Meet Meske!!  Meske will provide a voice from the mom, advocate, and survivor perspective at an interim study designed to highlight the need to improve access to developmental screenings to Oklahoma's youngest children, and we want you to know her and understand the why behind her passion.  This is episode one of three, where you get to meet Meske and learn about Meske as a mom, advocate, incredible human and friend!    Note From Meske: "I’m not an expert in any formal sense. I don’t have a degree or credentials. Life circumstances interrupted every graduation I ever worked toward. What I do have is knowledge, experience, and perspective — a life lived in very diverse circles, literally and figuratively on both sides of the tracks. My childhood wasn’t bad, but it was heavy. I had access to social circles some people only dream about, but life took me in a different direction. Mental health struggles, relationships, finances, global events — they all influenced my path. And while I’ve made my share of mistakes, most of the time it felt like life kept handing me situations I couldn’t control. That’s how I came to my personal tagline: “I’m usually the exception to the rule. The medical mystery. I don’t fit in anyone’s box. The only kind of luck I have is bad luck — so I’m not a betting person.” But over time, I began to realize my life had a bigger purpose. These experiences — the good, the bad, the unfair, the painful — weren’t meaningless. They were shaping me into someone who could see people differently, connect more deeply, and speak honestly about what most people avoid. Still, things got worse before they got better. An important person in my childhood used to tell me to have “faith the size of a mustard seed,” so I started carrying one with me. But faith didn’t erase the pain. Time doesn’t heal all wounds, it just lets them scab over. I realized I had grown comfortable in chaos because it was familiar. There were lessons along the way — sometimes only in the form of cliché sayings that became lifelines. And then came the next chapters: marriage, military service, two kids, deployment, divorce, relocation, three more kids, building a business, domestic violence, housing instability, PTSD, developmental disabilities, and trauma stacked on trauma. That’s where I found myself three years ago. Since then, life has still been full of ups and downs. Healing doesn’t stop life from happening. Kids still need love, bills still come due, people still take advantage when you let them. But the difference is that I finally began prioritizing myself, setting boundaries, and holding on to integrity and accountability. That’s when the people I needed started finding me. Along this journey, I’ve been trained in TBRI (Trust-Based Relational Intervention), Partners in Policymaking, PCIT (Parent-Child Interaction Therapy), and Circle of Security. I’ve worked on early screenings and even contributed to an interim study. Those experiences gave me language for what I had already lived — and tools to help my kids and others “from hard places” not just survive, but start to heal. That’s the lens I bring to this conversation: lived experience, layered with training and advocacy, all rooted in a belief that stories — even the messy ones — can change systems and change lives."