In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman interviews Lauren Elise Rogers, a certified holistic sexuality educator and intimacy coach. They discuss the journey from a sex-negative upbringing to crafting a fulfilling and values-aligned sex life. Lauren shares her personal story of overcoming restrictive beliefs rooted in a conservative religious background, through education, therapy, and self-discovery. They explore the concept of sexual scripts and the importance of integrating positive sexual beliefs and values into one's life. The discussion touches on the impact of societal and cultural narratives on sexuality, the role of media, and the significance of writing one's own sexual values mission statement. The episode aims to inspire listeners to rethink and reclaim their sexual identities.
00:00 Introduction to Better Sex Podcast
00:48 Guest Introduction: Lauren Elise Rogers
02:02 Lauren's Background and Upbringing
03:47 Marriage and Personal Struggles
05:01 Turning Point and Seeking Help
07:33 Rebuilding and New Beginnings
10:48 Professional Journey and Current Work
13:08 Exploring Sexual Scripts and Beliefs
16:20 Exploring Sexual Scripts and Improv
17:32 Revisiting Sexual Beliefs and Values
19:17 Crafting a Sexual Values Mission Statement
21:33 Integrating Sexuality into Everyday Life
25:00 The Role of Erotic Literature
29:14 Connecting and Resources
30:35 Conclusion and Listener Engagement
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Bio:
Lauren Elise Rogers is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. Lauren brings an empathetic and non-judgmental approach, offering practical tools that empower her clients to take ownership of their pleasure and grow in confidence and connection. She is known for creating shame-free spaces, where she invites individuals and couples to navigate complex topics like long-term partnerships, consensual non-monogamy, life transitions, purity culture and LGBTQIA+ issues.
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