Positivity turns out to be less of a lucky personality trait and more of a skill you can shape with intention.   At the center of this conversation is a simple idea: confidence grows when you learn to guide your attention instead of letting your brain run on autopilot. Leslie Randolph explains why teens often slip into negative thinking and why women who want stronger self-confidence feel the same pull. The mind naturally scans for what feels hard, yet the ability to shift toward positivity is always available once you understand that this habit can be trained.   From there, Leslie highlights the practices that make optimism feel real rather than forced. Catching yourself in a spiral, pausing long enough to ask a better question, and using gratitude as a grounding tool help confident teens and confident women build a steadier inner voice. Even small changes in daily conversation, like naming what went well, create a mindset that notices good moments with more clarity. The heart of her message is simple: positivity becomes a powerful part of your life when you choose it with intention, and that choice strengthens self-confidence in ways that last.   Episode Breakdown: 00:00 The Quest for Positivity 03:45 Genetics vs. Choice: Understanding Positivity 09:29 Shifting Perspectives Through Mindfulness 15:13 Building a Daily Habit of Positivity 19:11 Positivity and Reality: Finding the Balance Connect with Leslie Randolph: Help your teen cultivate confidence! Visit Leslie’s website Follow Leslie on Instagram Follow Leslie on Facebook Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm