A marriage can feel shaky long before anyone says the D-word.
In this episode, Byron and Margaret talk with Dr. Becky Whetstone, PhD, Marriage and Family Therapist, Life Coach, and "Marriage Crisis Manager” about what happens when one person thinks they want out, and what couples can do before panic and chaos take over.
Dr. Becky shares why the "marriage crisis" creates a chase-and-run dynamic, why people make bad decisions when their nervous systems stay on high alert, and how her Managed Separation (MS) approach provides structure, purpose, and timelines when a separation occurs.
You'll also hear her practical take on:
“Checking in” and what it really signals in a relationship
The 3 foundations Sue Johnson taught for secure attachment in marriage
The “five stages of a dying marriage” and the early warning stage most couples ignore
Why many divorces turn ugly even when both people say they want peace
What she believes adults owe their kids if divorce happens
Dr. Becky's book: I (Think) I Want Out: What To Do When One Of You Wants To End Your Marriage
Website: marriagecrisismanager.com
If you've ever thought, "I'm not sure we're going to make it," this conversation gives you language, steps, and a calmer way forward.
What if one person could change the dynamic of a whole relationship?
In this episode, we sit down with Lindsay Jean—Registered Nurse turned Relationship Coach—whose personal journey from breakup to breakthrough sparked a calling to help couples reconnect.
We talk about:
Why the power struggle in relationships is inevitable
How to make change even when your partner isn’t interested in doing “the work”
What it means to wonder and look under in moments of conflict
How recurring arguments can actually be signs of growth
Real examples from Lindsay’s own love story that will give you hope
Whether you're in the roommate phase or deep in the trenches of conflict, Lindsay offers real-life tools that bring clarity, compassion, and connection.
Connect with Lindsay Jean:
Instagram: @loving.with.intention
Email: lindsay@lovingwithintentioncoach.com
YouTube: Loving With Intention
In this episode, we sit down and share some of the most real, honest pieces of our marriage journey. From being 22 and 23 when we got married to learning each other through raising kids, evolving as people, growing up together, and building a relationship that works because they choose to work on it, not because it’s perfect.
We talk about:
Why you can’t expect your spouse to meet every need
How they learned to pick their battles
Why “teamwork over scorekeeping” changed everything
Sex, connection, and trust
Communication inside and outside the bedroom
Evolving as individuals and as a couple
Why ignoring problems never makes them disappear
When divorce becomes a real conversation — and when it doesn’t
How small acts of effort anchor a marriage
A strong marriage isn’t about perfection. It’s about choosing each other again and again, being honest about what you need, putting in the effort, and remembering why you’re grateful for the person you get to share your life with.
Make sure to check out Part 1!
Robin and Scott’s story is full of small moments that add up to a big, steady, joyful love. They spent 30 years as friends before finally marrying, and now they’re almost two years into building a life together — laughing through differences, learning each other’s habits, and choosing peace every day.
They talk about:
Life after hitting the one-year mark
Finding harmony in the tiny everyday moments
Learning each other’s rhythms
Step-ladders, ketchup bottles, and grocery store routines
Friendship as the glue that keeps them grounded
Supporting each other’s hobbies and passions
Why their joy is so contagious
Strong marriages aren’t built on grand gestures. They’re built on tiny choices, daily softness, and the joy you choose to see in each other.
Robin and Scott’s story is full of small moments that add up to a big, steady, joyful love. They spent 30 years as friends before finally marrying, and now they’re almost two years into building a life together — laughing through differences, learning each other’s habits, and choosing peace every day.
They talk about:
Life after hitting the one-year mark
Finding harmony in the tiny everyday moments
Learning each other’s rhythms
Step-ladders, ketchup bottles, and grocery store routines
Friendship as the glue that keeps them grounded
Supporting each other’s hobbies and passions
Why their joy is so contagious
Strong marriages aren’t built on grand gestures. They’re built on tiny choices, daily softness, and the joy you choose to see in each other. Be sure to check out Part 2!
Kimberly and Adam’s story is one of those journeys that reminds you how love can unfold fast, steady, and intentional. They met online during COVID, built their connection in long car rides and park picnics, and created a relationship rooted in consistency, communication, and showing up for each other.
They talk about:
In this episode, we dig into the real signs couples ignore before and after saying “I do.” Using stories from Reddit and BuzzFeed, we break down seven warning signs that your relationship may not be aligned and then flip it with ten reminders that help you see when you did choose the right person.
It’s honest, funny, and, in moments, painfully real. We talk about trust, conflict, resentment, mismatched values, weaponized silence, and those small everyday behaviors that reveal who your partner really is.
In this episode, Rashad and Jatoya open up about love, family, and the small defining moments that built the foundation of their marriage. From meeting on Plenty of Fish to raising a blended family, navigating COVID, and supporting each other through career changes and personal growth — their story is full of memories that matter.
In this episode, we feature Aaron and Miranda, who remind us that real love isn’t built on perfection—it’s built on presence. From long-distance years to parenting through career chaos, they kept choosing to show up for each other, even when life made it hard. Their story proves that gratitude isn’t only about the easy moments; it’s about appreciating the effort behind the everyday.
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This one might ruffle some feathers—and that’s the point.
Relationship coach André Paradis joins us to challenge our thinking about love, gender roles, and the modern “freedom” that’s left many of us feeling disconnected. We discuss polarity, performance, why the masculine/feminine dynamic matters, and the real costs of dating without structure.
André’s views may not be for everyone, but they’re rooted in years of work with thousands of couples. If you’re open to rethinking how relationships work (especially if you’re a woman), this is the conversation you need to hear.
**Make sure to check out part 1 first**
This one might ruffle some feathers—and that’s the point.
Relationship coach André Paradis joins us to challenge our thinking about love, gender roles, and the modern “freedom” that’s left many of us feeling disconnected. We discuss polarity, performance, why the masculine/feminine dynamic matters, and the real costs of dating without structure.
André’s views may not be for everyone, but they’re rooted in years of work with thousands of couples. If you’re open to rethinking how relationships work (especially if you’re a woman), this is the conversation you need to hear.
In this raw and insightful episode, couples therapist and sex therapist Hanna Basel joins us to unpack the real reasons love gets hard—and why that doesn’t mean it’s wrong. We dive into common relationship myths, the effects of trauma and attachment styles, how to navigate mismatched libidos, and what truly changes when a couple shows up to do the work. Whether you're healing from infidelity, wrestling with disconnection, or just trying to love better, this conversation will leave you feeling seen, challenged, and supported.
In this NSFW episode, we’re joined by licensed marriage and family therapist and certified sex therapist Angela Skurtu. Angela breaks down how shame, silence, and purity culture have shaped our ideas about sex—and how couples can heal, reconnect, and reignite their intimacy.
We talk about:
The damage done by purity culture
How to teach kids about consent and healthy sexuality
What leads to sexless marriages
Why many women have never experienced real pleasure
The importance of communication, trust, and exploration in a healthy sex life
Angela shares real insights, helpful tools, and even a few laughs as we get honest about intimacy and relationships.
🎧 You’re going to want to send this one to your partner.
On this episode, we welcome back Tracy and Tabatha Thorell—high school sweethearts, parents of five, business partners, and all-around real ones. They get candid about what it really takes to stay connected through parenting, big pivots, and building a life together.
We talk about:
What it means to truly support your spouse
Why it’s okay to pivot (even when it feels like failure)
How to keep your relationship strong while raising kids
Teaching kids about dreams, money, and responsibility
Whether you’re newly married or 17 years in like they are, this one will hit home.
In this episode, we sit down with Verlyn Tarlton—author, podcaster, premarital coach, wife, mother of five, and grandmother of four—to have an honest conversation about marriage preparation.
Verlyn shares why understanding your "why" before marriage matters, how to shift from wedding day fantasy to real-life partnership, and the critical role of reflective listening. If you want a marriage that’s happy and sustainable (not just picture-perfect), this episode will open your eyes.
Connect with Verlyn: verlyntarlton.com
YouTube: The Before You Do Podcast with Premarital Coach Verlyn
In this episode, we chat with Brian Franklin, the co-founder and CEO of Vows and Speeches, a company dedicated to helping couples craft personalized wedding vows, speeches, and ceremony scripts. Brian shares his unique journey—from working in politics to helping couples create meaningful moments on their wedding day. He dives into the process of writing vows, common mistakes people make, and why your wedding speech should be as unique as your love story. Plus, he tells some hilarious and heartwarming stories from his work in the wedding industry.
Join us for this episode as we welcome back Marquis and Taylor from the U Stuck Wit Me podcast! They're sharing the keys to nurturing friendship in marriage, how they've supported each other's personal growth, and what has kept their connection strong through life's ups and downs. Tune in for laughs, heartfelt advice, and relationship gems you won't want to miss!
Ever feel like you’re stuck in the “busyness trap,” constantly moving but never really getting anywhere? In this episode, we sit down with Francine Tirrell, a mindset coach and energy healer, to talk about the importance of slowing down, tuning in, and trusting the journey.
Francine shares how a life-changing loss pushed her to leave corporate life behind and step into coaching. We also dive into:
If you’ve ever struggled with negative self-talk, unrealistic expectations in relationships, or simply feeling like you have to be productive 24/7, this episode is for you.
In this episode, we’re chatting about Walkway Wife Syndrome and what it means for modern marriage. We break down how changing roles and expectations are helping wives find their own space between tradition and personal growth.