In the new episode of Unwritten+, I speak with Deborah Bayer Marlow — a producer whose entire life has been shaped by instinct, reinvention and the kind of courage you only discover when the ground under your feet disappears.
Deborah’s story begins in 1988 — a year she calls “a rupture.”
At 18, in the chaos of a family falling apart, she grabbed a backpack, $1,500 and followed the Grateful Dead across America. A wild, rebellious escape that — without her knowing — set her on a collision course with cinema.
From landing as a green PA on Natural Born Killers, to the wild adrenaline of 90s advertising, to working with Gus Van Sant, and then uprooting her Hollywood life for Denmark after 9/11 — her journey is a masterclass in trusting timing, saying yes, and building a career across borders.
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Deborah reminds us that dark stories can reveal extraordinary light — and that the real magic happens when instinct, craft and collaboration meet.
This episode is full of heart, honesty and wisdom from a woman who has rebuilt her life more than once — and done it with grace, grit and a deep belief in the power of story.