If he makes you anxious, he’s not your person. In this episode I share the real process I used to stop dating for potential, clear my energy, and attract better men from abundance instead of lack. We talk self-worth, standards, nervous system safety, “tests from the universe,” and why I reject the performative “be more feminine to get a masculine man” advice. This is about becoming your most honest self, not changing who you are.
What you’ll learn
How to stop repeating patterns with emotionally unavailable men
The difference between self-worth and standards (and why you need both)
Dating from abundance vs dating from fear
Why “feminine vs masculine energy” often pressures women to perform
How to listen to your nervous system and leave when it’s misaligned
Rewriting your beliefs about men so you can choose better partners
My context
Healing old narratives (yes, daddy issues), raising standards, and choosing calm, safe love
How I handled a recent “almost right” situation without abandoning myself
Using the same abundance mindset I have with female friendships and applying it to love
Try this
Journal: What do I actually believe about men and relationships?
Identify the belief that keeps you tolerating anxiety or confusion.
Write your non-negotiable standards and commit to them for 90 days.
Notice tests: if you feel anxious, confused, or are overthinking early on, choose yourself.
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