'Redefining Masculinity through Movement and Vulnerability'

In this deeply personal episode, Gui Prada and I explore the male experience in the dance community. We discuss how surrendering control on the dance floor can redefine masculinity, healing "touch starvation," and the transformative power of switching roles.
In this episode, we explore:

• The Vulnerability of Following: Why for many men, the hardest part isn't leading—it’s allowing themselves to be held by another man and letting go of the need for control.

• Sensitivity Gains: How switching roles unlocks a level of body awareness and sensitivity that actually makes you a better, more present leader.

• Healing "Touch Starvation": Addressing the loneliness epidemic and how dance provides a safe container for physical affection without the pressure of sexualization.

• Role Models & Upbringing: Contradicting military backgrounds with affectionate ones, and the massive impact of strong female leaders in our community.

Key Takeaway: Switching roles isn't just about learning steps; it’s about remodeling your understanding of care, intimacy, and trust.

Chapters:0:00 Defining Masculinity in Dance5:10 Military vs. Affectionate Upbringings12:30 The Fear of Being Held (The Cheek-to-Beard Barrier)19:15 How Following Makes You a Better Leader26:40 Healing Touch Starvation in Modern Society