In this episode of Unashamed Unafraid, we are joined by Jeni Brockbank, Executive Director of H.E.R. Wings Unfold, founder of T.S. 12 Anon and the lead host of Relational Trauma SOS. Jeni shares her journey through relational trauma and recovery, providing insights into the importance of addressing deeper issues such as trauma and abandonment in addiction recovery. Jeni discusses her innovative trauma-sensitive 12-step program designed to meet people where they are in their recovery journey. She emphasizes the necessity of creating safety and stabilization, processing grief and mourning, and integrating and growing from these experiences. Jeni also talks about the unique aspects of her program, the importance of community support, and her personal experiences that led her to this work. This episode offers valuable perspectives for those struggling with addiction, betrayal trauma, or supporting loved ones through recovery.
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Relational Trauma SOS Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/21XenP3oY0bvBGayYaOzcx?si=7bdf5991912c44a3
00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
00:55 Personal Reflections on Addiction and Recovery
02:23 Discussion on Relational Trauma and Broader Audience
05:24 Jeni's Background and Journey
07:22 Challenges and Insights in Traditional Recovery Programs
09:54 Developing a Trauma-Sensitive 12-Step Program
18:56 Incorporating Prayer and Silence in Meetings
21:21 Adapting Spiritual Language for Inclusivity
22:43 Balancing Feedback and Original Intent
23:19 The Importance of Safe Spaces in Recovery
27:20 Trauma-Informed Language in Recovery Programs
29:46 Stages of Trauma Recovery
36:02 The Rest Process: An Alternative to Surrender
38:18 Personal Reflections and Program Impact
39:33 Conclusion and Call to Action