In this episode, Kevin and Britta share the story of their magical first date and the early stages of their relationship. Not as a formula to copy, but as a lived illustration of the most powerful leverage point in relationships: who you are being.

They explore the shift from looking for the “right person” to choosing a way of being that feels aligned, embodied, open-hearted, and enjoyable, and how that choice transforms every relationship in your life.

Britta shares the intentional way she dated during that season: loving the person in front of her fully, savoring her own feminine essence, staying rooted in pleasure, keeping a low filter for first dates and a very high filter for second ones. She loved who she was being, and she met so many incredible men — a reminder that our way of being shapes our reality.

Kevin reflects on the leadership and vulnerability he brought from the very first date, including the moment he shared, “I’m going to love whoever I’m on a date with fully,” and how clear context and boundaries created safety, containment, and deep attraction.

Together, they explore:

• choosing your way of being as a moment-to-moment practice

• why vulnerability is the pathway to intimacy

• how “givers with boundaries” thrive in love and business

• why leadership begins in the body, not the mind

• experimenting with loving whatever is right in front of you

• how shared context can create instant chemistry

This episode is an invitation to remember your agency and ask, in any moment:

Who do I want to be right now?

And what becomes possible when that answer leads?

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Britta: ⁠⁠brittakristin.com⁠⁠
Kevin: kevinhasfun.com