In this powerful episode of Becoming Sound, Krista Zaft sits down with Danielle Miller to unpack her deeply personal story of growing up in a strict evangelical household shaped by purity culture, control, and shame. Danielle opens up about the lasting impact of religious expectations on her identity and self-worth, sharing how early messages about obedience and perfection shaped her inner world.

Through honest reflection, she discusses her experiences in a Christian school, her struggle to fit in, and how rebellion became a form of survival. As an adult, Danielle began the difficult but liberating journey of questioning beliefs, healing from internalized shame, and rediscovering her authentic self. This conversation explores faith, freedom, and the courage it takes to redefine spirituality and womanhood on your own terms.

If you’ve ever wrestled with the weight of religious conditioning or struggled to separate your worth from external approval, this episode will speak straight to your soul.

Takeaways

• Puritanical religious upbringing can shape identity through fear, shame, and control.
• Purity culture often distorts one’s sense of self-worth and personal agency.
• Rebellion can be a natural response to oppressive belief systems.
• Healing requires questioning old narratives and redefining spirituality.
• Self-acceptance and grace are essential parts of personal growth.
• Embracing your gifts and authenticity leads to true liberation.
• Letting go of judgment creates room for compassion and connection.

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