What happens when two litigators realize their marriage isn’t a courtroom? Attorney Crystal Sims Banks shares how she and Henderson Banks learned to communicate beyond “winning,” built a thriving personal injury & employment law practice in Chicago, and kept their union soft during a hard season of postpartum depression. Expect practical takeaways on emotional intelligence, therapy, setting business + family goals, and creating a home that supports high-performance spouses—from dinner rhythms to boundaries with social media. This one’s for the modern wife who leads with faith, structure, and softness.