In this episode, I’m joined by Sarah Wolfer (she/they) — a queer, nonbinary therapist and founder of Courageous You Therapy — to explore relationship anarchy and how it parallels investing in the way you love.

We talk about what it means to build relationships rooted in choice, communication, and abundance instead of fear, obligation, or scarcity. Sarah shares how their work with LGBTQIA+, non-monogamous, kinky, and neurodivergent clients challenges traditional systems and helps people create emotional wealth that mirrors financial freedom.

If you’ve ever wondered how to invest in relationships with the same intentionality you bring to your money — or how your love life and financial life reflect the same patterns of liberation — this episode is for you.

About Sarah:
Sarah Wolfer (she/they) is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) with her own private practice, Courageous You, that is based out of Seattle WA, and serving clients in Washington, Idaho, and Florida via telehealth. Graduating with a Master of Social Work (MSW) in 2012, they have spent the first half of their career in social services and community mental health settings as a mental health professional, clinical supervisor, and program manager, and the latter half thriving in private practice.

Sarah specializes in working with LGBTQIA+, non-monogamous, kinky, and neurodivergent individuals and relationships, and she identifies with these communities herself. They embrace the identities of kitchen-table polyamorist, relationship anarchist, and non-binary queer person. Their practice incorporates a variety of therapeutic modalities; initially focused on cognitive approaches like cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and trauma-focused CBT in the first half of her career, and since starting her own private practice in 2020, Sarah has embraced more somatic work and psychedelic-assisted therapy. They currently offer psychotherapy, relationship therapy, Somatic EMDR therapy, and ketamine-assisted therapy tailored specifically for queer and non-monogamous clients. You can find out more about Sarah at CourageousYouTherapy.com.

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