In this 60th episode, marking 14 months of weekly conversations, Britta and Kevin explore emotional inquiry and the role of “cleaning up” in human development.
Using a simple developmental map — waking up, growing up, showing up, f***ing up, and cleaning up — the conversation focuses on how unresolved emotional material shapes perception, behavior, and relationship when it remains unconscious.
They reference Carl Jung’s insight that until the unconscious is made conscious, it will rule our lives and we will call it fate, and bring this into lived experience. Kevin shares a personal example of becoming defensive and controlling with Britta, and how emotional inquiry revealed the emotional distortion beneath the reaction.
The episode points to the wisdom revealed through emotional inquiry — not by getting rid of emotions, but by meeting them directly. Resistance is identified as the true source of suffering, while emotions themselves are shown to be workable and informative.
Two practical ways of engaging in emotional inquiry are explored:
• a relational, expressive method using sound, movement, and dialogue
• a slower, somatic approach that meets sensation and internal resistance with curiosity
This episode offers a grounded look at emotional inquiry as a practice that restores clarity and emotional fluidity.
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In this episode, we explore one of the most charged and misunderstood dynamics in relationships — when one person is fully ready for commitment and the other is not there yet.
We share the real story of a season in our relationship when Britta was a wholehearted yes to marriage and Kevin was not ready. Instead of treating this as a “problem,” we talk about the shift that changed everything: not knowing is not a problem.
We look at why so much mainstream relationship advice pathologizes this moment, how that reinforces insecurity, and what becomes possible when you step out of adversarial narratives like “he has commitment issues” and into curiosity, truth, and personal responsibility.
Inside the episode, we explore:
• the hidden advantage in seasons of unequal commitment
• how to reveal what you want without agenda or attachment
• why being a “yes” to your partner’s “no” creates safety instead of pressure
• bringing clean fire when fear (not wisdom) is running the show
• the three-question framework that opens a deeper intelligence
• a simple experiment that shows how you generate your own internal experience — and the physics of relating from awe, appreciation, and curiosity
This one is a recalibration of how we see commitment, desire, timing, and truth in relationships — and an invitation to live from the deeper well of your own wellbeing rather than outsourcing your okayness to your partner.
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What if the most transformative practice you could start wasn’t something you learned from a book or a coach — but something you invented yourself?
In this mini episode, Britta and Kevin explore the power of designing your own experiments: simple, intentional practices that shift you out of old patterns, accelerate insight, and reconnect you with your own authority.
Inspired by a real 30-day experiment Britta created for herself, we talk about:
• why every “official” practice was originally made up by someone
• how waiting for the right exercise keeps you stuck
• why all data is good data (even the so-called failures)
• the freedom and fun that come with being an experimenter
• how starting laughably small can change everything
If you have been trying to get it right, this is your reminder to make things up, try things out, and let life show you what works.
Creating your own experiments is how you accelerate your growth — and reclaim your authority.
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In this episode, Kevin is joined by returning guest Brendan Lea for a deep, candid exploration of agendas, intuition, and the integrity of teaching. Together they look at what becomes possible when you stop trying to be helpful and start working without an agenda — and how dropping that hidden impulse changes the entire texture of a conversation.
They talk about the strange art of teaching, the challenge of meeting people exactly where they are, and the way intuition shows up as an undistorted knowing beneath all of our habits of thought. Kevin shares how he uncovered an unconscious agenda to be helpful, the helplessness sitting underneath it, and the freedom that opened up once he stopped running from that feeling.
The conversation moves into vulnerability as a practice, the difference between being vulnerable and feeling vulnerable, and why telling the truth you’re most afraid to say often shifts everything. They also explore shame as a view, the “yeah, but” dynamic, and the wisdom inside patterns we’re quick to judge or eliminate.
They close with personal reflections on authority, empowerment, and what it takes to dissolve old internal structures at the root.
About Brendan:
Inviting You To Consciousness and Skill Worldwide. Brendan’s commitment to study and training has led to great awareness and understanding of the dynamics of mind and body as they apply to interaction and skill. Through years of intense contemplation he has also developed a deep understanding of his own condition and had a deep enlightenment experience at twenty-seven. This allows him to powerfully facilitate others in having the breakthroughs and insights necessary to expand their own consciousness. Brendan Lea first met Peter Ralston, the founder of Consciousness and Skill Worldwide, when he was seventeen. Within days of meeting him, Brendan committed himself to a life of study and moved to Texas to be at the Cheng Hsin Center. From the age of eighteen Brendan has been in attendance to every apprentice program that has been offered at the Cheng Hsin center in Pipe Creek, TX.
Websites: thebrendanlea.com and peterralston.com
Skool Community: skool.com/the-consciousness-path
Youtube: www.youtube.com/@TheBrendanLea
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In this episode, Kevin and Britta share the story of their magical first date and the early stages of their relationship. Not as a formula to copy, but as a lived illustration of the most powerful leverage point in relationships: who you are being.
They explore the shift from looking for the “right person” to choosing a way of being that feels aligned, embodied, open-hearted, and enjoyable, and how that choice transforms every relationship in your life.
Britta shares the intentional way she dated during that season: loving the person in front of her fully, savoring her own feminine essence, staying rooted in pleasure, keeping a low filter for first dates and a very high filter for second ones. She loved who she was being, and she met so many incredible men — a reminder that our way of being shapes our reality.
Kevin reflects on the leadership and vulnerability he brought from the very first date, including the moment he shared, “I’m going to love whoever I’m on a date with fully,” and how clear context and boundaries created safety, containment, and deep attraction.
Together, they explore:
• choosing your way of being as a moment-to-moment practice
• why vulnerability is the pathway to intimacy
• how “givers with boundaries” thrive in love and business
• why leadership begins in the body, not the mind
• experimenting with loving whatever is right in front of you
• how shared context can create instant chemistry
This episode is an invitation to remember your agency and ask, in any moment:
Who do I want to be right now?
And what becomes possible when that answer leads?
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You can choose who you’re being — in any moment.
This short episode explores one of the simplest, most overlooked truths: that being is a choice, and it’s the highest leverage point we have. We talk about how the left brain forgets this power, how shame can distort it, and what becomes possible when you remember that being directs doing.
An invitation to pause, remember, and play with the question:
Who would I like to be next?
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What if the “how” mattered more than the “what”?
In this continuation of our conversation with Fawn Miller, we explore the essential question that follows the recognition of our culture’s left-brain dominance: now what?
Together, we unpack why trying to “fix” the problem with left-brain solutions only deepens the divide — and how true change begins in our orientation. From shame-based fixing to loving witness. From procedure to presence. From control to groove.
Through stories, science, and lived wisdom, we explore what it means to return to harmony between the hemispheres — and why thriving, in life or leadership, is less about finding the right answers and more about finding the right way of being.
Listen to our first episode with Fawn — Designed to Thrive on Apple and Spotify.
About Fawn:
Fawn Miller helps brilliant humans embrace their calling and bring their Thrive Mode to life. She's a master-level coach with over 7,000 hours of experience guiding highly ambitious humans ready to create the thriving experience they truly desire. Fawn is the founder of the acclaimed Life. Fun. Purpose.™ program and framework, and brings over 20 years of study in coaching, human potential, neuroscience, and consciousness studies to her work. She specializes in life design, personal freedom, and helping people align with their authentic purpose. When she's not activating Thrive Mode in others, Fawn lives in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico with her life partner, two dogs, two cats, and their rescue possum named Possibility.
Website: fawnmiller.com
Resources:
“The Divided Brain” documentary based on Iain’s first book and foundational research
“Intro to Iain McGilchrist” Youtube playlist of Fawn’s recommended intro interviews
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Unscripted. Unfiltered. Unexpectedly tender.
In this next installment of our ongoing conversation with Fawn Miller, Britta and Kevin explore what it means to live from right-brain awareness — not as a concept, but as a way of being. The conversation unfolds in real time, with moments of laughter, tears, and raw honesty as they follow the thread from control to flow, grief to freedom, structure to spontaneity.
They explore how the left brain’s grip on certainty and perfection can disconnect us from wisdom and wellbeing — and how everything changes when we let the right brain lead. This is a conversation about permission, integration, and remembering the innate intelligence that moves through us when we stop managing ourselves and simply let life move.
Listen to our first episode with Fawn — Designed to Thrive on Apple and Spotify.
About Fawn:
Fawn Miller helps brilliant humans embrace their calling and bring their Thrive Mode to life. She's a master-level coach with over 7,000 hours of experience guiding highly ambitious humans ready to create the thriving experience they truly desire. Fawn is the founder of the acclaimed Life. Fun. Purpose.™ program and framework, and brings over 20 years of study in coaching, human potential, neuroscience, and consciousness studies to her work. She specializes in life design, personal freedom, and helping people align with their authentic purpose. When she's not activating Thrive Mode in others, Fawn lives in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico with her life partner, two dogs, two cats, and their rescue possum named Possibility.
Website: fawnmiller.com
Resources:
“The Divided Brain” documentary based on Iain’s first book and foundational research
“Intro to Iain McGilchrist” Youtube playlist of Fawn’s recommended intro interviews
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What if the life you actually want is waiting on the other side of what feels hardest to say?
In this mini episode, we explore vulnerability as a living portal — a way of meeting the moment that opens deeper truth, intimacy, and alignment.
When you’re willing to say what’s never been said, you step into the life that’s been trying to find you all along.
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What if shame isn’t a feeling, but a lens — a habitual way of seeing yourself or life as wrong?
And what if recognizing that is the first essential step toward freedom?
In this episode, we explore shame as a view of resistance — the stance that something in you or your experience should be different. From the subtle language of “should” to the impulse to control or manage what feels uncomfortable, we look at how this view creates suffering and separates us from the natural intelligence of life.
Through the lens of Process Work, we explore a different possibility: that every state, from freeze to forgetting to anger, carries its own wisdom when met with curiosity instead of correction.
An invitation to trust what’s unfolding, soften resistance, and let life show you what it’s trying to reveal.
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In this episode, we sit down with Randy Paris — playing the part of the thoughtful skeptic who has spent over a decade searching for peace, flow, and inner harmony. Together we explore what it means to live in a thought-created reality: how our experience is shaped not by circumstances themselves, but by the thinking we bring to them.
Randy voices the doubts many of us carry — “How does trusting yourself actually pay the bills?” — and we walk through real stories, including Britta’s two-day financial freakout in Berlin and the profound shift that came when she saw worry was optional. Along the way, we talk about the difference between left-brain anxiety and right-brain spaciousness, why panic narrows possibility while presence expands it, and how experimentation can help even the most skeptical mind find its own evidence.
The episode closes with a simple thought experiment you can try yourself: live for a time as if reality is 100% thought-created — and notice the space beyond thought.
About Randy:
Randy Paris is a serial founder. His work has raised $50M+, created hundreds of jobs, and reached millions of people. He started his career at The White House, working on science and technology policy for President Obama. He has served as a Senior Fellow at the Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania, an Advisor to Schmidt Futures, and a Mentor at Techstars. He received his B.A. from Wake Forest University and his MBA from the University of Chicago Booth School of Business, where he graduated with distinction. Randy is a work in progress.
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In this mini episode, returning guest Tia Oaks reads “The Trier’s Manifesto” — a bold reclamation of what it means to want, to try, to fail, and to create anyway.
If you’ve ever pulled back out of fear of looking foolish, this is an invitation to lean in, to honor your attempts, and to see trying as the magic that shapes a meaningful life.
About Tia:
Tia Oaks is a transformational coach, magical menace, and psychic guide. Her work lives at the intersection of the mystical and the material, the spiritual and the practical. She helps people deepen their connection to intuition, spirit, and the unseen world.
Tia’s Website: tiaoaks.com
Tia’s Substack: @tiaoaks
Listen to What Calls to You Calls for a Reason on Apple and Spotify
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What happens when you treat your relationship like a kingdom with a clear leader?
In this intimate, layered conversation with our friend and fellow coach Josh Billings, we explore Kevin stepping into the role of “CEO of the relationship” — from sex life to conflict resolution — and the trust, boundaries, and vulnerabilities that come with it.
We also dive into Josh’s provocative distinction between encouragement and inspiration for men — why one can subtly disempower while the other calls forth real leadership — and how the way you see your partner shapes who they become.
A raw, revealing dialogue on power, polarity, and the unseen dynamics that can make or break intimacy.
Connect with Josh on Facebook and Substack
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What if the struggle you thought was required…never actually was?
In this conversation, Kevin talks with Jordan Kaltenbruner about her year-long coaching journey with Britta. She entered coaching believing she had to push, grit her teeth, and struggle to create the life she wanted — and over 12 months, that paradigm dissolved into something radically different: the discovery of fundamental wellbeing.
She once thought suffering was necessary to empathize — until the realization of a deeper okayness changed everything. She experienced a calm she’d never felt before, as the background hum of “it’s not okay” dissolved. From that place, her life, her business, and her service began to flow with greater ease, love, and impact.
Together, they explore:
• The moment Jordan realized fundamental wellbeing is always here
• How Britta’s unwavering presence helped her move through fear, darkness, and resistance
• Why certain somatic practices can add more layers of “stuff to fix” — and the liberating alternative of seeing thought for what it is
• The nervous system calm that followed — and the freedom it created in both her life and her work
Jordan’s story is a living demonstration of what becomes possible when we see through the illusion of struggle and return to the truth of our own okayness.
Want to dive deeper?
Check out Designed to Thrive: Harmonizing the Left and Right Brain ft. Fawn Miller on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.
Definition of “juicy” (a work in progress, by Jordan) —
Juicy: surrendering the ego’s fears in order to melt into the richness of life on earth
If you resonated with this episode and want to make a connection (or you need a place to share your own definition of a common word ;)), shoot a message to jordan.kaltenbruner@gmail.com or @goatlovehorn on Instagram!
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A fisherman enjoys a simple, spacious life. A businessman tells him how he could build an empire, retire rich…and then live the same simple life he already has.
In this short episode, we explore the question at the heart of this parable: What do you actually want?
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What is wisdom, really? Not the voice of the overthinking mind, but the simple, effortless intelligence already alive within you.
In this conversation, Britta and Kevin explore wisdom as an innate knowing — lighter and fresher than thinking, arising in the moment as subtle nudges or bold leaps. They share how it feels more like willingness than willpower, and how life unfolds with more ease and alignment when we listen.
Along the way, Britta offers original poetry, inviting you deeper into the living experience of wisdom — the still small voice, the presence of divine intelligence moving through you, the miracle available in every moment.
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The classic “marshmallow test” says it’s better to wait for two than to take one now…
But what about the strengths of the kid who grabs the marshmallow immediately?
In this short episode, we unshame the so-called impulsive choice — and explore how the “bugs” we’ve seen as flaws (ADHD, laziness, OCD tendencies, and more) might actually be features, even superpowers, when embraced.
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What if you stopped trying to get it right — and simply let yourself be fully, wildly you?
In this easy, emergent, playful conversation, astrologer, artist, and coach Tara Moraleda joins us to explore what it really means to live authentically — beyond the “shoulds,” beyond rigid professionalism, beyond who you think you’re supposed to be. Together, we unpack how to listen deeply to your own wisdom, embrace your weirdness, and let joy and authentic desire lead the way.
We talk about the suffering that comes from chasing false standards, the quiet power of asking “What do I actually want?”, and the freedom that opens up when you stop playing by someone else’s rules. Tara shares how she uses astrology as a mythic map — a kind of permission slip to trust your desires and your timing — and why enjoyment is not just allowed but essential.
This episode feels like what it points to: relaxed, real, and alive with possibility. It’s an invitation to stop trying to fit the box, start listening to yourself, and remember:
Authenticity isn’t a strategy. It’s the reward.
About Tara:
Tara’s work lives at the intersection of spirituality, art, business, and the planets. Explore her bestselling poetry book Infinite Love in Finite Forms and her other offerings on Instagram: @taramorelove
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The principle is simple: do the thing — and do it now.
Not when you feel inspired or “ready,” not once you’ve healed more, not after you get permission, and not once the timing is “perfect.”
Acting in the moment dissolves decision fatigue, shrinks fear back to size, and turns stuckness into flow.
In this episode, we share how we’ve used this principle everywhere — from everyday tasks to the so-called “big decisions” — and why waiting only slows your life, your growth, and your joy…and makes your world much smaller than it could be.
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From shamanic sinus cures to intention-setting rituals and the art of opening up — we answer your burning (and sometimes weird) questions in our first Ask Us Anything.
Expect personal stories, surprising practices that actually work, and a candid look at what’s inspiring, challenging, and changing us right now.
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