Having dreams and goals is what keeps us actively participating in our own lives. Some of the bigger ones don't appear as if they could be met without a few years and some hard work; those are the big dreams, right? The ones we answer with when people ask what we've been up to? But have YOU ever known someone-- it could you or a loved one-- that devoted so much time to this goal that it robbed them of most of their days? That they turned down things they knew they wanted to do because they carried a sense of obligation? An obsession, even? And did you start to notice it robbing them of their joy? Because we've been there! In this podcast, we'll be telling you another old belief system that brings us pleasure rather than genuine happiness. And we understand how hard it is to see what it's doing to us until we're deep in the routines. How did that belief system come about? And why does it appear to work so well, from the outside? There's a way to make it to your goals and dreams without having to sacrifice your happiness, and we're excited to share it with you.