It is very important that we understand the place of character in our relationships. Beauty and appearance attract a man or woman but character sustains the relationship, either friendship or courtship and even marriage.What is Character: character is not something that you buy, it is not a commodity that can be bartered for, it is not quality suited for only the rich and the famous, rather, Character is built upon the foundational commitment of love, honesty and compassion for others. Character is your identity, who you are, when no one is watching. How to build/Correct Character in a Relationship: There are few ways we can help our partner to build their character without making them feel less of themselves; A. The first thing is to acknowledge the need for change B. Seek the help of the holy spirit by praying for them and with them C. Correct them in love D. Do not correct them publicly as it could ruin their self-esteem E. Be patient with their pace of development F. Do not compare them to other people, nor your relationship with other people Kindly note that, once you have done all that you can do, and there are no changes, please know when to exit a toxic relationship, do not take the place of the holy spirit, only the holy spirit has the convicting power to change people, a broken relationship is better than a broken home. Never entertain what you cannot endure for a long period of time.