Breakups don’t always end cleanly. Sometimes they end with hurt feelings, crossed lines, and decisions people swear they don’t regret.

In this episode, Jocelyn and Jade react to stories about the pettiest things people have done after a breakup and talk through why emotions make people move the way they do. They also touch on coworker trust, oversharing at work, and what happens when someone you confided in repeats your business.

If you’ve ever wondered whether something went too far after a breakup, or if you should trust that coworker who feels a little too comfortable, this episode will hit.

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Saying you don’t want to be someone’s accountability partner can shift a friendship instantly. This conversation moves from rethinking personal change to navigating friendships that expect more consistency than you can realistically give.

We break down a real situation where opting out caused tension, then widen the lens to talk about uneven effort, routines that no longer fit, and why pulling back often feels worse than staying quiet. If you’ve felt pressure to keep showing up in ways you already know you can’t sustain, this episode will feel familiar.

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This week, we’re talking about family dynamics, emotional tension, and how gratitude looks different as adults.

We get into uncomfortable family moments, how unresolved issues spill into friendships, and why choosing peace sometimes means stepping back instead of showing up.

If the holidays bring more pressure than comfort, or if family relationships leave you feeling emotionally drained, this episode will feel like sitting with friends who actually understand where you are.

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Work will drain the version of you it met if you let it. Burnout hits different when you’re the one holding everything together — the “strong one,” the dependable coworker, the one who cares more than the people in charge.

In this episode, we’re talking about what burnout actually feels like, why “being a team player” is often just code for “we’ll overwork you,” and how hard it is to set boundaries in a culture that treats your life like it’s optional.

If you’ve ever been exhausted, resentful, or low-key disgusted at how much of yourself you’ve given to a job… yeah. This one’s for you.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Dilemma

00:29 The Happy Hour Conflict

01:33 Personal Boundaries and Work

03:55 Alternative Social Activities

05:43 Workplace Relationships and Friendships

07:58 Balancing Work and Personal Life

30:45 The Concept of Quiet Quitting

34:36 Question of the Week: Last Meal on Death Row

38:59 Portillo's Cravings and Dipping Debates

40:12 Death Row Meals: Wagyu and Weird Choices

47:14 Coke vs. Pepsi: The Ultimate Debate

56:49 Waffle House and Late-Night Breakfast Adventures

59:20 Setting Boundaries at Work

01:07:29 Keeping Coworkers at a Distance

01:12:30 Wrapping Up: Engage with Us!

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If you’ve ever stayed in a relationship longer than you should have, kept sleeping with someone you were trying to leave, or dragged out a breakup because comfort felt easier than change… this episode will feel painfully familiar.

We talk about the messy in-between stage — when you know you're done emotionally, but your habits, fears, routine, or living situation keep you stuck. Our listeners shared their own stories of staying too long, choosing comfort over clarity, and finally walking away.

We also get into friendship shifts when someone disappears into a new relationship, girl code confusion, dating apps with unrealistic expectations, and whether emotional availability is the real modern dating problem.

This episode is for anyone navigating adult relationships, setting boundaries, facing hard truths, or trying to understand themselves better in love and friendship.

A Girls Perspective. AGP. In My Opinion. Just My Thoughts. Hot Takes. Friendship struggles. Vibe Tribe. Friends yapping. Black Girl Podcast. Adulthood struggles. Parenting Wins. Parenting Loses. Single Life. Educated Black Women. Educated Black People. Friendship Problems Podcast. Toxic Friends Podcast. Adulting Podcast – Funny. Career Change Podcast. True Crime Podcast. Personal growth podcast. Finding Your People. Build a Community.

Two lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation.

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Hookup Horror Stories, Holiday Boundaries, and Pop-up Visits: Navigating Modern Friendships

In this lively episode, Jocelyn and Jade delve into the hilarious and sometimes cringe-worthy world of 'hookup horror stories,' sharing listener submissions that will leave you wide-eyed. The duo also tackles the complex emotions tied to holiday gatherings, discussing the pressure and obligation that often come with family traditions and offering practical advice on how to maintain personal boundaries. To round it off, the hosts dive into the nostalgia and modern realities of spontaneous friend visits, sharing their take on whether popping up unannounced is a friendship goal or a social faux pas. Don't miss this entertaining and thought-provoking episode!

00:00 Introduction and Question of the Week

00:12 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 1

04:37 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 2

08:00 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 3

10:48 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 4

14:15 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 5

16:35 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 6

18:56 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 7

26:32 Friendship Files: Holiday Gift Giving

35:42 Inflatable Sumo Wrestlers and Christmas Gifts

36:47 The Dutch Oven Dilemma

37:14 Are We Wrong? Skipping Christmas

41:51 Mental Health and Holiday Stress

50:24 Main Character Moment: Finding Peace

01:04:24 Unannounced Visits and Friendship Dynamics

01:09:20 Weekly Poll and Closing Remarks

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In this episode, Jocelyn and Jade dive into the week's question: what are subtle signs someone is cheating? They discuss five signs based on listener responses and share personal anecdotes about infidelity, relationship dynamics, and social media behavior. The conversation touches on social behaviors, like making an effort in friendships and the importance of communication. The episode is wrapped up with gratitude for a year of podcasting together, and Jocelyn surprises Jade with a thoughtful gift in appreciation of her commitment.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: Question of the Week

00:45 Top 5 Subtle Signs of Cheating

00:48 Sign 1: The Passenger Seat Clue

04:56 Sign 2: Picking Fights and Finding Faults

07:05 Sign 3: Social Media Secrecy

09:13 Sign 4: Talking About a Colleague Too Much

12:02 Sign 5: Everything Seems Perfect

18:15 Friendship Files: Planning and Dependability

26:02 Was I Wrong for Skipping Friendsgiving?

34:57 Discussing Messiness and Entertainment

35:24 Debating Love and Attendance

37:03 Balancing Time in Relationships

39:03 Pressure to Show Up in Relationships

46:25 Random Thoughts: Do Zombies Poop?

53:52 Driving Etiquette and Rants

58:26 Thanksgiving Surprise and Reflections

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Unforgettable Dreams, Stripper Mishaps, and Boundaries

In this episode, hosts Jocelyn and Jade share a hilarious and unforgettable bachelorette trip to Nashville where ATM issues and unexpected costs left them in awkward situations. They also dive into a discussion about memorable dreams from Reddit, ranging from bizarre to heartwarming. The conversation transitions into the complexities of setting boundaries in friendships, touching on personal experiences and perspectives. Finally, they tease upcoming merchandise and possible giveaways for their listeners. Tune in for laughs and thought-provoking insights!

Chapters

00:00 ATM Troubles at the Strip Club

01:06 Question of the Week: Unforgettable Dreams

01:36 Analyzing Disturbing Dreams

06:01 Dreams of the Past and Past Lives

11:43 Ranting About Parachute Pants

15:53 Friendship Files: Privacy Boundaries

25:18 Are We Wrong? Venting About Trip Costs

36:05 Kicking Out the Broke Friend

36:19 ATM Troubles at the Male Revue

37:34 Strippers and No Cash

39:47 Reflecting on Broke Moments

43:58 Setting Boundaries in Relationships

50:32 Travel Stories and Pet Peeves

54:10 Hugging Boundaries and Personal Space

01:09:09 Future Plans and Podcast Updates

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Navigating Friendships and Workplace Dynamics

In this episode, hosts Jocelyn and Jade discuss the dynamics of friendships, focusing on how people can outgrow each other and the feelings that arise from being excluded from significant events. Jocelyn shares her personal experiences of dealing with workplace bullying, mismanagement, and the importance of advocating for oneself. They also tackle the issue of employees being penalized for frequently calling in sick, especially when it involves family matters, and the problematic nature of restrictive PTO policies. The discussion underscores the importance of knowing one's worth and exploring better opportunities if current conditions are detrimental.

In this episode, Jocelyn and Jade delve into the complexities of outgrowing friends, navigating workplace dynamics, and confronting leadership issues. They recount personal stories and discuss audience-submitted questions regarding strange behaviors, friend inclusivity, and the toxic work environment. Through candid conversation, they offer insights into valuing oneself and finding better opportunities both socially and professionally.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Friendships and Personal Growth

01:22 Question of the Week: Strangest Things Caught Doing

03:21 Embarrassing Moments and Family Traditions

04:16 More Strange and Funny Stories

13:59 Friendship Dynamics and Expiration Dates

33:08 Discussing the Show 'All of Us Are Dead'

34:00 Horror Movie Logic and Frustrations

35:50 Kelly Rowland in Horror Movies

36:46 Am I Wrong? Engagement Dinner Dilemma

39:29 Friendship and Exclusion

52:09 Graduation and Friendship Expectations

57:10 Healthy Eating and Office Etiquette

01:06:21 The Office Food Dilemma

01:09:12 Workplace Bullying: It's Not Just for Kids

01:29:06 The PTO Battle: Prepare the Others

01:38:09 Navigating Toxic Work Environments

01:46:55 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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Jocelyn and Jade discuss the intricacies of friendship, focusing on the importance of communication and loyalty in relationships. They touch on personal experiences with being cut off without explanation, the need for honest conversation to avoid misunderstandings, and the fine line between asserting boundaries and simply avoiding difficult talks. Additionally, the discussion includes reflections on professional experiences in customer service and healthcare, highlighting common issues faced in the workplace. The episode is filled with honest insights, humorous anecdotes, and practical advice on maintaining meaningful connections and navigating everyday challenges.

Chapters:

00:00 The Illusion of Cutting People Off

01:25 Introducing New Segments

01:59 My Thing Is: Venting Session

03:50 Celebrating Wins Without Guilt

05:57 Workplace Recognition and Credit

12:00 The Value of Fair Compensation

14:11 Friendship Files: Emotional Drain

29:19 Are We Wrong? Evaluating Friendships

35:58 Chopped Liver and Irony

36:11 The Importance of Communication in Friendships

38:36 Unspoken Expectations and Misunderstandings

43:01 Dining Alone and Social Norms

44:14 Dine and Dash Confessions

50:01 Wedding Day Clam Knuckle Incident

54:03 Cutting People Off: A Debate

01:10:01 The Shoe on the Other Foot

01:10:23 Ranting About Friendships

01:11:04 Chaotic Conversations

01:13:42 Proper English and Internet Critics

01:17:36 The Betrayal List Idea

01:18:01 Negative Comments and Opinions

01:25:10 British Black History Month

01:27:59 Fast Food Interview Etiquette

01:35:26 Pharmacy Stories and Customer Frustrations

01:43:23 Closing Remarks and Call to Action

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Women Don’t Cheat More—They Just Don’t Get Caught | Ep 48

This episode starts with a missed taco night and ends with cheating theories, side-piece confusion, and a lot of emotional games. We’re talking about people ghosting friendships then getting mad you don’t reach out, the difference between closure and control, and the petty levels of cheating that women are allegedly mastering in silence.

From emotional manipulation to situationships that never got a title—but somehow still ended—we’re calling out the messy double standards in dating, the blurred lines in adult friendships, and the unspoken rules that nobody taught us about growing up.

Whether you’re stuck in the group chat that doesn’t group anymore, tired of people doing relationship things but saying you’re “just vibing,” or trying to heal from someone who never gave you real closure, this episode of A Girls Perspective is for you.

We’re two lives, two perspectives, and one unfiltered conversation—still figuring it out, one chaotic story at a time.

Chapters:

00:00 The Taco Incident

00:50 Introducing the Guests

01:27 Kevin's Podcast Journey

01:59 Podcast Controversies and Apologies

02:56 Earthy Women and Podcast Topics

03:58 Recording Challenges and Censorship

08:05 Asian Content and BL Dramas

13:24 Subtitles vs. Dubbing

19:20 Prison Scenarios and Survival

24:44 New Segment: Unsent Text Messages

35:09 Dog Ownership Responsibilities

37:13 Neighbor's Dog Incident

37:47 Have You Ever Been Stood Up?

39:58 Toxic Relationships and Stories

41:49 Cheating and Manipulation

57:21 Platonic Friendships Debate

01:10:07 Hygiene and Cultural Differences

01:14:53 Celebrity Hygiene Habits

01:15:16 Debating Daily Showers

01:16:06 Skincare Products and Chemicals

01:16:56 Bill Burr's Comedy on Lotion

01:18:02 Racial Discussions and Misunderstandings

01:19:39 Parental Double Standards

01:21:24 The Concept of Closure

01:23:51 Friendship Dynamics

01:32:30 Halloween Costumes and Horror Stories

01:42:47 Favorite Halloween Candies

01:44:10 School Field Trips and Kangaroos

01:47:29 Closing Remarks and Social Media Plugs

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Are you always the strong one? The “go-to” person for your friends, your family, your job… but lowkey, you’re running on fumes? You’re not alone.

This episode unpacks the silent burnout that comes with always holding it together for everyone else. Jocelyn and Jade get real about the weight of being the strong friend—why it’s so hard to ask for help, why we downplay our own needs, and why sometimes being strong just means being tired.

We talk about:

• The pressure to overachieve at work even when you’re burnt out

• Feeling emotionally alone—even in a room full of people

• How “thank you” could’ve saved a woman’s life in Texas

• The weird stigma around crying or showing emotion

• Why the “you don’t check on me anymore” guilt trip needs to stop

This one’s for the people who are tired of being the default emotional support. For the ones who hold it all in because they feel like they have to.

Chapters

00:00 – Why he only got 36 months?! Our thoughts on justice

01:00 – K-pop fans unite: Bring back the old Stray Kids sound

02:30 – Idol group dynamics, nostalgia, and fan favorites

05:00 – Stray Kids stories, Woojin’s exit, and group dynamics

08:00 – Idol visuals, hairline rumors, and stage glow-ups

11:00 – Wig slip at the club and sweat-proof styles

13:30 – Is giving 110% at work still worth it?

15:30 – Doing your job vs. being team MVP

17:30 – Why effort isn’t always rewarded with promotions

19:00 – “Meets expectations” doesn’t mean underperforming

21:00 – Feeling alone vs. feeling lonely — what’s the difference?

23:30 – When you're in the room but still feel invisible

25:00 – Late-night noises and being home alone

27:00 – Zephyr the cat’s reaction to mystery sounds

29:00 – Our generation’s biggest shared delusion

31:00 – Do opinions really carry this much weight?

33:00 – When someone runs… we all run (and why)

35:00 – Why being the “strong friend” wears you down

37:00 – The strong friend never really has a strong friend

38:30 – Crying isn’t the only way to be vulnerable

40:00 – When comfort from others feels overwhelming

43:00 – Jocelyn’s emotional story about her cat

47:00 – When a pet gets more tears than a breakup

50:00 – Childhood pranks, falling stories, and payback

52:00 – Winter slips and laughing too hard

54:00 – That same sentence again? Let’s talk justice

56:30 – Why some get more time for less serious stuff

58:00 – The “thank you” moment that turned serious

01:00:00 – Are we raising thoughtful people or not?

01:03:00 – Parenting humans vs. dealing with chaos

01:06:00 – When basic manners feel rare

01:08:00 – Jail scenarios: Who’s thriving? Who’s not?

01:10:00 – Respect, survival, and hilarious hypotheticals

01:13:00 – Pop culture meets comedy meets chaos

01:16:00 – The AI horror story: “The Group Chat” twist

01:18:00 – Plot twist: Who’s the one behind it all?

01:20:00 – Let’s start a band — but who’s the lead?

01:22:00 – Zero instruments, 100% vocals

01:24:00 – Music regrets, school memories, and flutes

01:27:00 – Trying (and failing) to love jazz

01:29:00 – The difference in raising your own vs. the world’s

01:34:00 – Final shoutouts to the real ones in the Vibe Tribe

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When it comes to relationships, honesty might not always be the best policy—especially with your friends. In this week’s episode of A Girls Perspective (AGP), Jocelyn and Jade unpack why telling your friends every detail of your relationship drama can backfire, and how it ties into the deeper friendship struggles and blurred boundaries that come with adulthood. This Adulting Podcast – Funny episode is packed with Hot Takes, chaotic logic, and the kind of brutally honest humor that makes the Vibe Tribe feel seen.

The girls start off with Jocelyn hilariously losing her “Black card” after confusing Lionel Richie for George Michael, setting the tone for a full hour of confidently wrong opinions and real-life debates. From a viral Reddit story about someone using AI to trick their boss into giving them a raise, to whether cooking for a male friend crosses the line, every topic turns into a conversation about self-awareness, boundaries, and moral gray areas.

By the end, they’re laughing about who they’d save first in an emergency (spoiler: themselves) and what it would really feel like to get “left behind” after the Rapture. Between the laughs, Fighting With Your Boyfriend? Don’t Tell Your Friends! | Ep 46 digs into the messy truths of friendship, selfishness, and surviving adulthood without losing your sanity.

If you love Educated Black Women humor, Toxic Friends Podcast energy, or the kind of Personal growth podcast that doesn’t pretend to be perfect, this episode of A Girls Perspective will feel like catching up with your loud, honest best friends who get it. Tune in, grab your drink, and get ready to Find your people and Build a community that’s as unfiltered as it is relatable.

Chapters:

00:00 A Hilarious Mix-Up: Lionel Richie or George Michael?

01:17 Weekly Reddit Story: Using AI to Get a Raise

03:58 The Ethics of Using AI to Manipulate Your Boss

09:11 Relationship Dynamics: Cooking for Friends

21:11 The Great Water Debate: Dasani vs. Other Brands

27:54 Friendship Boundaries: What Should You Share?

43:50 Airplane Etiquette: Emergency Exit Row Dilemma

46:24 Refusing to Give Up Leg Room

46:32 Active Shooter Training at Work

47:55 Hiding Strategies and Office Dynamics

51:35 Fire Drill Responsibilities

01:10:31 Rapture and Religious Beliefs

01:31:46 Podcast Growth and Gratitude

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This week on A Girls Perspective, things start messy and stay that way. Jocelyn tells a story about two girls who went to someone’s house looking for a fight (first mistake), and when the punches started flying, one got folded while her “friend” just stood there watching. That sparks a whole debate about loyalty and friendship struggles — because if your friend is getting beat that bad, you either jump in, break it up, or go get help. What you don’t do is sit there like it’s a show.

From there, Jade takes over Weekly Reddit and reads a confession from someone who sits in their car for an hour after work, lying about “traffic” so they can get some peace before going home. Jocelyn admits she does a lighter version of this in her driveway, while Jade says her family sees her anyway. The bigger point? Lying about needing time chips away at trust. Boundaries don’t mean you don’t love your family — they just mean you’re human. This hits right at the heart of adulting podcast struggles: balancing exhaustion, family life, and setting boundaries without guilt.

That rolls into a parenting conversation full of hot takes. Jocelyn shares childhood whooping stories — spilling red nail polish on the carpet, hiding it, and catching a beating; falling asleep instead of cleaning her room and waking up to her mom shaking her. Jade points out how kids today act wild at school but know better at home. Together they argue: whoopings may not be for every kid, but discipline can’t be taken off the table. Some kids respond to timeouts, others only listen when there’s a real consequence. It’s one of those parenting wins and parenting losses that makes every family different.

The fight theme keeps looping back. Jocelyn says if someone gives you a clean one-two combo, fine — sit down and let it go. But if they humiliate you, drag you across the ground, or beat you out of your clothes? Pride kicks in, and you’ll want round two no matter how long it takes. Jade’s rule is even wilder: first fight fair, second fight is a dogfight — biting, chairs, low blows, whatever it takes. They joke about being “folded like laundry with you still in it,” but underneath is a real conversation about respect, pride, and when to walk away.

The deeper thread in this episode is how adults navigate honesty and boundaries. The “traffic lie” becomes a bigger discussion about depression, burnout, and communication in relationships. The parenting talk becomes about tailoring discipline instead of blindly repeating toxic traditions. And the fight stories become about loyalty, trust, and how much pride matters when you’re trying to hold on to self-respect.

Then they go philosophical with more hot takes:

• Are people-pleasers really being kind, or are they manipulating how people see them?

Is there even such a thing as a selfless good deed, or do we always get something back from it?

This is why AGP connects so strongly with the Vibe Tribe. It’s not polished influencer energy — it’s real life. It’s friendship problems, boundaries in relationships, single life after 30, parenting hot takes, and the messy, funny side of adulthood. If you’ve ever wondered if your friends would actually ride for you, lied about traffic just to get a break, or felt guilty for needing space from the people you love, this episode is for you.

Chapters:

00:00 The First Mistake: Picking Fights

01:14 Weekly Reddit Read: Confessions and Boundaries

08:21 Parenting and Discipline: A Heated Debate

19:44 Schoolyard Lies and Childhood Fights

27:58 Revenge and Respect: The Art of Fighting Back

41:17 The Struggles of Aging

42:38 Family Dynamics and Avoidance

44:18 The Fear of Confrontation

45:03 Depression and Seeking Help

47:53 True Crime Discussion: Unknown Number

54:24 Bullying and Toughness

01:10:11 Selfless Good Deeds: Myth or Reality?

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Episode 44 of A Girls Perspective (AGP) takes on one of the loudest debates in dating and adulting today: what makes someone “high value”? Jocelyn and Jade, joined by Brittany from Makeup Glam with B, unpack the double standards that shape how men and women are judged in relationships, friendships, and life.

The conversation starts playful — makeup, lashes, birthday gifts, and why Jocelyn hates the pressure of receiving presents. But it quickly shifts into deeper territory: why men are told their value depends on income and status, while women are judged by looks, age, and how “aesthetically pleasing” they are. The crew reacts to viral high value man vs high value woman clips, calling out how men feel they can’t define their worth without money, while women are constantly reduced to their appearance.

They go even further, tackling stereotypes about women with “masculine energy” and whether submission is supposed to be one-sided. Jocelyn and Jade argue that real partnership means both people submit and lead at different times. Brittany adds that independence can make dating harder, because so many men tie their ego and masculinity to being needed financially.

The group also dives into aging and worth, challenging the idea that women lose value over time while men gain it. They highlight the wisdom, independence, and confidence women build in their 30s and 40s — even if society refuses to see it as valuable. Mixed in are laughs about mediocre nails, men hiding baldness under hats, and the contradictions of wanting women with “low body counts” who are also magically experienced.

Beyond dating, the episode circles back to bigger adulthood struggles: friendships that only show up for fun but not real support, gift-giving that feels more like obligation, and the pressure to glam yourself up just to be respected. Whether you’re dealing with friendship struggles, navigating single life after 30, or rethinking what really makes a partner valuable, this conversation feels like wine night with friends who aren’t afraid to drop hot takes.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction: Relationship Dynamics and Gift Giving

01:16 Call to Action: Subscribe and Join the Community

03:25 Special Guest: Makeup Glam with Brittany

08:44 Discussion: High Value Men and Women

14:32 Personal Experiences and Social Expectations

16:39 The Psychology of Gender Roles

25:48 Negotiation and Career Advancement

33:24 Overstimulation and Social Interactions

35:47 Reacting to Controversial Opinions

36:50 Debating Preferences and Double Standards

38:38 The Double Standard of Body Counts

40:57 The Reality of Dating Expectations

43:18 The Importance of Self-Reflection in Relationships

47:20 Navigating Relationship Dynamics

50:47 The Impact of Aging on Relationship Value

53:04 The Role of Aesthetics and Success in Relationships

01:14:37 The Thrill of Cheating and Relationship Games

01:17:37 Exploring Self-Esteem and Gender Differences

01:18:08 Parenting and Building Confidence in Children

01:20:38 Personal Experiences with Makeup and Self-Image

01:24:38 The Role of Makeup in Society

01:39:50 Friendships and Relationship Dynamics

01:53:14 Closing Thoughts and Farewell

High value clips

Clip 1: Myron: https://youtube.com/shorts/THf71Cg_mgE?si=n7uEsRcCckJnsfWS

Clip 2: Kevin Samuels: https://youtube.com/shorts/vmuszbZtUDI?si=lCif0RMlbFiqipSm

Clip 3: What is a high value man: https://youtube.com/shorts/CkWBGz9qYYc?si=I2LcilpG-gCRI75t

Clip 4: High Value Woman: https://youtube.com/shorts/Pj_K2U2Emsg?si=P_-osd-WB6NdO79Q

Clip 5: https://youtube.com/shorts/WAXDm6rc7kQ?si=64RytOt0c3doZXEw

Clip 6: https://youtube.com/shorts/zz-bO6KZ3R8?si=3Qc8oEhK_4dUnmCx

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This episode has everything—friendship drama, marriage struggles, dating app fails, and the messy reality of adulthood. We start with the big question: can you fight with a friend and still stay friends, or is that relationship officially over? Jade says once the hands fly the friendship is done, while Jocelyn admits she could throw down and laugh about it later. That opens up a bigger conversation on toxic friends, losing friendships as an adult, and why so many people avoid the tough talks that could save years of wasted time.

From there, we dive into a viral Reddit thread about marriage and body autonomy. What do you do when a controlling spouse thinks they should decide if you get on birth control, cut your hair, or get a tattoo? We break down how avoiding these conversations before marriage leads to resentment, and why setting boundaries matters if you want a healthy partnership. It’s blunt, it’s real, and it’s the kind of talk most couples are too scared to have.

Then come the laughs with Jocelyn’s Bumble horror stories—the ultimate collection of online dating fails. There’s the guy who complimented her and immediately got unmatched, the date who showed up in sweatpants and spent the whole time ranting about his ex-wife, the man who had no car but still asked for a ride home, and the 45-year-old with multiple roommates who somehow thought he was a catch. Each story proves how exhausting dating apps can be, but also why noticing red flags early saves you from even bigger disasters.

Along the way, we talk about brutal honesty versus people-pleasing, how to walk away when someone just isn’t for you, and why adulting feels like a mix of hilarious chaos and constant lessons. Whether it’s friendship problems, toxic relationships, or the weirdest Bumble dates you’ve ever heard, this episode is packed with hot takes, messy stories, and the kind of real talk that makes you feel less alone in the struggle.

Two lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation.

Chapters:

00:00 Can Friends Fight and Stay Friends?

00:42 Weekly Reddit: Am I the Asshole?

01:24 Birth Control Debate

03:36 Communication in Relationships

06:44 Dating and Deal Breakers

14:49 Online Dating Stories

37:25 The Anthony Mix-Up

37:51 Nicknames and Their Boundaries

39:36 Confusing Nicknames

42:43 Childhood TV Shows and Characters

47:20 TikTok Shop Addiction

49:06 Playing 'Put a Finger Down'

59:58 Awkward Moments and Confessions

01:04:17 Workplace Hookups and Hygiene Horrors

01:06:25 Embarrassing Moments and Workplace Mishaps

01:10:42 Fights and Friendships

01:26:46 Provoking and Confrontations

01:37:44 Closing Remarks and Announcements

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So many of us grew up with parents who made rules that sound ridiculous now. No car lights in the backseat because it was “illegal.” No sleeping with a fan because it could make you sick. No wearing red nail polish because it was “too grown.” Some of us even got guilted into cooking for the entire family just for making ourselves a snack. These strange rules weren’t about keeping us safe—they were about control, image, and fear. And now as adults, we’re still trying to set boundaries, let go of guilt, and unlearn the habits those rules left behind.

That question of trust and control shows up again when we break down Netflix’s The Truth About Jussie Smollett. The documentary digs into contradictions in the brothers’ testimony, missing video footage, and the Chicago Police Department’s long history of corruption. It also shows how quickly the media shaped public opinion before the facts were clear. We talk about what the documentary reveals, what still doesn’t add up, and the bigger problem of how victims often lose credibility while institutions protect their own image.

Then we unpack Netflix’s Unknown Number: The High School Catfish, the shocking story of a Michigan teenager who was harassed for almost two years with anonymous texts—only to find out her own mother was behind it. The betrayal, the manipulation, and the light consequences compared to the long-term damage raise hard questions: how do you rebuild trust after something like that? And what does it say about family dynamics when the person you’re supposed to rely on most is the one causing the harm?

On top of all that, adulting still finds new ways to frustrate us. From “luxury” hotels with no spas, to restaurants cutting corners on desserts, to favorite snacks like Doritos 3D, Bugles flavors, and cheesecake bites disappearing off shelves—it feels like adulthood is one long list of letdowns. And sometimes, the only relief is having lighthearted debates with your friends, like whether chocolate counts as candy or just a sweet.

This episode is about more than just weird parenting rules. It’s about boundaries, betrayal, broken trust, adulting struggles, nostalgia, and the kind of conversations that remind you you’re not alone in the chaos of figuring it all out.

Chapter:

00:00 Mysterious Text Messages

00:55 Weirdest Rules from Parents

02:00 Car Conversations and Tinted Windows

03:35 Laughing and Living Life

04:24 More Bizarre Parental Rules

24:29 Cooking for the Whole Family

29:25 Jussie Smollett Documentary Discussion

32:15 Questioning the Lawyer's Role

32:39 Doubts About the Confession

33:06 The Interrogation and Confession

33:29 The Fame and Money Motive

33:39 Physical Appearance and Perception

34:44 Skepticism About the Incident

35:18 Police Department's Shady History

40:14 The Noose and the Sandwich

42:42 The Documentary's Impact

53:17 Netflix's New Documentary

01:10:47 The Case of the Unfit Mother

01:11:43 The FBI's Involvement

01:13:50 The Daughter's Realization

01:15:04 Netflix and K-Dramas

01:15:25 The Hilarious Mr. Queen

01:16:12 Diving into BL Dramas

01:22:28 The Allure of BL Love Stories

01:43:52 The Chocolate Debate

01:44:56 Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts

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This episode dives into the wild, nasty, and downright disturbing things people have discovered about their friends. Jocelyn and Jade kick it off with their own experiences—from finding out a friend never actually used soap when washing her hands, to another who embarrassed them by being a terrible tipper. From there, they read and react to shocking stories from Reddit: a coworker who turned out to have murdered his girlfriend in Costa Rica, someone with a drawer full of used chewing gum, a guy spitting on his carpet until it molded, piles of discarded contact lenses, and friends who betrayed each other by sleeping with partners and family members.

The conversation spirals hilariously (and sometimes grossly) into bigger topics:

• Why some people seem addicted to cheating as a “kink.”
• Their love–hate relationship with true crime shows and how they mess with your mental health.
• A nostalgic detour into 90s/2000s music—singing along to Escape’s “My Little Secret,” reminiscing about Mariah Carey, John Legend, and gospel tracks that always hit the soul.
• Childhood fundraising chaos (Girl Scout cookies, trash bags, taffy apples, and how moms ended up doing all the work).
• Food debates like butter on Pop-Tarts, Long John Silver’s fish, Arby’s 4-for-10 deals, and brownies that are “too good to share.”
• Parenting moments, like Jade’s son calling her his “maid” while she’s taking care of him sick.
• TV nostalgia—Sons of Anarchy heartbreak, The Nanny, New Adventures of Old Christine, rom-coms, and Jennifer Aniston’s underrated comedy chops.

As always, the episode keeps the vibe messy, funny, and real—jumping between disturbing confessions, random food hot takes, parenting chaos, and millennial nostalgia. It ends with a reminder to join their new Discord community, “The After Party”, where listeners can hang out and keep the conversation going.

Timeline:

00:00 Shocking Discoveries About Friends

01:11 Hand Washing Horror Stories

02:59 Tipping Etiquette and Pet Peeves

04:05 Disturbing Confessions from the Internet

04:34 Creepy True Crime Conversations

18:46 Gospel Music and Emotional Songs

25:55 Childhood Snacks and Fundraisers

35:09 Baking Memories and Recipes

39:19 Funny Kid Stories and TV Shows

43:18 Streaming Woes and Amazon Purchases

43:59 Nostalgic TV Shows and Movies

46:01 Sons of Anarchy and Memorable TV Deaths

48:45 Actors and Their Iconic Roles

56:15 Food Talk: Butter on Pop-Tarts and Fast Food Deals

01:08:04 Home Renovations and DIY Projects

01:24:08 Reflections on Childhood and Popularity

01:26:37 Wrapping Up and Community Engagement

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In this episode, Jocelyn and Jade dive into a messy moral dilemma: should you cut off a friend if you find out they’re cheating on their spouse? The conversation sparks from a Reddit thread, where many people admitted to ending friendships over cheating. The hosts explore why people see cheating as a bigger deal than other wrongdoings—like stealing or lying—even when those might impact friends directly.

They debate whether cheating automatically makes someone untrustworthy in all areas of life, or if it’s more complicated depending on context. Both admit they wouldn’t instantly drop a friend but would first want a conversation: why did it happen, what’s going on, and is the friend trying to drag them into the situation? They draw a hard line at being asked to cover up lies—once they’re involved, they’re out.

The discussion widens into gray areas: Is cheating different if it’s a boyfriend versus a husband? Would you tell the spouse? Does the situation change if the relationship was abusive? And what about being friends with someone who cheats with other people’s partners? The hosts also share their own experiences—admitting they’ve been in messy situations before and learned the hard way about karma.

As always, the episode balances humor and honesty. Listeners get Jade and Jocelyn’s trademark unfiltered takes, from joking about “lie to me too so I can stay out of it” to reminiscing about MySpace and BlackPlanet, to laughing over wild neighborhood drama like witnessing car vandalism. The core message: cheating is wrong, but whether it’s friendship-ending isn’t always black and white—it depends on the situation, the history of the friendship, and whether your friend tries to drag you into their mess.

Timeline:

00:00 Introduction and Initial Thoughts on Cheating

00:56 Weekly Reddit Question of the Week

02:55 Moral Dilemmas and Cheating

04:05 Podcast Discussion on Deception

07:39 Friendship and Cheating: A Moral Debate

13:45 Personal Reflections and Hypotheticals

17:42 Cheating in Relationships: A Broader Perspective

20:24 The Complexity of Ending Friendships

39:47 Marriage, Rings, and Personal Preferences

44:01 Subscription Annoyances and Nostalgia

44:22 AOL and Old Email Addresses

45:09 Black Planet and MySpace Memories

48:27 The Evolution of Social Media

59:48 Witnessing a Crime

01:08:14 Personal Updates and Challenges

01:23:19 Closing Remarks and Call to Action

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This episode dives deep into the messy realities of adult friendships—why they fail, how boundaries shift as life changes, and the kinds of people Jocelyn and Jade are done entertaining in their circles.

The conversation kicks off with a side story about boundaries and communication—how marriage, kids, and busy schedules force people to be stricter with their time, and how flakiness or poor communication can strain even solid friendships. From there, Jocelyn introduces her list of five types of friends to cut off:

1. The Drama Dumper – The friend who constantly unloads their same self-inflicted chaos and never changes anything. At some point, venting turns into emotional labor nobody signed up for.
2. The Diva – Everything is about them, even when it’s your moment. They crave attention—good or bad—and would absolutely wear white to your wedding just to steal the spotlight.
3. The Non-Accountable Friend – They disrespect people’s time, flake on plans, and never admit when they’re wrong. These are the people who leave you waiting, then get mad when you stop tolerating it.
4. The Too Attached/Too Detached Friend – Both extremes are unhealthy. The overly attached friend who shows up uninvited (even at your partner’s house!) is suffocating, while the detached one disappears for months and only reappears for the party life, offering no real depth.
5. The Two-Faced Friend – The one who talks badly about you to other friends in the group. If they gossip about someone else to you, you know they’re doing the same behind your back.

They also throw in a bonus category:

• The Favor Friend (aka The Scrub) – Always asking for money, rides, clothes, babysitting, or favors but never reciprocating, even when it’s something small and free.

Throughout the episode, Jocelyn and Jade mix in personal stories, humor, and some Reddit-inspired commentary about how adults struggle with friendships. A big theme is how people avoid difficult conversations with friends, even though they’ll do it in romantic relationships or with family. The hosts argue that friendships are relationships too, and they deserve honesty, accountability, and investment.

The episode closes with a call for listeners to reflect on their own circles: stop calling acquaintances “friends,” be honest about what you’re willing to tolerate, and don’t be afraid to let go of people who don’t add value to your life.

Timeline:

00:00 Unexpected Gossip

01:00 Marriage and Boundaries

03:19 Communication in Friendships

11:35 Top Five Friends to Let Go

12:27 The Drama Friend

13:43 The Diva Friend

15:19 Owning Up to Mistakes

18:50 Too Attached or Too Detached

35:08 The Favor Seeker

39:55 High Standards in Friendships

40:57 Political Differences in Friendships

43:39 Weekly Reddit: Ending Friendships

44:58 Moral and Ethical Differences

57:19 The Importance of Communication

01:18:13 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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