
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE
The most common pattern that destroys relationships—and how to break it
Why avoidant and anxious people attract each other
The real steps to becoming securely attached
The difference between healing and distracting yourself
How to handle conflict without destroying connection
The signs someone is emotionally unsafe even when they “seem normal”
Why nervous system regulation is the foundation of love that lasts
MENTIONS + RESOURCES
Guest: Dr. Chris (@evolvedbychris)
Gottman Institute (on conflict and relationship health)
Big Five Personality Test (referenced by Dr. Chris)
Dr. Chris’s upcoming school and community platform
DOWNLOADABLE RESOURCES
Attachment Style Quiz
Enneagram Personality Test
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