We're back with part 3 of our 4-part mini-series—and this one is a deep dive. Kelsey and Devan reflect on where they were five years ago (yep, March 2020), and the powerful life, business, and self-worth lessons they’ve learned since.
From quitting jobs, starting businesses during a pandemic, and unlearning perfectionism to building boundaries, battling body image, and breaking free from victim mindsets—this episode is full of real talk and raw growth.
In this episode, we unpack:
Where we were in March 2020 and how the pandemic impacted our lives and businesses
The mindset traps we didn’t even know we were stuck in
How perfectionism, external validation, and fear of rejection held us back
The advice we’d give our younger selves (and maybe you need to hear it too)
What it means to wake up and stop living for everyone else
The things we thought were “the way” that we now know were so wrong
This is your permission slip to:
Say no more often
Stop waiting for someone else’s approval
Let go of the people who give you the ick
Take up space even if you don’t “look the part”
Choose yourself—every damn time
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Favorite quotes from this episode:
“Maybe those butterflies are actually snakes.”
“The people who make you feel uncomfortable for no reason? Trust it—and run.”
“I don’t need you to like me to know I’m worthy.”
“Looking inward is the first step to waking up.”
Let us know your ah-ha moments—screenshot this episode and tag us!