Send us a text If you’ve found yourself thinking, “We really need to communicate better,” but you also feel a quiet tightening inside when you say that… this one is for you. Most couples don’t stop talking because they don’t care. They stop because talking started to feel costly. Costly emotionally — it leads to reactions that stir more feelings. Costly energetically — you walk away drained, with nothing resolved. Costly relationally — it feels like every attempt pushes you further apart. So ...