Have you ever paused and asked yourself that question not just “Am I alive?” but have I really lived?

In this honest and unfiltered episode, I reflect on how much of my life was spent trying to be everything for everybody else. I knew how to show up for people, how to anticipate their needs, how to be the “good one,” the “strong one,” the “peacekeeper.” But somewhere in the middle of all that performing…I forgot to ask: What do I need? What makes me happy?

I talk about the pain of people-pleasing, the silent exhaustion of trying to earn love, and the moment I finally looked at myself and asked have I ever truly enjoyed my life?

This episode is not about blame it’s about breakthrough. It’s a declaration that, from this moment on, the quality of my life matters. And maybe it’ll help you ask yourself the same question… and choose you for once.

🎧 Tune in. This one’s for the ones who’ve been surviving so long, they forgot they deserve to live.