Happy end of Bi+ Visibility Month! This episode includes the second part of my chat with Lewis Oakley – a Bi+ Activist in the UK, co-host of the "Bisexual Brunch" podcast, and author of a new book, "Bisexuality: The Basics" from Jessica Kingsley Publishers – and spoiler alert, the title of this episode is ironic, as Lewis argues that you can't go into these things with a game plan, and we discussed how to get comfortable with that uncertainty. After that, enjoy the recording of an Instagram Live in which I was interviewed by Lucy LaForge, Bi+ artist, musician and creator of Lucy & La Mer. Enjoy! Follow Lewis on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lewyoaks/?hl=en Visit his website: https://lewisoakley.com/ Buy "Bisexuality: The Basics" https://us.jkp.com/products/bisexuality-the-basics Listen to Bisexual Brunch: https://bisexualbrunch.buzzsprout.com/ Lucy & La Mer on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lucyandlamer/ Follow TBG on IG: https://www.instagram.com/twobiguys/ Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/robertbrookscohen/ My website: www.robertbrookscohen.com [http://www.robertbrookscohen.com/]