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A Gay and His Enby
Michael Sorg
204 episodes
1 day ago
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, whether its Bravo, Drag Queens, or anything else that can be called even kinda gay. Basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you. Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. Our theme song is Pulsar by Shane Ivers which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
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We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, whether its Bravo, Drag Queens, or anything else that can be called even kinda gay. Basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you. Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. Our theme song is Pulsar by Shane Ivers which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
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Episodes (20/204)
A Gay and His Enby
Episode 194: The Gays Deserve Better

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Real Housewives of Potomac, where a formerly departed Monique returns without her feathered friend and Ashley’s convenes the girls for World Pride in order to put Stacey in the hot seat. Then, the newest episode of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, where Mary knows the ladies need Jesus and gives it to them directly with her church reopening. And finally, Part Three of the Real Housewives of Orange County reunion, where Gretchen gets the benefit of the doubt while there is no doubt that this group is looking to finally end Tamra.

6:33 - Real Housewives of Potomac: Season 10: Episode 07
51:25 - Real Housewives of Salt Lake City: Season 06: Episode 08
1:43:05 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 20


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

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1 day ago
2 hours 40 minutes 12 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 193: Guten Tag!

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Real Housewives of Potomac, where a sultry night to celebrate Jassi leads to Angel’s wings being clipped by someone in her past. Then, the newest episode of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, that sees Meredith put the ladies on a plane ride from hell that has the group talking and Britani weeping. And finally, Part Two of the Real Housewives of Orange County reunion, where Katie’s hot seat gets slightly cooler when her husband Matt comes in for the save.

4:10 - Real Housewives of Potomac: Season 10: Episode 06
42:03 - Real Housewives of Salt Lake City: Season 06: Episode 07
1:44:45 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 19


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

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1 week ago
2 hours 36 minutes 54 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 192: Cartwheels into the Ocean

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Real Housewives of Potomac, where we get a peek at Angel’s fun side, before Keiarna ensures it won’t last. Then, the newest episode of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, where an accusation from Britani awakens Meredith from the dead on Zombie Night. And finally, Part One of the Real Housewives of Orange County reunion, where Shannon has something to say and Tamra will do everything in her power not to hear it.

5:13 - Real Housewives of Potomac: Season 10: Episode 05
55:16 - Real Housewives of Salt Lake City: Season 06: Episode 06
1:53:11 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 18


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

Show more...
2 weeks ago
3 hours 4 minutes 47 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 191: Jesus Loves Gay People

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Real Housewives of Potomac, where it’s choppy waters for Angel on this island vacation, and no amount of filters can disguise her. Then, the newest episode of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, that sees Heather and Lisa go below the belt with the Below Deck crew looking on. And finally, the season finale of Real Housewives of Orange County, where the ladies confront Gretchen over her liking anti LGBTQ posts… or did she? (She definitely did.)

6:52 - Real Housewives of Potomac: Season 10: Episode 04
1:01:49 - Real Housewives of Salt Lake City: Season 06: Episode 05
2:08:11 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 17


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

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3 weeks ago
3 hours 30 minutes 54 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 190: Holy Farts

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Real Housewives of Potomac, where the pre game for Preakness be the sight of Angel’s first big test as a new housewife. Then, the newest episode of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, that sees feelings hurt over farts and headlines about Bronwyn hurt… Todd. And finally, a new episode of Real Housewives of Orange County, where Tamra doesn’t give an Amsterdam about Gretchen’s apologies, as there is a dark secret she is ready to bring to light.

6:39 - Real Housewives of Potomac: Season 10: Episode 03
56:20 - Real Housewives of Salt Lake City: Season 06: Episode 06
2:00:48 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 16


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

Show more...
4 weeks ago
3 hours 1 minute 10 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 189: Soup Man à la Psychic

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Real Housewives of Potomac, where Angel’s party lacks tranquility as Stacey looks to calm the chatter about her divorce. Then the newest episode of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, that sees Angie & Lisa go for blows in possibly the most extended fight in the history of Housewives. Then, a new episode of Real Housewives of Orange County, where the ladies venture to Amsterdam, though Shannon decided to take a detour to another planet. And finally, Part Three of the Real Housewives of Miami reunion, where Lisa and Larsa settle their differences as Marysol settles with how wrinkled her knees are.

6:39 - Real Housewives of Potomac: Season 10: Episode 02
56:20 - Real Housewives of Salt Lake City: Season 06: Episode 05
2:00:48 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 15
2:49:23 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 20


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

Show more...
1 month ago
3 hours 37 minutes 11 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 188: Clankity Clank Times Two

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the season premiere of Real Housewives of Potomac, that see’s a DMV with no Grande Dame be filled with the same drama, lies and possible criminals. Then the newest episode of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, where Bronwyn’s mother Muzzy showcases the face of true evil, and it’s in a cat sweater. Then, a new episode of Real Housewives of Orange County, where Emily’s ho down sees Slade ho his way onto television, again. And finally, Part Two of the Real Housewives of Miami reunion, where Adriana has more props, but not just a heart: an Uno reverse card for Julia.

5:06 - Real Housewives of Potomac: Season 10: Episode 01
1:17:04 - Real Housewives of Salt Lake City: Season 06: Episode 04
2:24:58 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 14
3:11:35 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 19


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

Show more...
1 month ago
4 hours 11 minutes 44 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
BONUS EPISODE: Reality Recap

On this bonus episode, Eamon and Merlin do a Reality Recap of some of the shows they’ve been watching, including the newly revamped Project Runway, the much talked about Season 27 of Big Brother, & the wild Season 2 of Love Island Games!

3:42 - Project Runway: Season 21
26:44 - Big Brother: Season 27
52:44 - Love Island Games: Season 02


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

Show more...
1 month ago
1 hour 26 minutes 11 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 187: Should We Take the Cake?

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the newest episode of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, where Lisa’s crying dismissed and deny while looking like a total disgrace. Then the newest episode of Real Housewives of Orange County, where it’s Groundhog Day and this year, spring comes early if Tamra decides to quit again. And finally, Part One of the Real Housewives of Miami reunion, that sees the ladies attempt to equivocate with Guerdy until Julia drops a shocking bombshell.

7:28 - Real Housewives of Salt Lake City: Season 06: Episode 03
1:23:29 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 13
2:31:24 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 18


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

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1 month ago
3 hours 43 minutes 31 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 186: Self-Defense Bar & Grill

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the newest episode of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, where Salt Lake Socialite Amy becomes a casualty of World War Lisa. Then the newest episode of Real Housewives of Orange County, that sees Gretchen apply her self defense training quickly once Tamra confronts her on a brand new rumor. And finally, the season finale of Real Housewives of Miami, where nothing is jolly this Christmas for Adriana when she deals with a former friend in Julia and a longtime enemy in Marysol.

5:00 - Real Housewives of Salt Lake City: Season 06: Episode 02
1:21:05 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 12
2:29:25 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 17


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

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1 month ago
3 hours 39 minutes 32 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 185: Blair Bitch Project

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the season premiere of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, that sees Angie make the women rough it as Britani gets roughed up from every angle. Then the newest episode of Real Housewives of Orange County, where Gretchen carries Slade’s Tamra tea as Tamra tries and fails to connect with Shannon. And finally, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, as it’s time for Art Basel and Adriana spirals when finding out who doodled on her cake.

5:11 - Real Housewives of Salt Lake City: Season 06: Episode 01
1:24:13 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 11
2:42:25 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 16


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

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2 months ago
3 hours 58 minutes 42 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 184: Merlin’s Guide to Parenting

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the past two episode of Real Housewives of Orange County, where Jenn cuts Katie out of her life as Tamra refuses to allow Shannon to. Then, two new episodes of Real Housewives of Miami, where Richard Branson’s cruise leads to a great deal of healing, yet new issues emerging with Alexia and Marysol.

4:29 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episodes 09 & 10
1:50:18 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episodes 14 & 15


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

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2 months ago
3 hours 12 minutes 26 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 183: Flamenco and a Funeral

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the Love Island Season 7 reunion, where the cast reunites after venting on a hundred different podcasts and before most of the couples break up. Then, the newest episode of Real Housewives of Orange County, that sees Emily celebrate Persian New Year by attempting to put the final nail in Katie’s coffin. And finally, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, where Alexia and Marysol turn down a private jet in exchange for avoiding Stephanie’s bossy behavior.

5:07 - Love Island USA: Season 07: Reunion
1:44:25 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 08
2:56:47 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 13


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

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2 months ago
3 hours 51 minutes 18 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 182: Half a Xanny

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the newest episode of Real Housewives of Orange County, where Katie is done covering for Gretchen and Tamra is done… not filming. I guess. Then, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, that sees Adriana’s loose lips lead to a war of words with Kiki and Lisa’s prized spot on Stephanie’s PJ gets put in jeopardy.

4:47 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 07
1:34:34 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 12


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

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3 months ago
2 hours 45 minutes 10 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 181: Who's Kylie?

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Part Three of The Valley reunion, where Janet and Jason take legalese to a whole new level, as we bid farewell to the former number one guy in the group. Then, two new episodes of Real Housewives of Miami, where nothing is civil in Seville, whether it’s a dog fight between Alexia and Stephanie or a follower fight between Larsa and Lisa. And finally, Real Housewives of Orange County, where Tamra’s shocking claim about Katie leads to Gretchen on edge and a drunken Tamra going over it. Maybe for the last time.

5:03 - The Valley: Season 02: Episode 18
1:28:20 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episodes 10 & 11
2:44:08 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 06


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

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3 months ago
4 hours 32 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 180: You’re Not Columbo

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Part Two of The Valley reunion, where accountability is the word of the night, and some of the worst accepters of it dish out the most critique. Then, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, where the ladies drop the petty and get preppy, with a grand prize of a plane ride with Stephanie up for grabs.. And finally, Real Housewives of Orange County, that sees the women head to NOLA and bond over turtle soup before the underlying tensions come to the surface.

4:31 - The Valley: Season 02: Episode 17
1:56:23 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 09
2:47:23 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 05


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

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3 months ago
3 hours 52 minutes 4 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 179: Dry Bony Wrinkled Knees

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Part Three of the Real Housewives of Atlanta reunion, where Charles is the last husband and lays down the law just like he did on the court. Also, Part One of The Valley reunion, where the darkness surrounding Jax’s treatment of Brittany seems to be an afterthought for Andy Cohen. Then, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, where dueling yachts lead to a drunken Adriana, who somehow still manages to be the voice of reason. And finally, Real Housewives of Orange County, where Tamra tries to weaponize an OG of the OC, but fails to slay the dragon that is Jenn Pedranti.

5:13 - Real Housewives of Atlanta: Season 16: Episode 20
1:05:55 - The Valley: Season 02: Episode 16
2:31:21 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 08
3:19:24 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 04


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

Show more...
3 months ago
4 hours 20 minutes 54 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 178: Cartwrights and Cart-Wrongs

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Part Two of the Real Housewives of Atlanta reunion, that sees bags, books and blowups as Porsha and Shamea’s friendship begins to get aired out. Also, the season finale of The Valley, where Michelle’s zen party is lacking just that as this friend group is ripped apart in different directions. Then, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, where Guerdy’s celebration of life features a receipt to remember. And finally, Real Housewives of Orange County, that sees Shannon make clear to Katie that she’s finished, and before she ever gets to finish her grilled cheese.

5:57 - Real Housewives of Atlanta: Season 16: Episode 19
1:07:20 - The Valley: Season 02: Episode 15
2:27:45 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 07
3:09:23 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 03


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

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4 months ago
4 hours 7 minutes 58 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 177: DumbleDoute

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the finale of Love Island USA, with a winning couple crowned and the most awkward rendition of Moon River imaginable. They then discuss Part One of the Real Housewives of Atlanta reunion, where Porsha came with hugs and Angela came with receipts? Also, the newest episode of The Valley, where Jax’s evil powers will no longer penetrate Brittany and Jason’s commitment will be marked on him forever. Then, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, where some god has tricked these women into believing Lisa is a bigger narcissist than Larsa at Alexia’s party. And finally, Real Housewives of Orange County, where Katie’s hot pot lunch gets way hotter as a returning Gretchen is serving up comeuppance for Tamra.

5:06 - Love Island: Season 07: Episode 36
18:50 - Real Housewives of Atlanta: Season 16: Episode 18
1:06:32 - The Valley: Season 02: Episode 14
2:04:24 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 06
2:48:20 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 02


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

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4 months ago
3 hours 49 minutes 38 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
Episode 176: Karmic Kristen

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the newest episode of The Valley, where we have another boat ride from hell as Kristen unleashes on Janet. Then, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, that sees Lisa exhibits some qualities before Alexia’s Narcissist party even begins. Plus, the season premiere of Real Housewives of Orange County, where Katie has few friends, and replacing them with bloggers might not be the best substitute. And finally, a week’s worth of Love Island USA, where love is finally in the air as we come barreling towards the finals.

4:46 - The Valley: Season 02: Episode 13
1:16:24 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 05
2:04:34 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 01
3:24:06 - Love Island: Season 07: Episodes 30-34


We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com

Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com

All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby


We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.

Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.

This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”

We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.

None of us are free until all of us are free.


In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.

American Civil Liberties Union
Trevor Project
PFLAG
True Colors United
OutRight International
Lambda Legal
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders
Human Rights Campaign
It Gets Better Project

Show more...
4 months ago
4 hours 37 minutes 38 seconds

A Gay and His Enby
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, whether its Bravo, Drag Queens, or anything else that can be called even kinda gay. Basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you. Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. Our theme song is Pulsar by Shane Ivers which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby