Most men think their problem is lust. But what if it’s pain? In this opening episode of Unfeigned Christianity, Asher talks about the hidden shame beneath pornography—the exhaustion, the self-protection, and the ache for connection we rarely admit. You’ll hear: Why porn is more about pain than pleasure How our attachment wounds drive unwanted behavior Why Jesus doesn’t shame us—He meets us A simple practice called The “Where Are You?” Pause to begin healing If you’re ready to move from willpower to wholeness, this episode is for you.   Chapters 00:00 Confronting the Shame of Pornography 01:23 Understanding the Emotional Roots of Porn Use 03:37 The Path to Healing and Wholeness Join me as we talk about the pain beneath the porn—and how the gospel meets us there. Join the conversation & go deeper: http://asherwitmer.com/what-if-your-porn-struggle-isnt-about-lust  Subscribe & join the journey: asherwitmer.com/subscribe