In this episode of Together Real Bad, we’re diving into the deep end of what love, gender energy, and fluidity actually look like in our relationship. From surprise birthday letters and edible arrangements in New Orleans to unpacking who “wears the pants” at home, we're getting real about how we show up for each other in ways that break the mold. We get personal about: Why labels like “stud” or “femme” don't fully fit us—and how we navigate assumptions. How our energies shift depending on the moment, from cuddling on the couch to fixing furniture. The real talk on gender presentation, soft life dreams, and what it means to be your full self in love. A restaurant horror story that turned into a conversation about expectations, service, and Black-on-Black care. Our take on love languages without calling them that—and how we live and love out loud, in public and private. And yes, we dish on our experience at Vegan Dale and the big next step for Jem Junkies at Boxville! Whether you're navigating your own relationship, rethinking what labels mean, or just in the mood for some honest, hilarious, queer-as-hell love talk—this one’s for you.