectations around hospitality, visits, and time
The values of presence, humility, and genuine listening
How relationships accelerate language learning in powerful ways
Whether you’re newly arrived in Jordan, stuck in an expat bubble, or preparing to live in the Arab world, this conversation will challenge your assumptions and encourage you to approach Arabic—and people—with patience, courage, and love.
If you want to move beyond textbooks and into real community, Adriana has some helpful advice for you.
For more on our approach to learning the spoken Levantine Arabic dialect, check out our site here: http://shababeekcenter.com