Is desire a sin in Islam? Or is it a divine tool? In this deeply thoughtful exploration, we delve into the Islamic philosophy of desire (nafs), from the compulsive impulses that can burn us to the sacred flames that warm a home and build a civilization.
We will journey through the Qur'an, psychology, and the natural world to understand how to balance our earthly desires with our spiritual purpose. This lecture is for anyone seeking to transform their cravings into a source of strength, love, and divine connection.
IN THIS SERIES OF LECTURES, WE COVER:
1. A Reflection on the Fire of Desire
2. Islam on Desire: Nafs vs. Fitrah
3. Why Does Sex Exist?
4. Sex: Beyond Biology
5. When Intimacy Feels Like a Chore: The Main Issues
6. When Intimacy Feels Like a Chore: The Ways Out
7. The Nature of the Normal Sex
KEY TERMS:
Islamic Philosophy, Desire (Nafs), Nafs al-Ammarah, Fitrah, Tazkiyah, Purification of the Soul, Jihad an-Nafs, Islamic Psychology, Marriage in Islam, Sufism, Self-Help from an Islamic Perspective, Muslim Couples, Spiritual Healing.
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#Islam #Desire #SelfImprovement#IslamicPsychology #MuslimCouples #Sufism #Nafs #SpiritualGrowth #Muslimah#IslamicReminder #Podcast #IslamicContent
Is desire a sin in Islam? Or is it a divine tool? In this deeply thoughtful exploration, we delve into the Islamic philosophy of desire (nafs), from the compulsive impulses that can burn us to the sacred flames that warm a home and build a civilization.
We will journey through the Qur'an, psychology, and the natural world to understand how to balance our earthly desires with our spiritual purpose. This lecture is for anyone seeking to transform their cravings into a source of strength, love, and divine connection.
IN THIS SERIES OF LECTURES, WE COVER:
1. A Reflection on the Fire of Desire
2. Islam on Desire: Nafs vs. Fitrah
3. Why Does Sex Exist?
4. Sex: Beyond Biology
5. When Intimacy Feels Like a Chore: The Main Issues
6. When Intimacy Feels Like a Chore: The Ways Out
7. The Nature of the Normal Sex
KEY TERMS:
Islamic Philosophy, Desire (Nafs), Nafs al-Ammarah,Fitrah, Tazkiyah, Purification of the Soul, Jihad an-Nafs, Islamic Psychology, Marriage in Islam, Sufism, Self-Help from an Islamic Perspective, Muslim Couples, Spiritual Healing.
What is one desire you find most challenging to balance in your spiritual life? Share below—let's support each other.
• Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more soul-healing content on Islam, emotional wellness, and personal transformation.
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• Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa
• Visit: www.adeyemi.ng
• Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0
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#Islam #Desire #SelfImprovement#IslamicPsychology #MuslimCouples #Sufism #Nafs #SpiritualGrowth #Muslimah#IslamicReminder #Podcast #IslamicContent
Is desire a sin in Islam? Or is it a divine tool? In this deeply thoughtful exploration, we delve into the Islamic philosophy of desire (nafs), from the compulsive impulses that can burn us to the sacred flames that warm a home and build a civilization.
We will journey through the Qur'an, psychology, andthe natural world to understand how to balance our earthly desires with our spiritual purpose. This lecture is for anyone seeking to transform their cravings into a source of strength, love, and divine connection.
IN THIS SERIES OF LECTURES, WE COVER:
1. A Reflection on the Fire of Desire
2. Islam on Desire: Nafs vs. Fitrah
3. Why Does Sex Exist?
4. Sex: Beyond Biology
5. When Intimacy Feels Like a Chore: The Main Issues
6. When Intimacy Feels Like a Chore: The Ways Out
7. The Nature of the Normal Sex
KEY TERMS:
Islamic Philosophy, Desire (Nafs), Nafs al-Ammarah,Fitrah, Tazkiyah, Purification of the Soul, Jihad an-Nafs, Islamic Psychology, Marriage in Islam, Sufism, Self-Help from an Islamic Perspective, Muslim Couples, Spiritual Healing.
What is one desire you find most challenging to balance in your spiritual life? Share below—let's support each other.
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• Visit: www.adeyemi.ng
• Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0
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#Islam #Desire #SelfImprovement#IslamicPsychology #MuslimCouples #Sufism #Nafs #SpiritualGrowth #Muslimah#IslamicReminder #Podcast #IslamicContent
Is desire a sin in Islam? Or is it a divine tool? In this deeply thoughtful exploration, we delve into the Islamic philosophy of desire (nafs), from the compulsive impulses that can burn us to the sacred flames that warm a home and build a civilization.
We will journey through the Qur'an, psychology, andthe natural world to understand how to balance our earthly desires with our spiritual purpose. This lecture is for anyone seeking to transform their cravings into a source of strength, love, and divine connection.
IN THIS SERIES OF LECTURES, WE COVER:
1. A Reflection on the Fire of Desire
2. Islam on Desire: Nafs vs. Fitrah
3. Why Does Sex Exist?
4. Sex: Beyond Biology
5. When Intimacy Feels Like a Chore: The Main Issues
6. When Intimacy Feels Like a Chore: The Ways Out
7. The Nature of the Normal Sex
KEY TERMS:
Islamic Philosophy, Desire (Nafs), Nafs al-Ammarah,Fitrah, Tazkiyah, Purification of the Soul, Jihad an-Nafs, Islamic Psychology, Marriage in Islam, Sufism, Self-Help from an Islamic Perspective, Muslim Couples, Spiritual Healing.
What is one desire you find most challenging to balance in your spiritual life? Share below—let's support each other.
• Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more soul-healing content on Islam, emotional wellness, and personal transformation.
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• Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa
• Visit: www.adeyemi.ng
• Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0
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#Islam #Desire #SelfImprovement#IslamicPsychology #MuslimCouples #Sufism #Nafs #SpiritualGrowth #Muslimah#IslamicReminder #Podcast #IslamicContent
Is desire a sin in Islam? Or is it a divine tool? In this deeply thoughtful exploration, we delve into the Islamic philosophy of desire (nafs), from the compulsive impulses that can burn us to the sacred flames that warm a home and build a civilization.
We will journey through the Qur'an, psychology, andthe natural world to understand how to balance our earthly desires with our spiritual purpose. This lecture is for anyone seeking to transform their cravings into a source of strength, love, and divine connection.
IN THIS SERIES OF LECTURES, WE COVER:
1. A Reflection on the Fire of Desire
2. Islam on Desire: Nafs vs. Fitrah
3. Why Does Sex Exist?
4. Sex: Beyond Biology
5. When Intimacy Feels Like a Chore: The Main Issues
6. When Intimacy Feels Like a Chore: The Ways Out
7. The Nature of the Normal Sex
KEY TERMS:
Islamic Philosophy, Desire (Nafs), Nafs al-Ammarah,Fitrah, Tazkiyah, Purification of the Soul, Jihad an-Nafs, Islamic Psychology, Marriage in Islam, Sufism, Self-Help from an Islamic Perspective, Muslim Couples, Spiritual Healing.
What is one desire you find most challenging to balance in your spiritual life? Share below—let's support each other.
• Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more soul-healing content on Islam, emotional wellness, and personal transformation.
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• Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa
• Visit: www.adeyemi.ng
• Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0
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#Islam #Desire #SelfImprovement#IslamicPsychology #MuslimCouples #Sufism #Nafs #SpiritualGrowth #Muslimah#IslamicReminder #Podcast #IslamicContent
Is desire a sin in Islam? Or is it a divine tool? In this deeply thoughtful exploration, we delve into the Islamic philosophy of desire (nafs), from the compulsive impulses that can burn us to the sacred flames that warm a home and build a civilization.
We will journey through the Qur'an, psychology, andthe natural world to understand how to balance our earthly desires with our spiritual purpose. This lecture is for anyone seeking to transform their cravings into a source of strength, love, and divine connection.
IN THIS SERIES OF LECTURES, WE COVER:
1. A Reflection on the Fire of Desire
2. Islam on Desire: Nafs vs. Fitrah
3. Why Does Sex Exist?
4. Sex: Beyond Biology
5. When Intimacy Feels Like a Chore: The Main Issues
6. When Intimacy Feels Like a Chore: The Ways Out
7. The Nature of the Normal Sex
KEY TERMS:
Islamic Philosophy, Desire (Nafs), Nafs al-Ammarah,Fitrah, Tazkiyah, Purification of the Soul, Jihad an-Nafs, Islamic Psychology, Marriage in Islam, Sufism, Self-Help from an Islamic Perspective, Muslim Couples, Spiritual Healing.
What is one desire you find most challenging to balance in your spiritual life? Share below—let's support each other.
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• Visit: www.adeyemi.ng
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#Islam #Desire #SelfImprovement#IslamicPsychology #MuslimCouples #Sufism #Nafs #SpiritualGrowth #Muslimah#IslamicReminder #Podcast #IslamicContent
What is the real secret behind why happy couples start to look alike? In this deep and insightful lecture, we move beyond folk wisdom to explore the shocking psychological, philosophical, and spiritual forces that literally sculpt two individuals into one harmonious unit.
We unravel the mysteries of:
· Unconscious Mirroring and Psychic Osmosis:The psychological forces that merge two minds.
· The "Dyad" & The "Third Entity": How a couple becomes a single, functional organism.
· Spiritual Resonance: How shared faith and prayer forge a shared countenance.
· The Lichen Metaphor: A stunning natural example of two becoming one.
· And the flip side: What happens when the mold doesn'tfit, and couples grow apart.
This isn't just about love; it's about the very architecture of the soul and how a happy family co-creates its reality. You will never look at a married couple the same way again.
Join the Conversation:
What have you observed in the couples around you? Do you see this "resemblance" in your own relationship? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments below!
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Are you carrying a weight you can't seem to putdown? In "The Burdens of Life," we embark on a reflective journey into the heart of life's greatest challenges. This series explores deep philosophical perspectives, uncovering surprising wisdom in the burdens we bear—from anxiety and regret to the search for purpose itself.
We ask the big questions: Is suffering optional?How can our struggles become our strength? Join us as we decode the teachings and find powerful lessons in the natural world—from the resilient ant to the patient tree. This isn't about escaping life's load; it's about learning to carry it with grace, purpose, and even joy.
If you're seeking meaning, comfort in knowing you're not alone, or strategies to transform your pain into power, you've found your community. Subscribe and join the conversation.
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#Philosophy #MeaningOfLife #PersonalGrowth #Existentialism #MentalHealth #Wisdom #Podcast
In this deeply reflective and empowering lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the powerful concept behind “The Games of Life: Play or Get Played.”Life is a vast board of choices, strategy, and purpose. Every decision is a move; some lead to success, others to regret. But the greatest tragedy is not losing the game; it’s not knowing you’re playing one.Through wisdom drawn from the Qur’an, Hadith, and everyday realities, Ustaz Adeyemi reveals how to:Recognize the hidden “games” of life — in relationships, careers, and spiritualityUnderstand the unwritten rules that shape success and failurePlay consciously and ethically in a world of manipulation and distractionAlign your strategy with divine purpose — to win not just here, but in the Hereafter“Life is not about fairness; it’s about awareness. Only those who recognize the game can master it.”Whether you are struggling with decision-making, leadership, relationships, or personal growth, this lecture will awaken your mind and renew your soul.• Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more soul-healing content on Islam, emotional wellness, and personal transformation.• Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy• Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa• Visit: www.adeyemi.ng• Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0Follow me on:• Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA• Instagram: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi• Facebook: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi• TikTok: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemiYouTube: www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi#TheGamesOfLife #PlayOrGetPlayed #AbdulfattahAdeyemi #IslamicMotivation #LifeLessons #PersonalDevelopment #SpiritualWisdom #Mindfulness #SelfAwareness #PurposeDrivenLife #IslamicPhilosophy #MotivationalLecture #FaithAndWisdom #BaynakumCounseling #StrategyForLife #UstazAdeyemi
Divorce is on the rise worldwide — but why? Is it a sign of moral decay, or could it mean people are more aware oftheir rights and refusing toxic marriages? In this thought-provoking lecture series, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores both the negative and positive reasons behind the increasing rate of divorce through the lens of Islamic teachings.
The topic is “THE VALIDITY OF DIVORCE IN MARRIAGE,” and it is divided into four main parts:
PART 1: The Many Causes of Divorce
PART 2: Negative and Positive Reasons for Divorce
PART 3: Marital Stability or Quality?
PART 4: Divorce: Sign of Weakness or Sign of Wisdom?
Learn how ignorance, impatience, and lack of commitment are tearing homes apart — and how greater knowledge,awareness, and courage are helping others walk away from harm. With Qur’anic guidance, Prophetic wisdom, and deep reflection on destiny, love, and human choices, this lecture will reshape the way you see marriage and divorce.
Key points covered:
• A philosophical look at the phenomenon of divorce
• General reasons for the prevalence of divorce
• Negative causes of divorce in today’s world
• Positive reasons why divorce is sometimes necessary
• How Islam balances love, mercy, and justice in marriage
• Why divorce isn’t always failure — and how to handle it with dignity
• How to combine marital stability with marital quality
• Qur’anic verse: “Either retain them in kindness or release them with goodness.” (Qur’an 2:229)
This is strongly recommended for:
• Married couples seeking to strengthen their bond
• Singles preparing for marriage
• Counsellors, students of Islamic knowledge, and anyone seeking clarity about divorce
Listen now and discover:
Is divorce a sign of weakness — or strength? What does it say about our times, our faith, and our humanity?
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• Visit: www.adeyemi.ng
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#DivorceInIslam #IslamicMarriage#UstazAdeyemi #MarriageCounseling #FamilyLife #MuslimCouples #IslamicWisdom#QuranAndMarriage #LoveAndDivorce #IslamicCounseling
Divorce is on the rise worldwide — but why? Is it a sign of moral decay, or could it mean people are more aware oftheir rights and refusing toxic marriages? In this thought-provoking lecture series, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores both the negative and positive reasons behind the increasing rate of divorce through the lens of Islamicteachings.
The topic is “THE VALIDITY OF DIVORCE IN MARRIAGE,” and it is divided into four main parts:
PART 1: The Many Causes of Divorce
PART 2: Negative and Positive Reasons for Divorce
PART 3: Marital Stability or Quality?
PART 4: Divorce: Sign of Weakness or Sign of Wisdom?
Learn how ignorance, impatience, and lack of commitment are tearing homes apart — and how greater knowledge,awareness, and courage are helping others walk away from harm. With Qur’anic guidance, Prophetic wisdom, and deep reflection on destiny, love, and human choices, this lecture will reshape the way you see marriage and divorce.
Key points covered:
• A philosophical look at the phenomenon of divorce
• General reasons for the prevalence of divorce
• Negative causes of divorce in today’s world
• Positive reasons why divorce is sometimes necessary
• How Islam balances love, mercy, and justice in marriage
• Why divorce isn’t always failure — and how to handle it with dignity
• How to combine marital stability with marital quality
• Qur’anic verse: “Either retain them in kindness or release them with goodness.” (Qur’an 2:229)
This is a must-watch for:
• Married couples seeking to strengthen their bond
• Singles preparing for marriage
• Counsellors, students of Islamic knowledge, and anyone seeking clarity about divorce
Watch now and discover:
Is divorce a sign of weakness — or strength? What does it say about our times, our faith, and our humanity?
• Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more soul-healing content on Islam, emotional wellness, and personal transformation.
• Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:
https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy
• Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa
• Visit: www.adeyemi.ng
• Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0
Follow me on:
• Podcast:https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA
• Instagram: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi
• Facebook: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi
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#DivorceInIslam #IslamicMarriage#UstazAdeyemi #MarriageCounseling #FamilyLife #MuslimCouples #IslamicWisdom#QuranAndMarriage #LoveAndDivorce #IslamicCounseling
Divorce is on the rise worldwide — but why? Is it a sign of moral decay, or could it mean people are more aware oftheir rights and refusing toxic marriages? In this thought-provoking lecture series, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores both the negative and positive reasons behind the increasing rate of divorce through the lens of Islamicteachings.
The topic is “THE VALIDITY OF DIVORCE INMARRIAGE,” and it is divided into four main parts:
PART 1: The Many Causes of Divorce
PART 2: Negative and Positive Reasons for Divorce
PART 3: Marital Stability or Quality?
PART 4: Divorce: Sign of Weakness or Sign of Wisdom?
Learn how ignorance, impatience, and lack of commitment are tearing homes apart — and how greater knowledge,awareness, and courage are helping others walk away from harm. With Qur’anic guidance, Prophetic wisdom, and deep reflection on destiny, love, and human choices, this lecture will reshape the way you see marriage and divorce.
Key points covered:
• A philosophical look at the phenomenon of divorce
• General reasons for the prevalence of divorce
• Negative causes of divorce in today’s world
• Positive reasons why divorce is sometimes necessary
• How Islam balances love, mercy, and justice in marriage
• Why divorce isn’t always failure — and how to handle it with dignity
• How to combine marital stability with marital quality
• Qur’anic verse: “Either retain them in kindness or release them with goodness.” (Qur’an 2:229)
This is strongly recommended for:
• Married couples seeking to strengthen their bond
• Singles preparing for marriage
• Counsellors, students of Islamic knowledge, and anyone seeking clarity about divorce
Watch now and discover:
Is divorce a sign of weakness — or strength? What does it say about our times, our faith, and our humanity?
• Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more soul-healing content on Islam, emotional wellness, and personal transformation.
• Book Counselling/Therapy session here:
https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy
• Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa
• Visit: www.adeyemi.ng
• Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0
Follow me on:
• Podcast:https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA
• Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi
• Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi
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YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi
#DivorceInIslam #IslamicMarriage#UstazAdeyemi #MarriageCounseling #FamilyLife #MuslimCouples #IslamicWisdom#QuranAndMarriage #LoveAndDivorce #IslamicCounseling
Divorce is on the rise worldwide — but why? Is it a sign of moral decay, or could it mean people are more aware of their rights and refusing toxic marriages? In this thought-provoking lecture series, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores both the negative and positive reasons behind the increasing rate of divorce through the lens of Islamic teachings. The topic is “THE VALIDITY OF DIVORCE IN MARRIAGE,” and it is divided into four main parts:
PART 1: The Many Causes of Divorce
PART 2: Negative and Positive Reasons for Divorce
PART 3: Marital Stability and Quality
PART 4: Divorce: Sign of Weakness or Sign of Wisdom
Learn how ignorance, impatience, and lack of commitment are tearing homes apart — and how greater knowledge, awareness, and courage are helping others walk away from harm.
With Qur’anic guidance, Prophetic wisdom, and deep reflection on destiny, love, and human choices, this lecture will reshape the way you see marriage and divorce.
Key points covered:
•A philosophical look at the phenomenon of divorce
• General reasons for the prevalence of divorce
• Negative causes of divorce in today’s world
• Positive reasons why divorce is sometimes necessary
• How Islam balances love, mercy, and justice in marriage
• Why divorce isn’t always failure — and how to handle it with dignity
• How to combine marital stability with marital quality
• Qur’anic verse: “Either retain them in kindness or release them with goodness.” (Qur’an 2:229)
This is highly recommended for:
• Married couples seeking to strengthen their bond
• Singles preparing for marriage
• Counsellors, students of Islamic knowledge, and anyone seeking clarity about divorce
Listen now and discover:
Is divorce a sign of weakness — or strength?
What does it say about our times, our faith, and our humanity?
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“Marriage is not just what you wear. It’s what you become.”
In this poetic and soul-stirring finale to Just Like a Garment, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi brings together all the lessons of the series in one breathtaking reflection on marriage at its finest — when two souls become one sacredgarment, stitched by sincerity and worn with taqwa.
This final chapter is not about struggle or survival. It’s about arrival.
You will be inspired by:
The spiritual essence of Qur’anic love at its highest level
The metaphysical beauty of a healed, God-centred union
Marriage as a path to Jannah, not just companionship
The metaphor of libās transformed into a timeless symbol of devotion, dignity, and divine harmony
“The Outfit” is the garment that has endured storms, healed its tears, and now rests with grace, warmth, and faith. It is love purified through prayer, loyalty refined through patience, and unity rooted in divine light.
This isn’t just about marriage — it’s about becoming the garment Allah intended you to be.
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What happens when marriage feels uncomfortable, like wearing an outfit that doesn’t fit?
In this insightful Ninth Topic of the “Just Like a Garment” series, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi uses the metaphor of clothing to discuss marital misalignment, incompatibility, and the spiritual tools to reshape your relationship. Drawing wisdom from the Qur’an and Sunnah, this session explores why some marriages feel “tight” or “loose” and how to tailor them back into harmony.
What you will gain from this lecture:
· How to recognize signs of emotional or spiritual misfit in marriage
· Qur’anic insights on compassion, patience, and mutual growth
· Practical steps to realign your marriage without breaking it apart
· Preventing superficial costumes and fostering the authentic fabric of marriage
· Spiritual guidance for couples seeking Allah’s pleasure together
Whether you’re struggling with differences, cultural expectations, or unmet needs, this talk shows how to stitch love, respect, and faith back into your union.
Qur’an Reminder: “And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them — perhaps you dislike something through which Allah brings much good.” (Surah An-Nisa 4:19)
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In this eighth topic of the “Just Like a Garment” lecture series, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi unpacks “The Wardrobe of a Thriving Union”—a metaphor for the virtues, habits, and spiritual principles that protect and beautify a marital relationship. Drawing on timeless wisdom from the Qur’an and Hadith, this session explores how couples can dress their marriage with trust, patience, intimacy, and mercy.
This lecture explains:
· How to strengthen love and understanding between spouses
· Qur’anic principles for harmony in marriage
· The “garments” of respect, compassion, and emotional security
· How to handle conflict with grace and wisdom
· Spiritual and practical tools for a thriving union
Whether you’re newly married, preparing for marriage, or seeking to revive your relationship, this talk provides the inspiration and guidance you need to transform your home into a sanctuary of love.
Listen now and learn how to build a union that thrives — for the sake of Allah.
Qur’an Reference: “They are a garment for you, and you are a garment for them.” (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:187)
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“Even when the garment no longer fits, it must be removed with dignity.”
In this Topic 7 of Just Like a Garment, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi speaks about one of the most sensitive topics in marriage — divorce — not as a failure, but sometimes as a form of divine mercy.
Islam acknowledges that not every union survives, and that sometimes the most righteous choice is a peaceful parting.
This episode offers:
· A Qur’anic framework for understanding separation with honor
· The Prophet’s ﷺ guidance on graceful endings and mutual respect
· The emotional, spiritual, and ethical conduct of divorce
· Protecting children from the wounds of toxic separation
· Healing after heartbreak, and rediscovering one’s purpose
This is not a message of despair — but of dignity. It’s aboutleaving with taqwa, not trauma… with class, not conflict… with mercy, not malice.
If you or someone you know is navigating the pain of a crumbling marriage, this message offers balance, clarity, and hope from a Qur’anic perspective.
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“Even sacred garments can wear thin… if neglected.”
In this Topic 6 of Just Like a Garment, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi guides us through the difficult reality of marriages in decline — when the once-beautiful bond begins to fray, fade, or fall apart.
With wisdom and compassion, this lecture examines:
· The early warning signs of emotional disconnect
· The damage caused by neglect, silence, or unresolved conflict
· How the Prophet ﷺ acknowledged human struggle inrelationships
· The difference between a temporary storm and a garment unravelling
Not every damaged marriage is doomed, but every broken bond needs attention.
This topic calls for reflection, action, and above all, hope — before the relationship tears beyond repair.
This is a must-listen for spouses who are hurting or those walking on emotional eggshells. Sometimes, the fabric can be saved — if we choose to see the signs and respond with sincerity.
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“You don’t just live with your spouse — you grow into each other.”
In Topic 5 of Just Like a Garment, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the beautiful and often overlooked dimension of shared identity and emotional interdependence in Islamic marriage. Using the metaphor of a garment stitched together, this episode uncovers how two individuals merge into a single spiritual andemotional fabric.
This lecture reveals:
· How Islam encourages emotional alignment and mutual growth
· The difference between dependence and interdependence
· How a shared purpose in marriage leads to barakah
· The prophetic model of building unity in marriage without erasing individuality
A garment moves when you move. It feels what you feel. And so should your spouse.
Marriage is not about losing yourself — it’s about becoming your best self through sacred companionship.
For couples seeking deeper connection, unity of purpose, and divine alignment, this episode is a heartfelt call to rediscover each other in Allah’s light.
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“Even garments face storms. The test is how well they hold together.”
In this fourth topic of Just Like a Garment, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi delves into the realities of conflict and emotional turbulence in marriage. Disagreements are inevitable — but what matters is how couples navigate them with patience (sabr), compassion (rahmah), and emotional maturity.
Drawing on Qur’anic imagery and prophetic wisdom, this episode provides a balanced Islamic framework for managing marital struggles.
You will learn:
· How to respond to conflict without tearing each other down
· The role of sabr in enduring emotional storms
· What the Prophet ﷺ modelled in moments of tension
· Why emotional resilience is essential for lasting love
This isn’t just about surviving the hard times — it’s about emerging stronger, more compassionate, and more connected than before.
A must-listen for anyone facing challenges in their relationship and seeking spiritual tools to weather them with dignity and hope.
Listen and reflect on how your words, reactions, and silence can either protect your marriage — or weaken its very foundation.
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