Marriage isn’t always 50/50, and that’s okay. In this transparent and balanced conversation, we dive into the realities of partnership, purpose, and shifting roles in marriage. We open up about our mindset when entering marriage and how traditional gender roles worked… until they didn’t. Life changes, goals evolve, and sometimes one person has to carry more for a season. J shares how he intentionally created space for Tae to chase her goals, reminding himself that her win was their win. And Tae reflects on the times when J’s deployments required her to step up and hold things down at home. Through our journey, we’ve learned that marriage is less about keeping score and more about teamwork, sacrifice, and understanding that seasons change. When both people are rooted in love and purpose, everyone shines in their own time.