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Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.
Anuja Wagner
12 episodes
2 days ago
Banter: Real Talk. Real Life. is your weekly lifestyle podcast and catch up with Anu - lawyer, mum and unapologetic pop culture lover. Every Monday, Anu shares her take on the week’s headlines alongside book recommendations, easy recipe ideas and honest reflections on juggling work, motherhood, and creativity. Plus, she brings you lifestyle recommendations for where to eat, what to watch and what’s worth experiencing; from theatre and films to restaurants and everyday discoveries. Think of it as your Monday radio show for real conversations, honest banter, big laughs and little escapes.
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Banter: Real Talk. Real Life. is your weekly lifestyle podcast and catch up with Anu - lawyer, mum and unapologetic pop culture lover. Every Monday, Anu shares her take on the week’s headlines alongside book recommendations, easy recipe ideas and honest reflections on juggling work, motherhood, and creativity. Plus, she brings you lifestyle recommendations for where to eat, what to watch and what’s worth experiencing; from theatre and films to restaurants and everyday discoveries. Think of it as your Monday radio show for real conversations, honest banter, big laughs and little escapes.
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Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.
Ep. 12 - Saying Yes, Letting Go & Christmas in London

End of Season One


Recorded on her actual birthday, Anu wraps up Season One of Banter with honesty, reflection and festive warmth and is joined by her sister Nidhi, who is visiting from Los Angeles, for a powerful end-of-year conversation about burnout, recovery and starting again.


From saying yes more than ever before, to navigating money worries, family and slowing down at Christmas, this episode is a thoughtful, feel good close to the year.


Welcome back to Banter — real talk, real life and just enough chaos to keep it interesting ✨



Birthday Reflections & Saying Yes


Turning 51, Anu reflects on a year that went faster than expected. From scrolling through old photos to revisiting the intention she set last year, to say yes more, she shares how one small mindset shift led to joy, connection and unforgettable experiences… alongside tiredness and the need for balance.


Highlights of the Year


From her 50th birthday celebration, Wimbledon men’s finals with her dad, the Champions League final and finally starting Banter, Anu reflects on the moments that truly mattered and the power of going for things even when fear is present.


The Lowlights: Money & Mental Load


A refreshingly open conversation about financial stress, overspending and the quiet anxiety money can bring, even in a year filled with joy. Anu shares how planning, budgeting and small mindset changes helped her regain a sense of control.



Christmas in London (Without the Pressure) 🎄


A reminder that you don’t need constant plans to enjoy Christmas. One or two things a day is plenty - leave space for walks, rest and spontaneity.


Favourite festive ideas include:


  • ​ A Christmas lights walk

(Piccadilly Circus → Fortnum & Mason → Jermyn Street → Arcades → Bond Street → Carnaby → Soho → Seven Dials → Covent Garden)


  • ​ Saatchi Gallery Interactive Days (23rd & 30th December — free)


  • ​ Winter walks through Kensington Gardens to the Serpentine


  • ​ Pavilion Road treats & Bread Ahead sourdough


  • ​ Finding last-minute musical deals via TodayTix



Banter Bites 🍝

La Mia Mamma — joyful Italian food, incredible value and perfect if you want a break from Christmas cooking.



Festive TV Pick 📺

Amandaland Christmas Special — Christmas Day on BBC iPlayer. Cosy, sharp and very funny.



Special Interview: Sisterhood & Starting Again


Anu is joined by her sister Nidhi, who is visiting from Los Angeles, for a deeply honest and inspiring conversation. Nidhi shares her journey through burnout, a serious car accident, traumatic brain injury, forced rest or as she likes to call it a sabbatical, and how surrendering to a slower pace changed her outlook on life, work and healing.


A powerful conversation about ambition, identity, recovery and redefining success.



Banter Recipes — Christmas Edition 🥬


Brussels Sprouts with Pancetta, Maple & Pecans


Ingredients:

  • ​ Brussels sprouts, trimmed and halved (or quartered if large)
  • ​ Shallots
  • ​ Garlic (optional)
  • ​ Pancetta (optional)
  • ​ Maple syrup
  • ​ Roasted pecans


Method:

Parboil sprouts, drain and dry well.

Fry pancetta until crisp, set aside.

Sauté shallots (and garlic if using), add sprouts and cook until golden.

Return pancetta, drizzle with maple syrup and finish with roasted pecans.


Simple, festive and genuinely delicious.




Thank you for being part of Season One of Banter — your support has meant everything 💛


This is your gentle reminder to slow down, reflect and carry what matters into the new year.


If you’re enjoying the podcast, please rate, review, comment or follow on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. It truly helps the show grow.


Wishing you a warm, restful Christmas and a beautiful end to the year ✨🎄

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1 week ago
1 hour 8 minutes 36 seconds

Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.
Ep. 11 - Mulled Cider, December Pressure & the Sandwich Generation

From easing up on Christmas pressure to mulled cider swaps, caring for ageing parents and a surprise banter confession from a very unexpected guest. Anu reflects on december life with honesty, humour and a lot of perspective.

Welcome back to Banter: Real talk, Real life and just enough chaos to keep it interesting!


🧘‍♀️ A Calmer Run Up to Christmas

Anu talks about the sudden shock of it being December (again) and her determination to keep things as stress free as possible this year. From leaving decorations and shopping until the last minute to letting plans unfold naturally, it’s all about choosing ease over pressure.


🍷 Mulled Cider Instead of Mulled Wine

A festive game changer. Anu discovers mulled cider and explains why it’s officially replaced mulled wine; lighter, warmer and perfect for decorating the tree with mince pies in hand.


🎁 Gifting Without the Guilt

Do we really need to buy presents for friends? Anu shares her relaxed approach to gifting - giving when it feels joyful, letting go when it doesn’t and realising nobody actually minds as much as we think.


🍗 Christmas Food, Minus the Panic

No turkey ordered? No problem. Anu talks about ditching the queues, trusting the supermarkets and reminding herself that chicken works just fine if needed.


🤧 Cold & Flu Survival Tips

Anu shares the remedies she swears by at the first sign of a cold: from Coldzine to soothing sore throats plus her go to homemade power shots when something starts creeping in:

Hot lemon/honey, fresh turmeric, homemade power shots (orange juice + turmeric + ginger +

black pepper + honey)


The Sandwich Generation

A candid, thoughtful reflection on caring for ageing parents while still raising children. From navigating big life decisions to learning when to step back, Anu opens up about worry, boundaries and letting go of what you can’t control.


📺 TV Recommendations

Beast in Me - A gripping Netflix drama starring Claire Danes and Matthew Rhys. Intense, binge-worthy and brilliantly acted.


Riot Women - A powerful BBC iPlayer series about midlife women forming a punk band - sharp, funny, emotional and deeply relatable. A standout recommendation that feels very Banter.


📚 Book of the Week

Broken Country by Claire Leslie Hall

A layered rural drama blending love, loss and mystery. Emotional, compelling and an easy yet absorbing read for the festive break.


🎙️ Podcast Pick: How to Fail interview with Alex Hassell

An unexpectedly moving conversation about confidence, insecurity and taking risks - a reminder that everyone is figuring it out as they go.


🍽️ Banter Bites: Tower House, Richmond

A newly opened, beautiful riverside restaurant with small plates, relaxed elegance and stunning views - so good Anu’s already booked to go back.


😅 Banter Confessions

This week’s confession comes from a very special guest, guaranteed to make you smile.


Recipe of the Week:

Anu-Style Tandoori Chicken, French Beans & Gunpowder Potatoes


Tandoori Chicken:

- Use chicken thigh fillets or thighs; breast only if cut at an angle.

- Marinade: yogurt, 2 tbsp oil, juice of 1/2 lemon, 2 tsp salt, 4 garlic cloves,

2 tsp coriander powder, 2 tsp garam masala, 2 tsp chaat masala (key spice).

- Optional ginger.

- Marinate 30 mins - overnight.

- Bake ~ 45 mins at 200°C.

- Finish with chaat masala, lemon/lime, coriander.


French Beans:

- Fine beans cooked with black mustard seeds and dried curry leaves.

- Blanch first if you have time; if not, cook straight in the pan.


Gunpowder Potatoes:

- Boil tiny potatoes, smash slightly.

- Roast with salt, chaat masala, coriander powder, garam masala.

- Finish with coriander, extra chaat masala, pomegranate seeds.


If you enjoyed this episode, please like, follow, rate and review wherever you listen, it really helps the podcast grow 🌱

Thank you so much for listening and for all your support 💛


✨ Follow along on Instagram @banter.pod for more.

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2 weeks ago
34 minutes 38 seconds

Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.
Ep.10 - December Musings, Comedy Nights & a Cozy Winter Recipe

🎄 Early December Reflections
The annual shock that it’s somehow already December. This year, Anu treats herself to a beauty advent calendar, reflects on the joy (and mild chaos) of having a birthday right before Christmas, and navigates that December tension.


Christmas Questions
Are you hosting or happily not hosting?Do Christmas cards still exist?Is everyone already booked up… or already exhausted?A little festive pondering and planning reality.


📺 Banter TV Picks
• Blue Lights - a gritty, gripping Belfast drama.

Nobody Wants This - warm, funny, easy rom-com vibes.

Prisoner 951 - powerful, political and deeply moving.


😂 Comedy Night Out: Quip Shed Comedy
A brilliant night out… with:• the second-row trap after the entire front row stayed empty,• Anu’s friend blurting out “unemployed”, Anu admitting “I’m a solicitor”… and someone in the audience recognizing her,


🍴 Restaurant Recommendation
Kolae, Borough Market — bold Thai flavours, amazing atmosphere, the perfect pre Christmas night out


🥣 Recipe of the Week — Roasted Tomato Soup with Grilled Cheese & Pesto Sandwich
Simple, comforting, and perfect for a Monday night.


Ingredients:
• Ripe tomatoes• Onion• Garlic• Olive oil• Salt & pepper• Basil (optional)• Bread & cheese for grilled cheese• Salad leaves & pesto


Method:
1. Roast tomatoes, onion & garlic with olive oil, salt and pepper until soft and caramelised.

2. Blend into a smooth, cozy soup.

3. Make a classic grilled cheese on the side.

4. Toss salad leaves with pesto for freshness.The easiest winter comfort you’ll make all season.


If you’re enjoying Banter, please rate on Apple Podcasts or leave a comment on Spotify - it truly helps the show grow. Thank you so much for listening 💛

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2 weeks ago
27 minutes 50 seconds

Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.
Ep. 9 - Midlife, Money & Starting Again with Lise Thorne

Anu’s first ever guest has arrived and what a woman to begin with!

This week, she sits down with Lise Thorne, a midlife money mentor helping women rebuild confidence, reclaim their power and finally feel in control of their finances and their future.


Honest, warm, funny and deeply relatable - this conversation is everything Banter is meant to be.



💬 Midlife, Money & A Total Reset


Lise opens up about navigating midlife change, stepping into independence and the very real emotions that come with starting again.

She and Anu dive into:

• why women lose confidence around money

• rebuilding financial independence after big life shifts

• boundaries, friendships & midlife identity

• choosing yourself (even when it feels scary)

• why it’s never too late to take control of your life



🌱 Reinvention, Purpose & What Comes Next


Lise shares what life looks like for her now - a growing platform, meaningful work, a new sense of direction and the tiny steps that helped her get there.

A grounded, empowering chat about resilience and trusting your instincts.


Find Lise on Instagram: @walking_this_way



🎥 Banter’s First Video Episode


For the first time ever, this episode is also available to watch on YouTube.

Search: Banter.podcast



Thank you for listening to Banter: Real Talk, Real Life.

If you’re enjoying the show, please follow, rate or leave a comment, it truly helps the podcast grow 💖

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1 month ago
1 hour 9 minutes 2 seconds

Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.
Ep.8 - Big Speeches, Somerset Serenity & Christmas Incoming

This week, Anu talks big nerves, big speeches, spontaneous escapes, early Christmas feelings, book and TV recommendations and a beautifully comforting French dish.

Real life, real challenges, real growth - and all the Banter in between. ✨


🎤 The Speech, The Nerves & Saying YES to Challenges

The Type 1 Diabetes fundraising ball finally arrived and this year Anu stepped on stage to speak.

After days of nerves, the moment came… and the speech went brilliantly.

Calm, grounded, joyful and a staggering £150,000 raised for charity.

Proof that saying YES to challenges can change everything!


🌿 Somerset, Friendship & Feeling Unstuck

A quiet weekend escape.

A beautiful eco-home.

A heartfelt conversation with a friend who just needed a new challenge.

Plus… the surprising story of manifesting a Croatian yacht trip at the fundraiser auction.


🎄 Christmas… Already?!

Restaurant bookings, Christmas cards (are we still doing those?), gift lists, calendars filling fast and SALES everywhere.

Once December begins, everything accelerates!


Recommendations of the Week


📍 Banter Bites: Books for Cooks, Notting Hill

A charming neighbourhood gem cooking a new dish every day from one of their cookbooks.

Affordable, delicious, cosy and endlessly inspiring.


📺 Banter TV: Better Things

Warm, funny, sharp and deeply human. A beautifully observed show about motherhood, chaos, creativity and the emotional absurdity of everyday life, (Celia Imrie stars in this program!)


📚 Banter Book: All Fours by Miranda July

Unusual, intimate, funny and wildly imaginative.

A bold look at identity, relationships and creativity.


🍽️ Recipe of the Week: Jules’s Duck Parmentier


Ingredients:

– 4 confit duck legs

– 1 large onion, finely chopped

– 2–3 garlic cloves, minced

– Fresh thyme (a few sprigs)

– Splash of white wine or chicken stock

– 1kg potatoes, peeled & chopped

– Butter (50–70g)

– Milk or cream

– Salt & pepper

– Parmesan or breadcrumbs


Method:

1. Preheat oven to 180°C.

2. Remove skin & shred the duck.

3. Sauté onion, then garlic, add duck, thyme + splash of wine/stock.

4. Make mash with potatoes, butter, milk/cream, salt + pepper.

5. Layer duck mix in a baking dish.

6. Spread mash on top.

7. Sprinkle Parmesan or breadcrumbs.

8. Bake 25–30 mins until bubbling and golden.


A luxurious, comforting dish that tastes like far more effort than it takes.


Thank you so much for listening to Banter 💛

If you’re enjoying the show, following on Spotify and rating on Apple helps more people discover it.


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1 month ago
26 minutes 4 seconds

Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.
Ep.7 - Solo Shows, Flaky Commitments & The Dress Dilemma

This week, Anu dives into solo adventures, flaky commitments, goes on the hunt for the perfect ball dress and a hilarious age mix up confession. Plus a gripping book pick, a binge-worthy TV thriller, a favourite Chelsea noodle bar and an easy rotisserie chicken and stacked sweet potato recipe, perfect for cozy November Sundays. Real talk, real life - and all the Banter in between. 


🎭 Solo Outing to a Show: The Rest Is Politics Live

Anu heads to the Hammersmith Apollo alone to see The Rest Is Politics live and unexpectedly loves every minute of her solo adventure. From pre-show nerves to interval Prosecco, she finds freedom, joy and a surprising sense of empowerment.


🤷‍♀️ Flaky Commitments: High Stakes vs Low Stakes Friends

Anu chats about the unexpected schedule changes that pop up in life, how we cope when plans shift and the funny way we all fall somwhere on the "cancel or commit" spectrum.


👗 The Great Dress Hunt for the Ball

Three dresses. One ball. Zero patience for skimpy shapewear.

From Harrods to GANNI to a velvet surprise on King’s Road, Anu tries to find the dress while her husband suddenly takes an interest in her outfit!


📚 Banter Book Corner: The Trading Game by Gary Stevenson

Anu begins this gripping memoir about a working class maths prodigy who lands at LSE and Citibank and narrates the audiobook himself. Intelligent, compelling and a fresh perspective on money, power and class. More thoughts to come once she finishes.


📺 TV Recommendation: All Her Fault (Now TV / Sky)

An eight episode thriller starring Sarah Snook & Dakota Fanning that hooks you from the first scene: a mum arrives to collect her son from a playdate… and the woman at the door has no idea who he is!


🍜 Restaurant Recommendation: Phat Phuk Noodle Bar

A long-time favourite just off King’s Road.

Order the laksa (not the pho!) - rich, flavourful and unforgettable.


😂 Banter Confession : The Case of the Mistaken Age

No listener confessions this week, so Anu shares her own:

A woman mistakes her for her 41-year-old friend’s mother… and then another person once suggested she and her mum were her dad’s two wives.

Mortification. Comedy gold.


Got a confession? DM @banter.pod - she wants them all!


🍽 Recipe of the Week: Effortless Sunday Lunch

A store-bought rotisserie chicken paired with:

• crispy sweet potato stacks,

• roasted broccoli, and

• sautéed garlic mushrooms,

finished with a bright homemade parsley sauce blitzed with olive oil, lemon and cottage cheese for a protein hit.

Delicious. Simple. Perfect for a lazy Sunday.


Thank you for listening to Banter - Real Talk, Real Life.

If you’re enjoying the podcast, please rate on Apple Podcasts or leave a comment on Spotify - it truly helps the show grow. 💛

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1 month ago
28 minutes 8 seconds

Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.
Ep.6 - November Blues, Type 1 Strength and Self Care Comforts

Do you ever wake up and just feel… beige? Welcome to November - that weird, in between time before the Christmas rush begins. This week, Anu talks about those November blues, finding small joys and why getting “drunk on nature” might just be the best therapy 🌲


💙 Real Life, Real Talk – Life with Type 1 Diabetes

Anu opens up about her son’s Type 1 Diabetes and how it’s brought both challenges and unexpected gifts; from resilience to community. With the Breakthrough T1D Ball coming up (where she’s giving a speech!), she shares the nerves, the gratitude and the funny little moments that keep her grounded.


🎁 The Spirit of Christmas (…aka Shopping for Myself)

Festive sparkle, warm lights and yes, a touch of self gifting. Anu shares her trip to the Spirit of Christmas Fair, her thoughts on festive chaos and the quiet joy of treating yourself ✨


🍝 Restaurant Recommendation – Lassagino, Richmond

A tiny Sardinian gem (also known as the “Ted Lasso restaurant”) full of charm and authenticity. Delicious food, cosy atmosphere - just don’t sit upstairs if you don’t love narrow stairs! Perfect for a date night, meal for four or a little winter indulgence.


📚 Banter Book of the Week - All of Us by Elizabeth Day

A clever, layered and morally complex novel about friendship, privilege and ambition. One of those stories that pulls you in and makes you question every character - perfect for fans of sharp, thought provoking fiction.


🎶 Music Pick - Lily Allen, West End Girl

Lily’s first album in seven years - honest, messy and emotional. It’s full of raw storytelling and perfectly imperfect truth. One for your playlist this week.


😂 Banter Confessions

This week’s Banter Confession is a classic - one that’ll have you laughing out loud. Want to share your own?

👉 DM Anu on Instagram @banter.pod


🥣 Recipe of the Week - Roasted Butternut Squash, Lentil, Italian Sausage & Cavolo Nero Bowl

Proper November comfort food; healthy, hearty and full of flavour!


Ingredients:

• 1 small butternut squash, peeled & cubed

• 2 Italian sausages (or swap for chicken, any sausage or mushrooms)

• 1 tin green lentils, rinsed & drained

• 1 small bunch cavolo nero (or kale), chopped

• Olive oil, salt & pepper


Method:

1️⃣ Preheat the oven to 200°C (fan 180°C).

2️⃣ Toss the squash cubes with olive oil, salt and pepper. Roast for 25-30 minutes until golden and caramelised.

3️⃣ Pan fry the sausages until browned and crispy, then slice into bite sized pieces.

4️⃣ Sauté the cavolo nero with a drizzle of olive oil until just wilted.

5️⃣ In a large bowl, combine lentils, roasted squash, sausage and cavolo nero.

6️⃣ Drizzle with olive oil or balsamic glaze and toss gently.


Simple, satisfying and full of goodness; comfort in a bowl. 💛


So if November’s got you feeling a bit grey, remember: a little nature, a good meal and some Banter always help!


Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please follow, comment and share with someone who might be feeling those November blues too.

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1 month ago
27 minutes 58 seconds

Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.
Ep.5 - Half term, Heidelberg and Habits

From Banksy exhibitions to budgeting and our very first Banter Confession, Anu’s back with a full mix of real life and reflection.

Half-Term Highlights
Half-term fun with her daughter: a trip to the Banksy: Limitless exhibition and dinner at Temper  (a true “meat central” experience). Then off to Heidelberg to visit her eldest son; sunshine, chats about budgeting and that bittersweet joy of seeing your kids find their way.

Money Matters at 50
Anu opens up about financial confidence - wishing she’d learned to invest earlier, inspired by Lise Thorne and Adrianne D’Souza. From discovering tools like Marcus and Chip to teaching her kids good money habits, it’s all about starting where you are and feeling empowered.

This Week’s Picks
🎭 Every Brilliant Thing with Minnie Driver - touching and unforgettable.
📺 Slow Horses (S3), The Iris Affair and Blue Lights - binge-worthy favourites.
📚 Still Life by Sarah Winman - warm, beautiful escapism after last week’s heavy read.

Banter Confessions
It’s here! Our very first Banter Confession! Funny, honest and perfectly imperfect - exactly what this new segment’s all about.

Recipe of the Week – Easy Asian Bowl with Thai Salmon
A quick, flavour-packed favourite to reset after a meat-filled week.

Ingredients:

  • Salmon fillets

  • Oyster sauce, soy sauce, fish sauce, garlic & brown sugar

  • Broccoli (pan-fried in sesame oil)

  • Aubergine (miso, sesame oil & maple syrup)

  • Jasmine or sushi rice

  • Spring onions, seaweed strips & sriracha

Method:

  1. Marinate salmon and cook in air fryer or oven.

  2. Stir-fry broccoli, glaze aubergine.

  3. Serve over rice, top with seaweed, onions & sriracha.

Fresh, easy, and full of flavour - exactly how we like it!


✨ Subscribe, rate & share Banter if you’re enjoying it so far and send in your confession for next week’s show!

banterrealtalk@gmail.com

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1 month ago
27 minutes 29 seconds

Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.
Ep. 4 - Relationships You Can’t Choose (and Other Real Life Realities)

From family drama you can’t choose to birthday chaos, half term plans and a brand new “Banter Confessions” segment. Anu gets real about life’s messy bits, one laugh (and sigh) at a time.


Welcome back to Banter - real talk, real life and just enough chaos to keep it interesting.


💬 Relationships You Can’t Choose
Anu dives into those tricky relationships we don’t get to pick: siblings, in-laws and all the emotional baggage that comes with them. From passive aggression to guilt and boundaries, she opens up about learning to protect your peace and why it’s okay to love someone but not actually like them.


🎂 Birthday Chaos and Gift Fails
With her husband away for his birthday and her daughter turning 12, Anu reflects on low-key celebrations, the half-eaten Toblerone disaster and how parent birthdays always seem to come last.


🎉 Keeping Kids’ Parties Simple
From being her own entertainer (“pirate lady”, “quiz master”, and “wicked witch”) to the power of pass the parcel and sandwiches, Anu shares her tried and true formula for stress-free fun.


🌧️ Half Term and Family Time
Plans for London exhibitions, a mother and daughter theatre trip and a reunion with her son in Heidelberg, Germany. Real talk on letting kids grow and giving them the spaceto thrive.


📺 TV Pick of the Week – “Film Club” on BBC iPlayer
A warm, quirky series about friendship, film nights and connection. Features Aimee Lou Wood and Suranne Jones.


📚 Book of the Week : “Nobody’s Girl” by Virginia Roberts Giuffre
A powerful, heartbreaking memoir from one of Jeffrey Epstein’s victims. An unflinching look at injustice, survival and the fight for truth.


😳 New Segment : Banter Confessions
Anu introduces a new listener segment inspired by Lockdown Secrets. Expect anonymous, hilarious and shocking real life confessions: starting with a wild “cat mix up” story that you won’t believe!

Do share your confessions with us: banterrealtalk@gmail.com


🥧 Recipe of the Week – Caramelised Butternut Squash, Blue Cheese & Pecan Tart
Ingredients:

  • 1 puff pastry sheet

  • 1 small butternut squash (roasted)

  • 2 onions (caramelised or use jarred)

  • Blue cheese (like Stilton)

  • Handful of pecans (crushed)

  • 1 egg (for wash)

Method:

  1. Roast chopped butternut squash until golden.

  2. Caramelise onions (or use a jar).

  3. Layer onions on pastry, top with squash, blue cheese & pecans.

  4. Brush with egg wash and bake for 20 mins until puffed and golden.

  5. Serve with rocket & parmesan salad — simple, delicious, and a total crowd-pleaser.


👉 Follow Anu on Instagram @banter.pod for photos, confessions & more!


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2 months ago
34 minutes 32 seconds

Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.
Ep. 3 - Mounjaro, Baby!

Anu gets real about her Mounjaro journey - from miracle weight loss to mystery side effects. Plus a mammogram mishap, a Vinted victory and aVictoria Beckham moment that'll make you laugh.

💉 Mounjaro and Anu's Weight Journey
Anu opens up about her Mounjaro experience; the highs, lows and what happens when the magic fades. Honest, funny and full of real talk about health, hormones and self-acceptance.

🩺 The Mammogram Moment
A mammogram story that’ll make you laugh (and remind you to always pack your AKT deodorant).

🧥 Vinted Find of the Week
From Erica Davies’s Instagram to Vinted. Anu’s dream Essential Antwerp coat finally found its way home! Proof that patience and a little scrolling magic pay off.

📺 TV Recommendations

  • Victoria Beckham: The Documentary (Netflix) chic, polished, fascinating and surprisingly funny. Plus, a real-life VB encounter from Anu’s Tennis Club days.

  • Frauds (ITV)  Suranne Jones and Jodie Whittaker bring humour, heart and chaos to this clever, sun-soaked drama.

🎧 Podcast Pick
Coining It with Lewis Goodall: a gripping story of Bitcoin, luck and moral choices. Smart, surprising and totally bingeable.

🍽 Restaurant Recommendation
The Base (Barnes) : relaxed, stylish and home to one unforgettable Bakewell tart. A true local gem for brunch or a glass of wine.

🥘 Recipe of the Week
Baked chicken with cannellini beans, onions and garlic, served with miso-maple cabbage and roasted radish. Sweet, salty and even better the next day.

📸 See all the photos, finds and foodie moments on Instagram → @banter.pod


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2 months ago
32 minutes 31 seconds

Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.
Ep. 2 - Mums, Teens and Everything In Between

This week, Anu is back with more Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.  reflecting on motherhood, milestones and the beautiful chaos of everyday life.

Here’s what’s inside:

👩‍👧‍👦 Life and Reflections → Anu shares an update on her eldest son (spoiler: Germany calls!), her daughter settling into secondary school and a big family moment - her mum’s 75th birthday.
From family dinners to small moments of gratitude, she opens up about navigating midlife, parenting teens and finding balance in the in-between.


📚 Book Corner → Anu pays tribute to Jilly Cooper and her classic "Rivals".

Anu dives into three compelling reads; autobiographies andmemoirs that explore resilience, creativity and the power of personal storytelling.

1. Born a Crime by Trevor Noah

2. From Here to the Great Unknown by Lisa Marie Presley and Riley Keough

3. The Many Lives of Mama Love by Lara Love Hardin


🎭 Culture Spotlight → Theatre is back on the agenda! Anu reviews her trip to Shaftesbury Theatre where she treated her mum to watch Just For One Day: The Live Aid Musical.


📺 TV  → Slow Horses on Amazon Prime


📱 Lifestyle Find → The app that’s changing the way she dines out (yes, you’ll want to download this one too): First Table - Anu was able to treat her family to a love meal at Red Farm Restaurant with 50% off!


🍴 Recipe of the Week → Natalie Chassay’s Miso Maple Chilli Sweet Potatoes with Coriander, Lime & Jalapeño Dressing — a vibrant, crowd-pleasing dish that Anu has already made twice (and counting!).

Here’s how to make it:

🥔 Ingredients
For the sweet potatoes:

  • 2 - 3 medium sweet potatoes, chopped into bite size chunks

  • 1 tbsp miso paste

  • 1 tbsp maple syrup

  • 1 tsp chilli flakes (or chilli oil)

  • 1 tsp sesame oil

For the dressing:

  • 1 large handful fresh coriander

  • Juice of 1 lime

  • ½ fresh jalapeño, roughly chopped

  • 1 tbsp olive oil (optional)

  • Pinch of salt

🔪 Method

  1. Preheat oven to 200°C (fan 180°C).

  2. Mix miso, maple syrup, chilli flakes, sesame oil together and coat sweet potatoes well.

  3. Roast for 25–30 mins until golden and crisp.

  4. Blitz coriander, lime, jalapeño, olive oil, and salt for the dressing.

  5. Serve by drizzling the green dressing on top or smearing it on the plate first for that restaurant-style look.

✨ Anu’s tip: “Simple, fresh and full of flavour — just how I like it.”

It’s warm, relatable, and full of those little slices of life that make you nod, smile, and think, “Yes, me too.”


Real talk, real life, and all the Banter in between.

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Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.
Ep. 1 - Back to School, Summer Reflections and the First Banter

The Banter officially begins!

In this first episode, Anu - lawyer, mum and unapologetic pop culture lover introduces Banter: Real Talk. Real Life. with a mix of honest reflections and weekly recommendations.


Here’s what’s inside:


👩‍👧‍👦 Life & Reflections → Back to school, back to reality and a summer split between Austria and Portugal.

Anu shares the hilarious twist of booking a holiday in Albufeira with her 16 year old son and his friend, only to discover their accommodation was right on the party strip!

Shocking at first but fun in the end, proving sometimes it’s good to do something different. Meanwhile, her husband and daughter enjoyed a quieter Austrian getaway.

And now the family waits on news: her eldest son’s plans to study in Germany.

Anu also touches on being part of the sandwich generation where she cares for both her family and elderly parents.


📚 Book of the Week → My friends by Frederick Backman


📺 What I’m Watching → Department Q, Netflix


🎭 Culture Spotlight →Sing Street Musical, Lyric Theatre


🍽 Restaurant Picks → Jin Bao, Kew and Zazza Korean Noodles, New Malden


🍴 Recipe of the Week → Cauliflower Cheese

Ingredients: Cauliflower head

Gratted cheese

Paprika

Garlic Powder

Dry parsley

Salt and pepper

Red onions

2tsp brown sugar

Method: Cut cauliflower into steaks, pieces also fine.

Sprinkle garlic powder, paprika, salt, pepper and dry parsley.

Roast for 20 mins.

Take out and add grated cheese.

In one pan, sauté one long sliced red onion. Add sugar, salt and pepper.

Once cauliflower is golden and crispy, sprinkle the onion mix and serve!


It’s honest, warm, and the perfect mix of lifestyle, culture, and real talk - like catching up with a friend over coffee or wine!

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2 months ago
32 minutes 54 seconds

Banter: Real Talk. Real Life.
Banter: Real Talk. Real Life. is your weekly lifestyle podcast and catch up with Anu - lawyer, mum and unapologetic pop culture lover. Every Monday, Anu shares her take on the week’s headlines alongside book recommendations, easy recipe ideas and honest reflections on juggling work, motherhood, and creativity. Plus, she brings you lifestyle recommendations for where to eat, what to watch and what’s worth experiencing; from theatre and films to restaurants and everyday discoveries. Think of it as your Monday radio show for real conversations, honest banter, big laughs and little escapes.