A “home” tournament that isn’t at home.No ref for a girls’ gold medal game.A 13-year-old boy watching for three seconds before saying, “They suck.”In this episode, Gender Inequality On Ice With Our Daughters, I talk about what it’s like trying to raise two girls in a man’s world… while sitting in freezing arenas that quietly remind them they’re second. From girls’ teams getting leftover ice times and four-hour playoff drives, to boys’ hockey treated like the main event, we dig into the quiet ways gender inequality in youth sports shows up long before anyone talks about pay gaps or pro leagues.If you’re a woman who’s had to work twice as hard to be taken half as seriously…If you’re a nurse, medic, frontline worker, partner of a veteran, in or around recovery…If you’re a tired, bookish, trauma-literate soul who’s so done with bullshit…this conversation is for you.We’ll talk about:Girls hockey vs boys hockey and who gets the prime iceThe invisible messages our daughters hear when they’re treated as an afterthoughtHow boys learn it’s okay to dismiss girls’ effort as a jokeWhy “men’s sports bring in more money” can’t keep being the only answerWhat this does to self-worth, mental health, and identity as they growThis is not an anti-boy rant. It’s a dad, a former army medic and paramedic, trying to make sense of what his daughters are being taught about their value—on the ice and far beyond it.👉 If you’ve seen this kind of gender inequality in sports or at work, tell me your story in the comments.👍 Like, subscribe, and share this with another parent of daughters, or someone who’s tired of watching girls get the leftover scraps of a man’s world.I’m Matthew Heneghan – former army medic, ex-paramedic, recovering alcoholic, and author trying to make sense of life after trauma.On this channel you’ll find a mix of raw solo episodes and unfiltered reaction videos where I talk honestly about:PTSD, trauma, therapy, and addiction recoveryLife after rock bottom: relationships, grief, fatherhood, and trying to build something betterPop culture, internet drama, and politics seen through the eyes of a veteran medic who’s been in real chaos, not just online argumentsMy ongoing journey as a writer and creator – books, essays, and the stories that didn’t make it to the pageThis isn’t a polished “self-help” channel. It’s dark humour, blunt honesty, and real mental health talk for people who are empathetic but exhausted – nurses, medics, veterans, partners of first responders, folks in or around recovery, and anyone who’s trauma-literate and allergic to bullshit.If you’re searching for:“mental health podcast,” “PTSD stories,” “addiction and recovery,” “veteran and first responder mental health,” “reaction videos with real life experience,” “solo commentary podcast,” “trauma recovery and dark humour”…you’re in the right place.New videos weekly for listeners in the US, Canada, UK, Ireland, New Zealand and beyond – anyone trying to make sense of their own unwritten chapters while the world burns a little around them.Subscribe if you want company in the chaos, not clichés about “positive vibes only.”📚 My BooksA Medic’s Mind – Memoir of military medic → paramedic, trauma, loss and reinvention. Amazon: https://a.co/d/fbYbp7xTrauma and Tea: Essays on Trauma, Recovery and Growing Up the Hard Way – A collection of raw essays about hitting rock bottom, healing and telling the truth. Amazon: https://a.co/d/9GnaoDV🌐 Visit my website for more: www.authormheneghan.com Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5hmuMofDnEkc8Ec9MqGHmC?si=N66NaCV_RGWcOrJz9HR-nALINKS & RESOURCES– Buy my books: authormheneghan.com/buy-the-book Author Matthew Heneghan– Follow on IG / Twitter / Facebook – @matthewhenehgan_author– Drop a comment, hit Subscribe, ring the 🔔 — let’s build a community of truth-telllers, healers and story-keepers.