On this episode of Aisle Be There, we’re exploring the art of crafting wedding speeches that feel meaningful, intentional and enjoyable for everyone.

We cover everything couples wish they knew before planning their running order from who should actually give a speech (and who definitely shouldn’t) to timing them strategically so guests stay engaged rather than sneaking off to the bar or walking out of the room (aka Nim).

We also unpack the honest truth about why guests often don’t listen, what you can do to keep the room focused, and how to gently shut down those annoying last-minute speech requests that always pop up from enthusiastic uncles or overly confident friends.

Plus, we talk about the use of screens in speeches and share when tech enhances the moment and when it can totally ruin the vibe. Spoiler: reading off your phone screen is never an option. And of course, we sprinkle in some heavily redacted stories from real weddings where speeches went absolutely sideways.

This one is a must-listen for couples who want speeches that feel heartfelt, intentional and actually enjoyable for everyone in the room.