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Behind the Paddle

Porcelain Victoria

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1 week ago

Send us a text In this episode of Behindthepaddle, we take a critical look at the widely circulated booklet Decriminalisation vs the Nordic Model. Rather than debating ideology, this episode focuses on how the argument is constructed — from the emotional framing in the opening pages to the way evidence from New Zealand, Germany, and Europe is later presented. We unpack how language, selective survivor testimony, and eye-catching statistics are used to guide the reader toward a predetermined c...

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Send us a text In this episode of Behindthepaddle, we take a critical look at the widely circulated booklet Decriminalisation vs the Nordic Model. Rather than debating ideology, this episode focuses on how the argument is constructed — from the emotional framing in the opening pages to the way evidence from New Zealand, Germany, and Europe is later presented. We unpack how language, selective survivor testimony, and eye-catching statistics are used to guide the reader toward a predetermined c...

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Episodes (20/105)

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E106: The Lies of the NordicModelNow - Part 1 Booklet

Send us a text In this episode of Behindthepaddle, we take a critical look at the widely circulated booklet Decriminalisation vs the Nordic Model. Rather than debating ideology, this episode focuses on how the argument is constructed — from the emotional framing in the opening pages to the way evidence from New Zealand, Germany, and Europe is later presented. We unpack how language, selective survivor testimony, and eye-catching statistics are used to guide the reader toward a predetermined c...

1 week ago

1 hour 29 minutes

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E104 :International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers — 17th December

Send us a text Today we will be talking about International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. This day exists because too many people who sold sex were harmed, ignored, disappeared, and killed and because the world decided that was acceptable, or at least inevitable. Some sex workers' deaths,assaults, disappearances aren't even accounted for. For the people whose lives were reduced to headlines that began with “Prostitute found…” Never questioned why, why did they happen. What can we d...

2 weeks ago

42 minutes

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E103: How to be you Part 10

Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...

3 weeks ago

1 hour 1 minute

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E102: Burke & Haire Edinburgh's Serial Killers & Strip Club

Send us a text Today we dive dep into the serial killers Burke & Haire learning how Edinburgh has encapsulated these killers into the modern day world Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

4 weeks ago

46 minutes

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E101: Bettie Page

Send us a text Before BDSM had a place in the public eye, one woman stepped into the frame and smiled through the ropes. In this Behindthepaddle deep dive, Victoria explores how Bettie Page a Southern girl with a homemade fringe revolutionised erotic culture. From her trauma-shaped childhood to the Klaw Studios era of playful bondage, from moral panic to mental-health battles, and finally to her mythical return as a feminist and fetish icon, this episode reveals the woman who made kink ...

1 month ago

22 minutes

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E100: How to be you Part 9

Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...

1 month ago

53 minutes

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E99: Windows of Amsterdam

Send us a text Wanna hear me go on a rant about how families should teach their kids about sex etc ? I try twice to focus back to Amsterdam the Prostitute Museum but there are so many reasons why as a society we see sex as taboo. Please listen in on how I a sex worker of 8yrs found Amsterdams Red Light District. Decriminalisation all the way Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

1 month ago

1 hour 25 minutes

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E98: What's been happening ?

Send us a text In this episode I talk about how hectic the past two months have been with BBC interviews, Parliament visits, being a single mum and my Amsterdam work trip away. Want to know what its like being a sex worker ? Its just like any other person doing a job, this one is just a little bit more interesting than most Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

1 month ago

1 hour 11 minutes

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E97: How to be you Part 8

Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...

2 months ago

53 minutes

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E96:The Rage Before the Storm: Living with PMDD

Send us a text In The Rage Before the Storm: Living with PMDD, Porcelain Victoria delves into the raw, cyclical reality of Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder a condition that turns the body’s natural rhythm into emotional warfare. Blending medical insight, feminist critique, and intimate storytelling, this four-hour episode explores the science, stigma, and survival behind PMDD. From hormonal sensitivity and misdiagnosis to relationships, rage, and reclamation. Support the show Check out our soc...

3 months ago

30 minutes

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E95:How to be you part 7

Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...

3 months ago

54 minutes

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E94: Collars and Creatures: Inside the World of Petplay

Send us a text What happens when humans shed language, drop to all fours, and find freedom in a collar? In this deep-dive Petplay episode of Behind the Paddle, host Porcelain Victoria explores the culture, psychology, and practicalities of pet/handler dynamics from ancient animal rites to modern pup hoods and kitten ears. You’ll hear: What petplay is (and isn’t): clear consent lines, why it’s not zoophilia, and how sexuality ranges from non-sexual nurture to explicitly erotic power exchange.A...

3 months ago

45 minutes

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E93:How to be you part 6

Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...

3 months ago

53 minutes

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E92: The Nordic Model vs. Decriminalization

Send us a text Behindthepaddle podcast takes listeners inside one of the most polarizing debates in feminist and political history: the Nordic Model versus decriminalisation of sex work. With personal testimony, global case studies, and voices from sex-worker–led groups like SWARM, Scot-PEP, and Umbrella Lane, this episode dismantles myths, exposes the harms of Ash Regan’s proposed “End Demand” Bill in Scotland, and contrasts it with New Zealand’s evidence-based model of decriminalisati...

3 months ago

38 minutes

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E91:How to be you part 5

Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...

3 months ago

1 hour 1 minute

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E90:Burgers and Ballgags: Inside Munches and Play Parties in the BDSM World

Send us a text From diner booths to dungeon floors, “Burgers and Ballgags: Inside Munches and Play Parties in the BDSM World” explores the social and sexual spaces where kink comes alive. Porcelain Victoria guides you through the history, the people, and the rules that shape these gatherings from the casual comfort of a munch to the charged intensity of a play party. This is not porn, not fantasy, but the real story of how community, consent, vulnerability, and desire meet in public kin...

3 months ago

51 minutes

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E89: Secrets in the Sheets: Husbands, Fetishes, and the Cost of Silence

Send us a text Welcome to Behindthepaddle. I’m Porcelain Victoria, and this episode… is a tender one. Today, we’re stepping into the bedroom but not just for fun. We’re pulling open the drawer of secrets. Hidden fetishes. Quiet urges. And those deeply human moments when a husband or partner finally tells the truth… to the person they love most. We’re talking about the difference between being honest and being unfaithful. Between sharing a kink and hiding it with someone else. Between keeping ...

4 months ago

42 minutes

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E88: How to be you part 4

Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...

4 months ago

53 minutes

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E87:Crayons, Contracts, and Care: Inside the World of DDLG and Caregiver/Little Dynamics

Send us a text Behindthepaddle Podcast invites you inside one of the most tender, misunderstood, and intimate corners of the BDSM world: Caregiver/little dynamics. We explore the acronyms (DDLG, CGL, MDLB, Littles, Middles, Brats), the psychology of regression and attachment, the rituals of rules and punishments, and the playful, sometimes erotic, worlds of diapers, pacis, and discipline. We dive deep into: What regression really is (and isn’t)Why structure makes Littles feel safeThe brat’s d...

4 months ago

51 minutes

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E86: How to be you part 3

Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...

4 months ago

22 minutes