We teach more with our tone, facial expressions, and reactions than with any lesson plan. In this powerful solo episode, Andy Baker explores the concept of the hidden curriculum—the silent lessons we teach every day through our behaviour, body language, and boundaries. Whether you're a parent, teacher, carer or support worker, you're constantly delivering messages—about safety, empathy, trust, and identity—without even realising it. So what are people really learning from you? This episode will help you become more intentional about your presence and model the values you want to pass on. 💙 Sponsored by: Carers Card UKThe UK’s number one carers discount card, designed to reward and support unpaid carers. 🎁 Use promo code ABLETOCARE to unlock: Discounts on gyms, clothes, days out & more A professional ID card with emergency info Access to a wellbeing hub and carers’ app All for less than a box of chocolates a year.👉 Get yours here 🔗 Resources Mentioned: The Able Hub: www.ablehub.uk – Free 14-day trial for carers and educators Andy Baker’s Book: Targeting the Positive with Behaviours That Challenge 💡 Three Key Messages: Behaviour is curriculum.Every sigh, smile, or boundary teaches something. Children and adults alike copy what they see, not what they’re told. Emotional safety is taught through presence.Calm body language, empathy, and clear boundaries teach regulation, identity, and self-worth. Reflecting on our own hidden lessons is essential.Understanding what we unintentionally learned—and may still be teaching—helps break cycles and shape better futures. ⏱️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 – What is the hidden curriculum? 00:27 – Sponsor: Carers Card UK 01:47 – We teach with more than our words 02:36 – How stress, tone & facial expressions model behaviour 04:50 – Mirror neurons, empathy, and emotional contagion 06:30 – Auditing your tone and actions 07:54 – Subtle shaming: schools, police, and healthcare narratives 09:02 – Stigma, ageism, and unconscious bias 09:16 – Naming the learning out loud 09:38 – “Do you want a hug, help, or to be heard?” 10:30 – Aligning boundaries with compassion 11:07 – Emotional literacy and modelling empathy 11:59 – What hidden curriculum are we passing on as a team? 12:46 – Final thoughts: What are YOU teaching without knowing? 🎯 Why Listen to This Episode? This episode is essential listening for anyone who works with or supports others—especially parents, teachers, carers, and leaders. You’ll walk away with: A deeper awareness of the emotional messages you send daily Practical tools to model calm, empathy, and safety Insight into how to reflect and adjust the unspoken lessons you teach Whether you’re raising children or leading teams, the hidden curriculum you deliver shapes lives. 📲 Stay Connected: 📲 Instagram: @AbleTraining📲 LinkedIn: Able Training📲 TikTok: @AbleToCarePodcast🌐 Website: AbleHub.uk