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Becoming Sound
krista-451
74 episodes
1 week ago
On the Becoming Sound podcast we explore the unique challenges faced by adult children of alcoholics. Join us as we share personal stories, engage in insightful expert interviews, and offer practical tips for navigating the complexities of growing up in environments shaped by addiction and dysfunction. We deep dive into the intricacies of our lives, examining how they influenced our identities. Discover tools for self-awareness, releasing old patterns, and how to build resilience. We will uncover the wisdom in the wounds and find humour and joy in the healing journey. https://kristazaft.com/
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On the Becoming Sound podcast we explore the unique challenges faced by adult children of alcoholics. Join us as we share personal stories, engage in insightful expert interviews, and offer practical tips for navigating the complexities of growing up in environments shaped by addiction and dysfunction. We deep dive into the intricacies of our lives, examining how they influenced our identities. Discover tools for self-awareness, releasing old patterns, and how to build resilience. We will uncover the wisdom in the wounds and find humour and joy in the healing journey. https://kristazaft.com/
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Becoming Sound
Ending the Year Softer: Lessons, Gratitude & Choosing a New Pace

As we close the door on 2025 and step into a brand-new year, Krista Zaft invites you into a reflective, honest solo episode of Becoming Sound - one rooted in gratitude, growth, and gentle truth-telling.

In this episode, Krista shares the powerful lessons she learned in 2025 and the things she’s deeply grateful for, offering insight into self-love, fear, manifestation, curiosity, and the importance of slowing down—especially when life forces your hand.

From reprogramming limiting beliefs and reframing fear as excitement, to learning how thoughts shape reality and why curiosity can be healing, this conversation is a reminder that growth doesn’t come from pushing harder—it comes from becoming more aware, more compassionate, and more intentional.

Krista also opens up about a life-altering car accident late in the year that required her to slow down, listen to her body, and release old patterns of over-functioning. Instead of ending the year depleted, she chose to finish it softer, clearer, and grounded—entering 2026 with less pressure and more presence.

This episode is for anyone:

  • Reflecting on a challenging or transformative year
  • Working on self-love and mindset shifts
  • Navigating fear, transitions, or personal growth
  • Ready to move into the new year with intention—not burnout

If you’re craving permission to slow down, choose yourself, and move forward with clarity and compassion, this episode is for you.

If this episode resonated with you, I’d love your support.
Please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share this episode with someone who might need it—it truly helps these conversations reach the people they’re meant for.

And if you’re feeling ready to shift old patterns, gain clarity, or move into the next season of your life with intention and support, coaching can be a powerful next step. You’ll find links in the show notes to explore what that could look like.


Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 TikTok:   https://www.tiktok.com/@kristazaft?lang=en

🔗 YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft


📣 ➡️ Unfiltered AF Event: 

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Thank you for being here, for listening, and for allowing me to be part of your journey.
Here’s to a new year—gentler, clearer, and more aligned. 💛


Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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6 days ago
15 minutes 18 seconds

Becoming Sound
Oversharing with Shannon: Holiday Trauma, Mom Guilt & McDonald’s on Fine China

Christmas can be magical… and brutal. In this holiday episode of Becoming Sound, Krista and Shannon celebrate one year of “Oversharing with Shannon” with a conversation that’s equal parts hilarious and honest.

They talk about growing up with dysfunction and hyper-vigilance during the holidays - and how Christmas can carry both joy and emotional landmines. Shannon shares what it was like to stop celebrating Christmas during junior high and high school due to religion, and how that absence shaped her relationship with the season. The conversation also touches on divorce, shared custody, lonely Christmas moments, and the heavy pressure many parents, especially moms, carry to make the holidays “perfect.”

This episode is a permission slip to drop unrealistic expectations and create traditions that actually work for your real life—whether that’s a smaller celebration, cozy connection, or even McDonald’s on fine china.

If the holidays feel complicated for you, you’re not alone. This one is for anyone navigating grief, family stress, old programming, or the quiet work of rewriting the season on your own terms.

Key Takeaways

  • Christmas doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s to be meaningful
  • Your kids don’t need perfection—they need you
  • Traditions can change and still be beautiful
  • Presence > presents
  • Let go of what you think holidays should be
  • Cozy, simple, honest connection is enough                                       Connect with Us: 

  • 🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

    🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

    🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

    🔗 TikTok:   https://www.tiktok.com/@kristazaft?lang=en

    🔗 YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft


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Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.    


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2 weeks ago
37 minutes 59 seconds

Becoming Sound
Modern Day Courage: Jalene Murphy’s Journey Home to Herself

In this episode, Krista sits down with author and mental health advocate Jalene Murphy for a vulnerable, wide-open conversation about courage, self-discovery, and what it really takes to walk away from the life you thought you should live in order to step into the one that’s actually yours.

Jalene shares the heart and grit behind her book Modern Day Courage, diving into the perfectionism she wore like armor, the identity shifts she navigated after leaving a heterosexual marriage, and the emotional weight of bullying that shaped her early years. Together, they explore the role of community, the quiet bravery of baby steps, and the power of choosing authenticity over expectation.

This is an episode for anyone who’s ever felt torn between who they were taught to be and who they’re becoming.


Takeaways

  • True courage often looks like tiny steps, taken consistently.
  • Perfectionism can keep you from seeing yourself clearly.
  • Healing isn’t linear — but self-awareness makes it possible.
  • Community is essential; no one grows in isolation.
  • Embracing your identity is an act of liberation.
  • Sharing your story creates connection, hope, and healing for others.


Connect with Jalene:

🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jalenemurphy/

🔗 Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/jalene.smith.7

🔗 LinkedIn: JaleneMurphy

🔗 Website: www.jalenemurphy.com

🔗 Book Modern Day Courage  https://www.amazon.ca/Modern-Day-Courage-Jalene-Murphy-ebook/dp/B0CDC7V5RD

🔗 Artist: Chris Chipak  https://www.inchipakwetrust.ca/


Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 TikTok:   https://www.tiktok.com/@kristazaft?lang=en

🔗 YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft



Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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3 weeks ago
52 minutes 50 seconds

Becoming Sound
You’re Not Alone: Navigating Social Media, Vulnerability & Becoming You with Natasha Soregaroli

In this week’s conversation, Krista sits down with young author and mental-health advocate Natasha Soregaroli, whose book Becoming Me Again dives deep into the emotional reality of growing up in a hyper-connected digital world. Together, they unpack the pressures of social media, the weight of comparison, and the loneliness that often hides behind the screen.

Natasha opens up about her journey through self-doubt, journaling her way toward clarity, and finding confidence through action - not perfection. Krista and Natasha explore how parents can shift from controlling to coaching, how vulnerability creates connection, and why young people need safe spaces to question, explore, and simply be.

This empowering episode reminds listeners that self-discovery isn’t a one-time event - it’s a lifelong invitation to know yourself more deeply and grow with intention.


Key Takeaways

  • Self-discovery is a lifelong practice, not a finish line.
  • Social media can be both supportive and emotionally overwhelming.
  • Parenting is most powerful when rooted in guidance, not restriction.
  • Confidence grows through small, consistent actions — not waiting to feel ready.
  • Journaling helps release emotional clutter and builds inner awareness.
  • Vulnerability in writing or sharing creates real connection and healing.
  • Community support is essential for young people navigating their identity.
  • Curiosity and self-questioning strengthen emotional well-being.
  • Celebrating achievements helps integrate growth and build resilience.
  • Every person — at any age — faces moments of self-doubt and loneliness.


Connect with Natasha: 

🔗 Email: natashasoregaroli@gmail.com

 🔗 Website: https://www.natashasoregaroli.com

🔗  Insta: @natasha.soregaroli

🔗  LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/natashasoregaroli

🔗  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@natashasoregaroli


Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 TikTok:   https://www.tiktok.com/@kristazaft?lang=en

🔗 YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft



Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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1 month ago
38 minutes 44 seconds

Becoming Sound
Love on the Sidewalk: KL Wells on Parenting Through Addiction, Chaos & Courage

In this powerful episode of Becoming Sound, Krista sits down with KL Wells for a deeply human, soul-steadying conversation about addiction, recovery, parenting, and what it really means to love someone through their darkest moments. KL shares her raw journey of growing up around addiction, raising a child in crisis, and discovering that resilience isn’t born from perfection - it’s built in the trenches.

Together, they explore the emotional weight families carry, the importance of boundaries, and how self-care becomes a lifeline instead of a luxury. KL reflects on her work in the recovery community, the stories she’s gathered through her own podcast, and how sharing truth dismantles stigma. This episode is an empowering reminder that healing isn’t solitary, it’s communal. And even in chaos, hope, connection, and higher consciousness can rise.

If you’re navigating addiction personally or loving someone who is, this conversation offers compassion, clarity, and real talk about what thriving in the middle of the storm actually looks like.


Key Takeaways

  • KL’s story shows how childhood addiction shapes identity—and resilience.
  • “Being the love on the sidewalk” is one of the most profound ways to support someone in crisis.
  • You can care deeply and hold boundaries—support doesn’t mean self-abandonment.
  • Thriving in chaos comes from intention, not perfection.
  • Understanding addiction helps us respond with empathy instead of fear.
  • Self-care is a form of leadership, not selfishness.
  • Even the darkest moments can birth purpose and healing.
  • Community and shared stories are essential in recovery.
  • Talking openly about addiction breaks shame and stigma.
  • Awakening to higher consciousness creates space for collective healing.

Connect with KL Wells:

🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/klwells1/

🔗 IG:  https://www.instagram.com/voicesincourage/

🔗 FB: https://www.facebook.com/katherine.wells.98

🔗 YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@voicesincourage

🔗 TEDx Talk: https://youtu.be/SM4uxpBN-g8


Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 TikTok:   https://www.tiktok.com/@kristazaft?lang=en

🔗 YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft



Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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1 month ago
1 hour 42 seconds

Becoming Sound
Unwrapping the Pressure on Oversharing: How We Can Ditch Holiday Overwhelm and Ask for Help

Holiday Hustle? I think not! Listen in as Krista and Shannon dive into the emotional weight women often carry not just during the holiday season, but in regular life - the endless to-do lists, the unspoken expectations, and the perfectionism that leads straight to burnout. Together, they unpack the patterns that keep women stuck, specifically, Krista's recent mini melt down and how Shannon came to the rescue (that's what besties are for) to cycles of overfunctioning and overwhelm, and explore practical ways to reclaim peace, presence, and perspective. It’s easier than you think.

The conversation touches on everything from emotional expression and asking for help, to finding simple and practical steps that actually support you (not add more to your plate). Krista and Shannon share personal stories and hard-won lessons about setting boundaries, simplifying commitments, and recognizing when “coping” has turned into overcompensating.

This episode is a gentle but honest reminder that you don’t have to do it all — and that sometimes the most powerful thing you can do for yourself and your family is to pause, ask for help, and prioritize your own well-being.


Key Takeaways

  • Women often internalize the pressure to “do it all,” especially during the holidays.
  • Recognizing and interrupting old patterns is key to emotional health.
  • Asking for help shows strength, not weakness.
  • Emotional expression helps release overwhelm and create clarity.
  • Evaluate what truly fills your cup — and let go of what drains it.
  • A tidy environment often leads to mental and emotional clarity.
  • Mindful coping mechanisms, like small acts of self-care, can help restore balance.
  • Shifting direction in life doesn’t mean failure; it means growth.

👉 Grab the free Self Love guide at kristazaft.com to start unlearning the patterns of overwhelm and begin building a life where you're supported, seen, and thriving. We aren’t meant to do this alone!


Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 TikTok:   https://www.tiktok.com/@kristazaft?lang=en

🔗 Watch Us on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft


Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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1 month ago
36 minutes 56 seconds

Becoming Sound
Breaking Free from Purity Culture: Danielle Miller on Shame, Control, and Reclaiming Self-Worth

In this powerful episode of Becoming Sound, Krista Zaft sits down with Danielle Miller to unpack her deeply personal story of growing up in a strict evangelical household shaped by purity culture, control, and shame. Danielle opens up about the lasting impact of religious expectations on her identity and self-worth, sharing how early messages about obedience and perfection shaped her inner world.

Through honest reflection, she discusses her experiences in a Christian school, her struggle to fit in, and how rebellion became a form of survival. As an adult, Danielle began the difficult but liberating journey of questioning beliefs, healing from internalized shame, and rediscovering her authentic self. This conversation explores faith, freedom, and the courage it takes to redefine spirituality and womanhood on your own terms.

If you’ve ever wrestled with the weight of religious conditioning or struggled to separate your worth from external approval, this episode will speak straight to your soul.


Takeaways

  • Puritanical religious upbringing can shape identity through fear, shame, and control.
  • Purity culture often distorts one’s sense of self-worth and personal agency.
  • Rebellion can be a natural response to oppressive belief systems.
  • Healing requires questioning old narratives and redefining spirituality.
  • Self-acceptance and grace are essential parts of personal growth.
  • Embracing your gifts and authenticity leads to true liberation.
  • Letting go of judgment creates room for compassion and connection.


Connect with Danielle:

🔗 https://www.onpointwithdanielle.ca/

🔗 https://www.linkedin.com/in/dmilleryeg/


Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 TikTok:   https://www.tiktok.com/@kristazaft?lang=en

🔗 Watch us on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft


Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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1 month ago
57 minutes 37 seconds

Becoming Sound
The Healing Power of Words: Grief, DID, and Compassion with Mary Fields

In this episode of Becoming Sound, host Krista sits down with author Mary Fields, whose powerful memoir Forever in a Day delves into her lived experience of trauma, grief, and Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). Together, they explore the deep connection between writing, self-awareness, and healing, and how putting painful memories into words can become a catalyst for transformation.

Mary opens up about the loss of her father—the moment that inspired her to write—and how storytelling helped her process years of repressed memories and emotional pain. She speaks honestly about the foster care system, the impact of generational trauma, and her conscious decision to parent differently to break the cycle.

Mary reflects on the beauty of finding joy again, creating new traditions with her family, and using her voice to bring light to dark places.

Whether you’ve walked through grief, grown up in dysfunction, or are learning to rewrite your story, this episode is a reminder that healing is possible—and joy is worth reclaiming.


 Episode Takeaways

  • Writing can be a powerful tool for processing trauma.
  • Grief and compassion are deeply intertwined.
  • The foster care system needs empathy-driven reform.
  • Breaking the cycle of trauma starts with awareness and choice.
  • Parenting differently is an act of healing and hope.
  • Joy can coexist with pain—and both are part of recovery.


Connect with Mary

🔗 Website  www.merryassistant.com

🔗 Author website - www.authormaryfields.com

FB/IG @merryassistant


Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 TikTok:   https://www.tiktok.com/@kristazaft?lang=en

Watch Us on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft



Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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2 months ago
28 minutes 34 seconds

Becoming Sound
The Art of Becoming: Authenticity, Curiosity and Storytelling with Natalie Peterson

This episode of Becoming Sound, is packed with real talk and powerful insights. Krista sits down with Natalie Peterson to explore what it really means to live a life of healing, self-discovery, and authentic storytelling. Together, they dive into how multi-potentiality—embracing many passions and identities—creates a richer, more fulfilling life, especially in later seasons of change and transition.

The conversation moves through themes of generational trauma, rest as resistance, and the healing power of community and vulnerability. Krista and Natalie discuss how sharing our stories helps bridge generations, connect us to ancestral wisdom, and foster collective healing. They remind us that the future of storytelling lies not in perfection, but in authenticity, curiosity, and connection and how this inspired her new book Stories, Tools + Community for Healing Curious Humans


 Key Takeaways

  • The journey of self-discovery is ongoing and ever-evolving.
  • Multi-potentiality invites freedom to explore many paths in one lifetime.
  • Retirement can be redefined as a new chapter of growth and creation.
  • Storytelling connects, heals, and strengthens community.
  • Rest and reflection are vital to rejuvenation and creativity.
  • Ancestral wisdom deepens our connection to identity and purpose.
  • Authenticity and curiosity fuel the next generation of storytelling.


Connect with Natalie:

🔗 Website: https://www.bloomstruck.com/

🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nataliepetersen.v2

🔗 Podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/think-out-loud-with-me/id1813720844

🔗 Spotify  https://open.spotify.com/show/27hN5rDo6c3KWTyqeKkwsX?si=057b599c46ec4204


➡️ Buy the Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FTV8HXRK


Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 TikTok:   https://www.tiktok.com/@kristazaft?lang=en

Watch Us on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft


Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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2 months ago
51 minutes 50 seconds

Becoming Sound
Oversharing Gets Spooky: Why We’re So Obsessed with True Crime & Creepy Movies

In this special Halloween episode of Becoming Sound, Krista and Shannon lean into their spooky sides and unpack why so many of us are obsessed with true crime, horror movies, and all things creepy. They reflect on how childhood memories and early experiences may quietly shape our fascination with fear.

From nostalgic trick-or-treat tales and ghost stories to the deeper psychology of why we love the thrill of being scared, this episode dances between laughter, curiosity, and a touch of introspection. Whether you’re lighting candles, watching a slasher classic, or hiding under a blanket, this one’s for you - the sensitive souls who can’t resist a little chaos, curiosity, and candy corn.


Takeaways

  • Our fascination with fear often has roots in childhood experiences.
  • True crime and horror can give us a strange sense of control over chaos.
  • Halloween traditions can connect us back to creativity and playfulness.
  • Sharing ghost stories helps us bond — and laugh — over shared fears.
  • The “thrill” of being scared is actually a nervous system release (who knew?).
  • Sometimes, it’s not the monsters that scare us — it’s what they represent.

Connect with Us:

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 TikTok:   https://www.tiktok.com/@kristazaft?lang=en

🔗 Watch Us on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft

🎃 Craving more self-awareness with your seasonal scares? Download Journaling Prompts Dedicated to Nurturing Growth and Self Reflection at ⁠kristazaft.com⁠ — because even ghosts deserve emotional intelligence.


Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.


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2 months ago
58 minutes 24 seconds

Becoming Sound
Why the Hustle is Keeping You Unproductive: Slow the Hell Down!

In this episode of Becoming Sound, host Krista Zaft explores the tender transition from overfunctioning and people-pleasing to embracing mindfulness, balance, and calm. With raw honesty and personal insight, Krista reflects on how being busy once felt like safety, worthiness, and control — until she realized it was also a trauma response.

She shares her experience as a recovering overfunctioner learning to slow down, release perfectionism, and create space for alignment and peace. From journaling for clarity to reconnecting with the rhythms of nature, Krista reminds listeners that rest isn’t weakness — it’s wisdom. This episode is an invitation to question the constant hustle, honor your body’s pace, and rediscover your self-worth beyond productivity.


Key Takeaways

  • Busyness can be a trauma response rooted in control, worthiness, or avoidance.
  • Productivity does not equal value — your worth is not measured by your to-do list.
  • Slowing down allows your nervous system to regulate and your creativity to return.
  • Awareness is everything: ask if your actions are aligned or simply distractions.
  • The goal isn’t hustle or rest — it’s balance, intention, and self-awareness.


If you’re a recovering “I-can-do-it-all-myself” type, this episode is your gentle nudge to pause and breathe. Tune in, share it with a friend who needs this reminder and head over to https://kristazaft.com/free-resources# and grab some free resources.


Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 TikTok:   https://www.tiktok.com/@kristazaft?lang=en

Watch Us on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft


Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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2 months ago
13 minutes 58 seconds

Becoming Sound
Unmasking Identity: The Search for Authenticity in a Filtered World with Kim Long

In this episode of Becoming Sound, Krista sits down with Kim Long, registered psychologist and founder of Dochas Psychological Services, for a deep conversation about identity, authenticity, and self-discovery in the modern world.

Together, they unpack how our identities are shaped by early experiences, community influences, and the constant noise of social media. The conversation dives into how fear, comparison, and people-pleasing can disconnect us from who we really are—and how healing and emotional awareness can guide us back home to ourselves.

This episode offers practical insights on trusting your inner voice, navigating change, and learning to live with confidence and authenticity—even when the world tells you to be something else. It’s a must-listen for anyone ready to shed old stories, step into alignment, and embrace personal growth on their own terms.


Key Takeaways

  • Identity is fluid - it evolves as you grow, heal, and reconnect with yourself.
  • Authenticity requires safety - you need spaces and people who allow you to show up as you are.
  • Community shapes identity - who you surround yourself with influences who you become.
  • Fear is the gatekeeper - you can’t live authentically without facing what scares you.
  • Self-discovery is layered - every season of life invites a new level of awareness.
  • Healing brings clarity - it’s messy, emotional work that leads to freedom.
  • Social media can distort identity - comparison can pull you away from your truth.
  • Trust yourself - your intuition is your best compass for authenticity.
  • You can redefine yourself at any age - change doesn’t require permission.

🎯 Explore your own layers of identity with my free Journaling Prompts for Self-Discovery guide.  https://kristazaft.com/25-journal-prompts


Connect with Kim:

Kim Long, MC, R. PsychDirector, Dóchas Psychological Services, Inc.

Dochas website: https://www.dochaspsych.com/ 

Dochas Contact #: (780) 446-0300

Blog: www.dochaspsych.com/blog/ 


Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

Watch Us on YouTube:  https://youtu.be/hwYfvVwxPBk


Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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3 months ago
48 minutes 22 seconds

Becoming Sound
Healing from Within: Why Your Cells (and Your Story) Matter with Melanie Wakelin

In this episode of Becoming Sound, Krista sits down with Melanie Wakelin to dive into the fascinating intersection of nutraceuticals, health, and cellular activation—and how storytelling and community can spark true healing.

Melanie shares her journey in the health and wellness industry, highlighting the critical role of antioxidants—especially glutathione—in protecting the body against oxidative stress and supporting overall well-being. Together, Krista and Melanie discuss how substance abuse can deplete essential nutrients and the importance of replenishing the body at a cellular level.

But this conversation goes beyond science. They explore the power of vulnerability and how sharing personal stories creates ripple effects of connection, healing, and personal growth within communities. It’s a raw and real look at how podcasting, storytelling, and authentic conversations can transform both individual health and collective well-being.


Key Takeaways

  • Nutraceuticals harness natural compounds to support long-term health.
  • Cellular activation improves vitality and overall wellness.
  • Antioxidants, like glutathione, protect against oxidative stress and aging.
  • Substance abuse deeply impacts the body by depleting critical nutrients.
  • Storytelling fosters healing, resilience, and human connection.
  • Vulnerability is a catalyst for personal empowerment.
  • Community support amplifies growth and understanding.
  • Podcasting provides a platform for diverse voices and shared experiences.


Want to take this conversation deeper? Download my free journaling prompts guide on kristazaft.com to spark self-reflection, release stress, and reconnect with your own story. Because the real healing starts when you put pen to paper.


➡️ If this episode resonates with you, please share with someone you love, follow us on Apple and Spotify and subscribe to our YouTube channel, it helps to boost the content and help people find us! 

Connect with Melanie: 

🔗 https://activateandilluminate.com/

🔗 https://www.instagram.com/activateandilluminate/

🔗 https://protandimcanada.lifevantage.com/


Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft



Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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3 months ago
43 minutes 38 seconds

Becoming Sound
Oversharing with Shannon: Healing Sibling Stories (Without Giving Away Your Power)

In this Oversharing with Shannon episode of Becoming Sound, Krista and Shannon get honest about the messy middle of sibling relationships when you grow up in dysfunctional or addicted homes. Krista opens up about losing her brother and the complicated emotions that followed—guilt, shame, resentment, and love—while Shannon shares how violence with her brother shaped her early beliefs and boundaries. Together, they unpack why kids raised in the same house still have wildly different experiences, how to process what’s stuck in your body, and why peace doesn’t come from someone else’s apology—it comes from self-validation.


Key Takeaways

  • Same house ≠ same childhood. Different personalities, roles, and parental states mean siblings are effectively raised by “different parents.” (Shout to Gabor Maté’s insight.)
  • Grief is layered. Loss can surface old guilt, shame, and “shoulds.” That’s normal—and workable.
  • You don’t need their apology to heal. Real freedom comes from self-validation and releasing resentment in your mind + body.
  • Write it out or move it out. Journaling/brain-dumps and somatic release help move stuck emotion.
  • Timing matters. Some conversations need your nervous system to be ready—not just your mouth.

Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 YouTube:  https://youtu.be/1o7meM6e3Qw


If this hit a nerve (in the best way), share it with one person who needs permission to heal at their own pace. DM Krista on IG to talk privately, or leave a note on YouTube/Spotify. 

➡️ You can reach out for some free resources at  ⁠https://kristazaft.com/free-resources⁠


Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.







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3 months ago
43 minutes 34 seconds

Becoming Sound
Breaking Cycles and Finding Your Voice with Jody Lamb

Ever wonder if your story is worth sharing? Yes, it most definitely is and Jody Lamb is proof of that. In this episode, she opens up about her experience of growing up with an alcoholic mother and the ripple effects it had on her life. She shares what it means to navigate the world as an adult child of an alcoholic (ACOA) and the pivotal role that healing and community have played in her recovery.

Jody highlights the importance of self-care, boundaries, and the power of storytelling, not only as a tool for her own healing but as a way to inspire others walking a similar path. She also takes us behind the scenes of her writing journey, from publishing a book to help teens understand parental addiction to working on her upcoming memoir.

This conversation is an honest reminder that your story matters, recovery is possible, and it’s never too late to begin the journey of healing and breaking generational cycles.


Takeaways

  • Support groups offer community, understanding, and hope.
  • Writing and storytelling can be transformative healing practices.
  • Boundaries are essential for protecting your peace and building healthy relationships.
  • Addiction is not your fault—and recognizing that is freeing.
  • It’s never too late to step into recovery and growth.
  • Simple daily practices seem simple, but they are powerful.
  • You have the ability to break cycles and create a new legacy for your family.


Connect with Jody Here:

🔗 https://www.jodylamb.com/

🔗 https://www.youtube.com/jodylamb

🔗 https://www.instagram.com/jodymlamb

Connect with Us Here:

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft

🔗 Watch this episode on YouTube: 

https://youtu.be/KB-KMaI53AM

👉 Grab the free Self Love guide at kristazaft.com to start unlearning the patterns of over-functioning and begin building a life where you're supported, seen, and thriving.


Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.


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3 months ago
43 minutes 36 seconds

Becoming Sound
What Divorce Teaches Us About Identity, Grief, and Growth — with Jeff Kolez

In this heartfelt conversation, Krista sits down with Jeff Kolez to explore the emotional journey of life after divorce—especially for men. Together, they dive into the often-overlooked struggles of identity loss, emotional expression, and vulnerability that come with starting over.

Jeff opens up about his own experiences navigating grief, rebuilding self-identity, and learning to embrace emotional intelligence. They talk about how relationships act as mirrors, the importance of teaching resilience to children, and why asking for help is actually a mark of strength—not weakness.

This episode offers raw, practical insight into what it takes to heal, rebuild, and show up with authenticity in relationships and life.

Key Takeaways

  • Divorce can shake the foundation of personal identity.
  • Men often face barriers when it comes to emotional expression.
  • Emotional literacy is the key to healing and resilience.
  • Grief must be honored, not bypassed, to move forward.
  • Relationships reflect our inner world back to us.
  • Teaching kids resilience builds lifelong strength.
  • Asking for help is courageous, not weak.
  • Personal responsibility drives real growth.
  • Honest communication requires humility and trust.
  • Sitting with emotions—even the hard ones—is part of true healing.


Connect with Jeff:

🔗 Website: https://jeffkolez.com/

🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeffkolez/


Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft


✨ If this episode resonated with you, hit follow and share it with someone who needs to hear it. Subscribe on YouTube and your favorite podcast platform for more real talk and messy middles that lead to becoming sound.


Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.



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3 months ago
50 minutes 53 seconds

Becoming Sound
Unpacking the Adult Child: The ACA Laundry List (Replay of Episode 1)

In this replay of the very first episode of the Becoming Sound Podcast, Krista takes a deep dive into the lived experience of being an adult child of alcoholics and dysfunctional families. She unpacks the emotional and psychological impacts that ripple into adulthood, from self-doubt and perfectionism to people-pleasing and hyper-independence. Krista breaks down the well-known ACA laundry list of traits, showing how it can serve as both a mirror and a map for those on their healing journey.

More importantly, she emphasizes the power of sharing our stories—not just for ourselves, but for others who may feel alone in their struggles. Through self-awareness, community support, and the courage to speak out, healing becomes possible, and growth takes root. This is real talk about recovery, resilience, and the messy middle of becoming sound. 


Takeaways

  • Your story matters. Speaking it out loud can be the very thing that helps someone else heal.
  • Dysfunction hits differently. No two children experience the same family system in the same way.
  • The ACA laundry list is a tool. It highlights common traits and gives language to what once felt confusing or isolating.
  • Healing requires tribe. Connection and community support are essential for lasting recovery.


👉 Grab the free Self Love guide at kristazaft.com to start unlearning the patterns of over-functioning and begin building a life where you're supported, seen, and thriving.


Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft


      ACA Book:  ACA Big Red Book



Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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4 months ago
18 minutes 45 seconds

Becoming Sound
Transforming Tribes: Healing Soul Wounds & Collective Growth with Kathryn Sforcina

In this powerful episode of Becoming Sound, Krista Zaft sits down with Kathryn Sforcina to dive into the heart of Transforming Tribes—the idea that true healing and growth don’t happen in isolation, but in community. Kathryn shares her journey through life transitions, the wisdom behind her Wiser and Wilder Awakening program, and the deeply personal inspiration for her new book Bringing the Lost Parts of Me Home.  Together they explore the importance of collective healing, women’s empowerment, and self-discovery. This conversation is for anyone seeking transformation, deeper connection, and the courage to break through old patterns.

Krista and Kathryn explore the realities of carrying “soul wounds,” the concrete we collect from past experiences, and the courage it takes to break it apart so our roots can finally expand. They unpack how women can step into empowerment by reconnecting with their inner wisdom, leaning into community, and releasing labels that no longer fit.

This episode is a reminder that healing is lifelong, messy, and infinitely possible when we witness each other’s journeys.

Key Takeaways

  • Community and connection are essential for real transformation.
  • Healing requires courage to face the inner landscapes we often avoid.
  • Life transitions, though uncomfortable, hold the seeds of growth.
  • The Wiser and Wilder Awakening program offers women a supportive container for their journeys.
  • Soul wounds shape how we see ourselves—and healing means reclaiming the lost pieces.
  • We all carry “concrete” from our past, and breaking it open makes room for expansion.
  • Being witnessed and witnessing others is a form of collective medicine.
  • Labels may feel safe but can limit who we truly are.


Connect with Kathryn Here:

🔗Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kathrynsforcina/Keywords

🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kathrynsforcina/?originalSubdomain=au

🔗 Website: https://www.wildtribes.com.au/

🔗 New Book: https://books.by/kathrynsforcina


Connect with Krista: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft


👉 Grab the free Self Love guide at kristazaft.com to start unlearning the patterns of over-functioning and begin building a life where you're supported, seen, and thriving.

➡️ Don't forget to hit the Follow Button, Share and visit me on my socials!

Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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4 months ago
52 minutes 21 seconds

Becoming Sound
Oversharing with Shannon: Celebrating One Year of Becoming Sound 🎉

This episode is a celebration — Becoming Sound is officially one year old! 🥳

Over the past year, this podcast has been a space for growth, healing, and connection through raw conversations and powerful stories. In this special anniversary episode, host Krista Zaft sits down with her friend Shannon to reflect on the lessons learned, the importance of vulnerability, and the life-changing impact of sharing our stories in community.

Together, they talk about what it takes to keep showing up, even when fear and doubt whisper otherwise, and how podcasting has become a form of therapy and empowerment. Krista also shares her vision for the next season of Becoming Sound — bringing in even more diverse voices and continuing to highlight the transformative power of storytelling, not just through trauma, but through inspiration, hope, and possibility.

Takeaways from This Episode

  • A heartfelt celebration of one year of Becoming Sound
  • The courage it takes to face fears and doubts head-on
  • How podcasting has deepened listening skills and self-discovery
  • Why vulnerability creates stronger human connection
  • The vital role of community in personal growth and healing
  • A shift toward amplifying more stories of inspiration and resilience
  • Deep gratitude for the listeners and supporters who made this first year possible


💌 A Note from Krista

Thank you for being here, for listening, and for walking this journey with me. Your support, messages, and shares have made this podcast what it is today — and I couldn’t be more grateful. Here’s to another year of growing, healing, and becoming sound together.

👉 If you haven’t already, make sure to follow, share, and subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and over on YouTube so you don’t miss what’s coming next. Your support not only fuels this show but also helps spread these conversations to those who need them most.


Connect with Us: 

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 TikTok:   https://www.tiktok.com/@kristazaft?lang=en

🔗 YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@kristazaft


Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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4 months ago
29 minutes 30 seconds

Becoming Sound
This is What Healing Looks Like: A Full Circle Moment of Love, Recovery & Gratitude

Three years ago, my family was in the trenches of addiction. This weekend, we celebrated my son’s wedding — a full-circle moment of love, recovery, and gratitude. In this short and heartfelt episode, I share how family, friends, and community can transform the hardest seasons into celebrations worth remembering.


Three years ago, my family was in the trenches of addiction — living day to day with heartbreak, fear, and the pain of watching someone you love self-destruct.
This past weekend, we celebrated my son’s wedding.

In this short and heartfelt episode, I share a powerful full-circle moment that reminded me of the impact of family, friends, community, and support in the journey of recovery. It’s about facing the hard moments, soaking in the joyful ones, and recognizing how far we’ve come when we do the work of healing.

Whether you’re in the middle of your own storm or celebrating a hard-earned victory, this is your reminder to keep going — because there is light, love, and possibility on the other side.


What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

  • How a family moves from heartbreak to celebration in just a few years.
  • The role of community, friendship, and support in recovery.
  • Why sitting in the moment — both the painful and the joyful — matters for healing.
  • A personal reflection on gratitude, growth, and what it means to truly come full circle.
  • How to hold on to hope when you’re still in the middle of the hard stuff.


If this episode gave you hope or reminded you of your own full-circle moment, share it with someone who needs to hear it.
And if you’re walking through a tough season right now, let this be your sign that change is possible — for you, your family, and your future.

✨ Let’s connect:

🔗 Website:  https://kristazaft.com/

🔗 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zaftkrista/

🔗 Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/krista.zaft/

🔗 TikTok:   https://www.tiktok.com/@kristazaft?lang=en

🔗 YouTube: https://youtu.be/gAafbqSfqns


If you haven’t yet, hit “Follow” on the podcast so you don’t miss next week’s special 1-year podcast birthday episode! 🎉


Please Note: The views, information and opinions expressed during the Becoming Sound podcast series are solely those of the individuals involved. The content of this podcast is to educate, inform and for entertainment purposes only. This podcast series  and the content presented does not constitute for medical or other professional advice or services. If you are in crisis or in need of help, please contact your medical or professional provider.

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4 months ago
9 minutes 24 seconds

Becoming Sound
On the Becoming Sound podcast we explore the unique challenges faced by adult children of alcoholics. Join us as we share personal stories, engage in insightful expert interviews, and offer practical tips for navigating the complexities of growing up in environments shaped by addiction and dysfunction. We deep dive into the intricacies of our lives, examining how they influenced our identities. Discover tools for self-awareness, releasing old patterns, and how to build resilience. We will uncover the wisdom in the wounds and find humour and joy in the healing journey. https://kristazaft.com/