Why do so many relationships start with passion but end with heartbreak? Why is it that the harder you try to please someone, the faster the attraction fades? And why do we keep repeating the same patterns with different partners—hoping for a new outcome but ending up with the same disappointment?
In Unlimited Lover - Rapid Attraction Secrets Part 3, Dr. David Snyder digs into the hidden mechanics of attraction and connection. He reveals why most people sabotage their relationships without realizing it, and how unconscious fears, unmet needs, and unspoken rules drive us apart.
This episode unpacks:
The psychological triggers that determine who we’re drawn to—and why it often backfires.
How unmet childhood needs resurface in adult relationships, creating cycles of pain.
The hidden power dynamics that decide who controls the relationship (and who loses themselves).
Practical methods for creating deep emotional bonds that endure beyond surface attraction.
If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why can’t I make love last?” or “Why do I keep ending up with the wrong people?”—this conversation holds the answers.
Quotes:
"People instinctively like people who make them feel good about themselves."
"We’re not here to invest in people with potential. We’re here to invest in people who are actualizing their potential, who are demonstrating through their words and their behaviors and the stories that they tell, that they're quality people."
"If you want something different, you’ve got to do something different."
Key Takeaways:
Identify Your Relationship Patterns – Write down your last three relationships and note the common issues or conflicts that kept reappearing. Ask yourself: Am I choosing partners who reflect unresolved parts of me?
Examine Childhood Needs – Reflect on one unmet need from your childhood (e.g., attention, validation, safety) and notice how it shows up in your current relationships. How has it influenced the way you give or demand love?
Shift the Power Balance – Think about a relationship where you felt you lost control or gave too much. What boundary could you have set earlier to protect your identity and values?
Episode Timeline
0:00:26 — Course Overview & Fast Action Bonuses
David Snyder introduces the Unlimited Lover program, its components, and special bonuses for early sign-ups.
0:05:00 — The Three Magic Questions: Overview
Introduction to the "Three Magic Questions" technique for building rapport and attraction.
0:10:00 — Master Echo Sequence & Level 1 Questions
Explanation of the master echo formula and how to use level 1 questions to shift psycho-emotional status.
0:18:00 — Level 2 Questions: Career, Passions, and Profiling
How to use level 2 questions to learn about a person's career, passions, and values, and to profile compatibility.
0:28:00 — Level 3 Questions: Childhood Experiences & Deep Connection
Moving to level 3 questions about early positive childhood experiences to create deep emotional bonds.
0:38:00 — Relationship Advice & Boundaries
Advice on setting boundaries, choosing the right partners, and avoiding common relationship pitfalls.
0:45:00— Q&A: Signs of Attraction & Communication Techniques
Audience questions about reading attraction signals, communication, and handling sensitive situations.
0:55:00 — Sales Offer Recap & Program Details
Recap of the program offer, bonuses, and instructions for signing up or contacting support.
1:02:06 — Closing Remarks & Contact Information
Final thoughts, encouragement to take action, and information on how to stay connected or get support.
Links:
To learn more about Dr. David Snyder and everything about NLP, visit:
Website: https://www.nlppower.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DavidSnyderNLP
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidsnydernlp