Welcome to a podcast for compassionate people — helpers, givers, healers, empaths, and leaders — who are done abandoning themselves in the name of kindness. Here with your host, therapist, boundaries cartoonist, and author Molly Davis Moon, we’re waking up to our truth, setting boundaries that heal, and reclaiming our sacred space in the world. We believe in fierce gentleness, embodied love, and in the quiet, joyful uprising that happens when compassionate people stop shrinking and start shining. We’re not just dreaming of change—we are becoming the change. One empowered soul at a time.
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Welcome to a podcast for compassionate people — helpers, givers, healers, empaths, and leaders — who are done abandoning themselves in the name of kindness. Here with your host, therapist, boundaries cartoonist, and author Molly Davis Moon, we’re waking up to our truth, setting boundaries that heal, and reclaiming our sacred space in the world. We believe in fierce gentleness, embodied love, and in the quiet, joyful uprising that happens when compassionate people stop shrinking and start shining. We’re not just dreaming of change—we are becoming the change. One empowered soul at a time.
030 | Attachment Styles Explained: What They Are & How They Impact Adult Relationships (feat. Samuel Ohana)
We Are the Compassionate Revolution
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030 | Attachment Styles Explained: What They Are & How They Impact Adult Relationships (feat. Samuel Ohana)
This week, Molly is joined by Samuel Ohana — a social worker and compassionate human who embodies love.
Together, they explore what it means to love people in a world where people also hurt people… and how we can hold a “both/and”: naming harmful behavior clearly while still recognizing the untouched humanity underneath.
At the heart of this conversation is attachment.
Sam breaks down attachment styles in a way that’s clear, compassionate, and helpful — and how a deeper understanding of attachment styles helped him start understanding everybody better – like “seeing the code written behind the program.”
Molly and Samuel discuss:
believing in the goodness of humanity while making sense of bad things that people do
how attachment styles form when we are preverbal and become our default blueprint for love
what “macro attachment” looks like in our dominant cultural context
why diversity is natural — and why insecure systems try to stamp it out
the incredible power of allowing people be themselves and change their minds about who they are
how to speak up with courage and integrity when someone says or does something hurtful
Today’s Guest: Samuel Ohana is a social worker in nonprofit work with a deep love for people, families, and community well-being.
Sam’s work is rooted in compassion, systems thinking, and the belief that secure, loving connection is something we can practice — personally and collectively.
He is also a gender-expansive human and leads a gender-expansive group, holding space for belonging and safety in a time when many in the LGBTQ+ community are under increased stress and threat.
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We Are the Compassionate Revolution
Welcome to a podcast for compassionate people — helpers, givers, healers, empaths, and leaders — who are done abandoning themselves in the name of kindness. Here with your host, therapist, boundaries cartoonist, and author Molly Davis Moon, we’re waking up to our truth, setting boundaries that heal, and reclaiming our sacred space in the world. We believe in fierce gentleness, embodied love, and in the quiet, joyful uprising that happens when compassionate people stop shrinking and start shining. We’re not just dreaming of change—we are becoming the change. One empowered soul at a time.
