It is often an outburst during a very tense and emotional time, "You are causing this relationship to fail!"  Very painful words to hear and of course, we know that both people in the relationship need to shoulder some of the responsibility for failure.  However, there could be things that you ARE doing that could actually cause failure in your relationships.  I know, I know...  you keep picking the wrong type of woman or the wrong type of man.. etc., etc..  but YOU are the common factor... Uh oh, right?   In reality, we spend more time researching our next vehicle than our next partner!  In a vehicle, we look for things like reliability, warranty, reviews, and history of that particular make/model.  We ask our friends and coworkers for their opinion and we have to even consider the cost.  Shouldn't we at least consider these things before getting into a serious relationship?  Well, we will talk about these things and much more, today, on Truly Pivotal Moments.